Who understands female minds? Post ya advice. Thx
 

This girl I work with. She's pretty good looking. Anyways, last week we've been planning on hooking up Friday night and she was really stoked. However when friday came around I got super drunk and something else came up which I thought would be a better way to waste away my day off. I'm not saying that it wasn't, but I forgot to call her and tell her wtf I was doing (I was too drunk). Anyways, today I get back to work and she's still excited to see me whenever I show my face -- but not as much so as the week before. She's still excited to see me and all that when I'm around but she seems kinda dissapointed. What can I do to fix this? She's hot.

Oh, I told her I was sleeping. -- Well, I did end up sleeping at the end of the night, so I wasn't really lying -- LOL

rohypnol + baseball bat
tell her she had a great time but your cock is just too big.

I think I'm gonna goto a Ja Rule / Fat Joe / Sisqo / K-OS / Kardinal Official / Bubba Sparxx concert with her on Friday.. And I dont wanna miss that on the real!

To quote Lenny:

"Does this rag smell like chloroform to you too??" :winkwink:

if you like her and want to chill with her, take her out for a diner or whatever.

Fuck,


You're the man. I've been too consumed by alcohol to even consider this.

I should take her some where fancy, huh?

steak or lobster? what do you think?

dinner and some bar hopping would be nice to get her attention back.

That might be coming on a little too strong... don't set the bar too high right away... well unless you just want a gold digging cock-holster lol.

You suck at lying, apologize for your pathetic attempt and see if she is still d0wn. Then at least cancel the next time no phantom shit.

get a burger

and remind her "you can get cheese on that, its your world girl"

Well, she knows I did go out Thursday night. Because she always offer to drive me home -- and on Thursday I got her to drop me off at a buddies before going to the liqour store.. She couldn't come cuz she works Friday morning.

tell her that you are really upset that you couldnt see her so she knows that you care and then have a better excuse then that

I think you're right. I'll just have a good time w/ her at the rap concert this weekend -- show her a good time.. Maybe take her out for drinks after work every couple nights before getting at something like that

i probably already said that

How old are you, 16? You'll learn the ways of women's minds when you hit about 26 or so. I've just learned. No amount of study will explain what you're looking to know.

Women are strange creatures that defy logic. The younger ones especially so.

i'm - 21, 22 in august. i've been in a few serious relationships. they never worked out. either cuz i ended up living with the girl or i was always too focused on something else.

i'm not ready to be a pussy-whipped yuppie just yet. i like my freedom.

Do not, I repeat, do not enter a relationship of any sort with a co-worker. You are doing nothing but asking for trouble.

What are you going to do when the magic wears off? When you guys have your big fight, and now you are forced to see her 5 days a week, 8 hours a day?

What do you do when she decides to be a bitch and accuse you of sexual harassment? Do not think, "this will never happen to me." You are just fooling yourself.

I can think of a dozen cliches, including, don't shit where you eat, that might apply here, but suffice it to say, I am speaking from experience.

Like I have been telling my kids for 20+ years, learn from your mistakes, and whenever possible, learn from the mistakes of others. I also tell them, don't trust whitey, but that is a different story for a different day. The point is, you do not want to date a girl you work with. It is not worth the trouble.

So, you can either listen to me, and thank me later, or ignore my words of wisdom and come back at a later date and say, "you were right, I should have listened to you."

Also, please ignore xenigo's comments. If he thinks he has figured out the mind of a woman just because he turned 26, he is only fooling himself.

Also ignore the comments of any woman telling you to try and recover from the smartest thing you did yet (ie: not going on the date), they do not have your best interest in mind, and misery loves company.

Only a chick would say that

Obvious chick response . . . I can spot them without even looking at the names associated with them,

Have you seen her naked? Then why would you spend that kind of money on her? Denny's and IHOP are there for a reason.

Setting it way too high.

Too late, you already are.

Why live with a chick unless you are getting married? and don't think about marriage until you are 25+ Marriage wil only hold you down.

Thats a load of shit. But so is this thread... no one's this clueless.. coming to gfy with this shit is like going to Sleazy's house for a lettuce sandwich.

What exactly is "a load of shit?" That there is no reason to live with a chick if you are not going to marry her? Or that you should wait until you are 25 to get married?

This guy sickbeatz is a fucking tool. He is 16-17 TOPS... the fucking sheep around here amaze me... :1orglaugh

Why not just move on. Obviously you aren't that interested if getting crunked was more important and something better came up, so why fuck with someone you have to work with when you are probably just gonna kick yourself for it later.

Both. Although the second does have somewhat more merit.

Why would you live with someone you are not going to marry? What would be the point? That makes zero sense.

How are you going to be single, if you have some chick at home that you are in a relationship with?

Having a roommate is one thing, but it doesn't appear that is the situation.