Any of you married people go to swingers clubs?
 

Think it fucks up your relationship?

I just can't see another guy fucking my women.

it only works for a very select % of couples
but in the right situations - its all good and fun

There a good one here in SD..

Nah...but I would like to..without my wifey....:)

I should elaborate.

Yes, we've gone to several clubs.

Yes, it can definitely destroy your relationship. Does it work for some people? Definitely.

From what I've seen in documentaries, pretty much all people that frequent swinger clubs are entirely unattractive.

i dig it, its fun...oh I'm not married

we've visited a coupl, but nevere "hooked up". Just were curious and wanted to check it out. We've met some great people (and we haven't even fucked them). It is definitely a small % who can do it without issues. You have to be a super strong communicator and trust each 100% otherwise, it's a road to splitsville

:1orglaugh I noticed the same.... Same thing with people who go to "nudist" resorts...

My husband and I did. We're split up now, but for entirely different reasons. Actually, bringing another chick into our relationship helped us almost get things sorted, because it gave the marriage an infusion of passion...even when we weren't with her, it was like we were teenagers again, and we were fucking like rabbits and we were really intimate in other ways, too. But-he wasn't comfortable with sharing me with other men, and even though it isn't "fair", I respected that. It has to be a mutual thing..not one talking the other into it, or there will be major insecurity issues.

Me neither.