Should we break up?? Im sad guys, whats the best thing to do???
 

Hey guys, hehe i dont like coming to GFY for advice but i wanna hear what u guys gotta say. Ok here's the dealio..

Im with my gf for 1yr now, we r both almost 20.. Ok the problem is im like black, and shes like indian... We love each other but we think we should break up cuz of the whole indian thing.. Like for example, HER PARENTS hate blacks and if u guys know how indians are, they gotta marry one of their own... So theres like a 99% chance she'll marry an indian guy while i go off and marry someone who is black... Shit she rather marry an indian guy too, saves everyone a lot of problems in the future..

I know this sucks but even if we dont listen to anyone and get married, it'll be so fucked up, like her parents will never talk to her, i/her would feel lost when it comes to indian stuff, cuz our traditions are totally different.. Has anyone here ever been in a situtation like this??? When u know u cant marry someone cuz of her race/tradition and cause of urs???

What should i do yo???

do you haveto get married now???

ur only 20 man

I'm like white. Not quite white, but like white.

love is love man

:1orglaugh

yes im only 20 but we r serious and if we keep going on, we'll be together for many years, i know we are not breaking up anytime soon..

So when im like 26, we would have been together for 7 years, at that point it hurts X10000 more to break up.

Ok dude, listen to the shit you're spilling....

Every girlfriends mom hates/is critical/ really hates whatever guy her daughter comes home with.

There's not many mothers in the world who would stop speaking to their daughter or something just because she was with some guy who doesn't get the 'seal of approval'...

They might make some silly show or not speak for some time or whatever, but it won't last. C'mon, break these silly customs like a man.

well 99% you are either american or canadian, you are no longer indian and black, face it.

who cares wtf her backwards parents have to say? that should be more reasons to stick it out and prove them wrong imo.

dude u dont know how indian parents are, they'll like disown her if she marries a black guy.. trust me..

they are FULL 100% Indians..

Go to india and try to marry a girl there, see what happens..

Nope... just become hindu dude, buy some religion or something.

i secertly dated a black man once cuz my family (unfortunatly) is against interracial relationships. but i wasnt in love, just in lust lol ;) we're still really good friends today.

my thoughts on your situation:
FUCK IT! This is YOUR life......this isnt a trial run, its the 1 and only chance you have. DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO! If you do anything less, its to only please others and their lives. Live for yourself.

follow your heart dude and pray.

This can only end badly. I've seen the EXACT same situation happen with a guy I used to know except it wasnt race that was this issue - it was because he was an idiot and her parents hated him.

Anyway they both ran off and got married. It was all peachy for a while until the girl couldn't deal with her family refusing to talk or have contact with her. One day she said she was off to the shops or something and never came back. She went home to live with her family and refused to see or speak to him again which the parents happily enforced.

I still remember the immaturity of the whole thing. He was about your age and she was a couple of years younger. It was a big fairyrale for them and it backfired spectacuarly.

they will most likely disown her if she marries a westerner.....period.

if the pussy is good its worth the effort, if not kick it to the curb

LMFAO!

My only question: Do you love her? If the answer is yes, then stay with her and stop complaining. At least you found someone you love. Anything else (culture, tradition, her parents racism, etc.) is secondary and shouldn't even phase you if this is true love. The fact that you're considering breaking up with her over stupid shit like this makes me think you don't even love this girl.

you are still only 20...dont worry too much....but if you truly love her you need to find a way to start making a positive impression on her father now....i know what you mean about them though..i dated a muslim pakistanian girl for awhile...smoking hot...but there was no way i could evr even meet her parents..lol

can you say racist?

lol
make sure it is worth it

i think if its true love go ahead and continue one they there parents will understand ...

You're too young to get married anyway. Do you guys live together?

Why...like marry?

Scratch the dot off of her forehead....see if you won a 7-11 or a Taxi Cab.

Once you know that it'll make your decision easier

Break up with each other. Save yourself the headaches that are already starting.

I mean fuck. You already have enough doubt to bring the subject to this board, of all places. What other "signs" do you need?

post a pic of her, then we can tell you

as the great Tom Lykis would say "DTB" (dumb the bitch)

cant change love

why are you coming to GFy for advice on a serious matter like this lol

He forgot to make the thread a poll. That would be even better :winkwink:

reminds me of Mississippi Masala

You've got to be the whitest black guy ever.

You should break up until you are both mature enough to make your own decisions and stick with them.

Sorry, but fuck that was funny :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

way too young to be thinkin such things...unless you are thinkin about proposing some time soon (hope not!) just enjoy each other and take one day at a time...cross that bridge when you come to it.... :)

"Shit she rather marry an indian guy too, saves everyone a lot of problems in the future.."

I think your answer lies in that statement.

Thanks I'll be here all week. Don't forget to tip your waitress.

Now, what does the little man inside you say?


The little man knows all!

hahahahahah

His little man says: Let me crawl into bed and hope the problem goes away.

your 20. don't think in 6 or 7 years it will be worse to break up. You may grow in different direections, prolly will. There will be fights, she'll catch you screwing someone else or what ever. Don't worry about it. You're in lust! So fuck like there is no tomorrow and see what happens.

Well, if you are going to break up, at least get her to shoot some content so you can make some money.. indian content is hot :)

Alex

No, that's what HE says. The little man, however, is always right.