i am depressed :( my girl left me, i am offering to someone my galleries submitter
 

we simply had a perfect relationship, everything was great. we never argued with anything, in 2 years we never had a fight, nothing. we enjoyed same things we had same values. one day everything on my life started to go wrong, i was feeling sad with some serious health and social problems with some guys that i have helped to go out from the shit that payed me back fucking me big time, but thats another novel ...
anyway, some months ago she went to spain to study and when she came back she told me she needed a time alone to think, the things the talked were so incoherent, keeped telling me that i have been always great, she loved me, i was the man of her life but needed some time alone ... and she cryed cryed and keeped with this crap. As request of her we didnt talked for about the other month she returned to spain. i suffered a lot during that time, hoping she would return with the ideas in place and get back to me. she returned indeed and told me nothing... accidentaly i met her on the shopping and thats when she told me everything has ended and today finaly told me that the distance and someone made her do the decision. we had a perfect relationship, i took care of her like a princess :( didn't deserved this
more than 2 months have passed since this started and i didnt had a single chance to fix what was wrong and dont understand this. i am still sufering like hell, cant sleep, cant eat i am loosing weight my head is exploding .. fortunatly i have more girls interested on me (or my money) dont know anymore but i do loved her a lot it was like a piece of me. some of you will say to me forget her, there are a lot of woman blabla .. i know that but i cant just that easily forget and the the way things happened drives me crazy. i need help, need to find a way to take her out from my mind :(


also, i am entering exams season at university, as some of you know i study medicin dentary and my time is reduced, thats one of the reasons i post very few. some time ago i built one good database for galleries and i started to give work to my galleries submitter but my brain doesnt handle everything, specially now that i am thinking all the time on this all i want is to put my brain on ice. i am one of the owners of smokincash, we are going to add banners, a lot more FHG, some new exclusive sites and a new affiliate design. we have been on tests and soon we will be ready to start the promo of the program.

About my submiter, he is cheap and is good, i cant manage to have him working for me not right now and i could say to him simply to leave me alone. but i would like that someone could employ him. he needs the job if you are interested hit me up on the icq

dropping an employee isn't the thing to do when you want to forget...You need to keep pumpin so you can get more money.

I'm realy sorry for you that it realy sucks :(

As much as I'd like to tell you "get over it", I can so relate to the girlfriend thing. I was in my mid-20's and was seeing a nurse, was totally in love with her. She was an LPN, and wanted to go back to school to get her RN training. She went back to her home town to attend college, and of course..... met a guy. A few years later she ended up marrying that guy, and believe me I was messed up for a long time after the initial breakup.

The only thing I take issue with in your post is where you say "We had a perfect relationship"..... because YOU DIDN'T. Obviously there was something missing for her, otherwise she wouldn't be with some other guy.

The only thing that is remotely in the way of a solution I can tell you is this....

Time.

Time + a new girl (or two) + throw yourself into your work = retain sanity.

Hang in there it is hard but time will heal the wounds

wow sucks hope everythings gonna be ok agian soon...

so post some stuff bout him, rates, what hes capable off etc

Your girlfriend was cheating on you..

sorry but its true..

Dont sweat it ...It's like a car accident , nobody wants it to happen , but inevitably it will. Just make sure to wear a seatbelt and get a new car..

.medicin dentary? wtf maybe u should be studying harder. . :2 cents:


just kidding sorry about your girl life goes on

true.. thats what doesnt let me sleep. i have no clue what that is and she doesnt know very well either, at least she hasnt explained it to me. but we are gona talk oh we are ...

but things "seemed" perfect :(

i can probably help your submitter out, email me jim @ cherryhosted.com

Jim

CDSmith you are a solid individual.

div3x - best wishes man, you WILL make it through this.

-Phil

Concentrate on what has to get done - then concentrate on the good things going on - then when you've got a positive outlook and feel better find what went wrong with the relationship and learn from it. Don't let this consume your life - it's not going to do you any good - put it aside for when you're a little stronger and then take an objective look at the relationship and grow from there. Good Luck to you!

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Sorry to hear about your women problems.
All it takes is time, you will get over her no problem there.
I have 3 ex wifes, 2 of them cheated on me, and yes it hurt alot, but after a bit of time I forgot all about her.
Of course finding a new babe really helps, even a fuck buddy helps.
I was wish you good luck, Take care and keep working it helps too.

Hang in there man, Nothing hurts worse than losing a loved one like that. You'll prolly never make sense of it. I still can't make sense of losing my first love. The wound takes long to heal but it does heal.

sorry to hear about what happened, it will be over soon, you just need to pull through, same thing happened to me 3 years ago, i could not sleep/eat, etc for almost 3 months, body was tense all of the time, i could not believe a relationship could affect me so much, but there was the proof. it will take time and you will get over it

but dont forget that you are supposed to feel this way. when something like that happens, death of a loved one, etc...the body goes through a very brief, albeit intense period of depression, it will be over soon

hey man you are young, lots of women out there... i fear that experience when i am a little older and the sea of quality women decreases

It's not easy, but with time you will get thru it. You sound like a decent guy looking for the same qualities in a girl. Nothing wrong with that. Good luck.

Im really sorry to hear that, but I can tell you this: Dont try to forget her because it will be worse, keep this relationship as a good thing that you have. Only time will heal the pain.
A similar situation occured to me 2 years ago(without the girl travel)
I always remember her and yes it could be painful but I´ll keep it as a good time in my life. Now I have another girlfriend and we love each other.

some guys just shit on it and move on, i wish i didnt had such an soft heart. but the way u described it is exacly how i feel thats why i need to get rid of my less profitable biz i dont mind to earn less just dont want to start taking pills for the stress. i feel my head blowing, also i got ill what doesnt help a bit :/


Life aint easy i was just hoping now that she had the courage to meet me and personaly explain me the reasons ...

damn bro.. feel free to hit me up if you need anything.

but Im sure its for the best.. karma has a way of balancing things out

I am sorry :(

Sorry to hear man... hang in there.

damn thats so sad :(:(
i know the feeling..

See thats the problem.. You treated her too good.. If you were more of a man you could have "keeped" her..

Sorry to hear about that, but like many people on here suggested, throw yourself at your work. That might not make you feel better but at least you will be sad and wealthy instead of sad and poor...which is always better!

Damn, bro, I thought she just need some time to think and thats what will happen? yikes, I will never give my gf time to think :Oh crap

Its a very hard time now, it hurts like crazy when you are still in love...and its easy to say: Time will take you over it....Love is not easy and never logical

:( :( :(

yeah buying a porshe would help :)

I am very sorry to hear...

i should have listed to you when you told me to talk talk talk talk ....
but if this happened now it could happen on other time and would be worse

it depends a lot of the girls to talk or not to talk, she could go crazy for beeing pressed to talk. i dont know what should i have done or not. and stopping to think on these things was all i wanted. here i am just looking for some more experiences, to try to see other points of view, to enlarge my horizons

Well, not sure if this is what you wanna hear...

But obviously she didnt think things were as good as you did. Its quite obvious she met someone who "excited" more in some way when she was in Spain but wasn't ready to either totally ditch you...like she needed you in her back pocket...or she didnt want to go through the emotional exericise of just saying it was flat out over....Either way, it was a selfish move on her part....

So here's the other part you're not gonna want to hear...

She in all likelyhood won't be crawling back to you. If she does it will be in 5-10 years when you happen to see eachother and she has dealt with all the assholes out there and wants to be treated nicely again...perhaps this time for the rest her life. So as difficult as it may be...it might be time to move on...atleast for now.

That doesnt mean you have to start dating other girls...Most people dont want to date when they get out of a relationship. But what it does mean is...reconnect with your friends (many of us tend to ditch our friends when in love with that special someone) ...it means put yourself out there...do fun things......and above all....DONT SIT AROUND ON YOUR COMPUTER :thumbsup

it realy sucks :(

A new part of your life will start now




I know, thats something you don't wanna hear.

Fuck that bitch, you don't need her... enjoy your freedom.

Drink your sorrows away, that always seems to work.

wise guy.. i just had the chance to talk to her on msn now and that what has happened