I'm An Adult Webmaster And I'm Abstinent (input appreciated)
 

Just wanted to get some feedback, to see if I'm the only one living this way or what.

I'm an adult webmaster, I do this full time, I'm successful at my chosen field.
I deal with porn on a daily basis, I manage my own moviepost and also make movie galleries (I'm on a break from that right now).

Basically, I deal with sexual material EVERY SINGLE DAY
I'm also a medical/health student, I deal with human anatomy on a DAILY BASIS

I've come to see sexual intercourse as just an activity.
A physical conversation of sorts.

I haven't had sex since Sept. (took a break from women chasing because I was tired of the GAME)

Well...
On Jan 1st.
I came into more spiritual knowledge than I had ever known before, and decided that I would not have sex again unless it was my wife or a woman who has accepted my offer to marry her (fiance)

I look at my previous dealings with women as an addiction of sorts.
I craved sex and went out on the hunt at times seeing if I could pick something up on the social scene.

Looking back on it, I'm disgusted by my actions.

It's like what wouldn't I do to get some good sex?
I'd take an undeserving woman out to eat and to the movies.
I'd put up with selfish attitudes
I'd lower my standards

I still have a passion for women, but I have a knowledge that it is dangerous ground when your involve yourself in a sexual relationship with every attractive woman who you can GET

I like to hug, kiss, cuddle, caress, all those things that I would call foreplay..
I'll still participate in those actions.

But I'm really more interested with the emotional and spirital connection than the physical.

Um, Sig placement. :)

This isn't just an attempt to pick up girls, is it?

LOL, that is what I was thinking too. Just a switch of tactics.

I love vagina.

You tend to get desensitized,but I do still get turned and would fuck a rattlesnake if I could hold it down

So THAT'S why my rattlesnake cries every time you come over!

switch hitters

No HOMO TO THE FULLEST...

This ain't on some GAY SHIT...
This is about survival and having a good life...
You should know better your "supposed" to be a muslim..

True I sell porn, thats part of my survival in this EXPENSIVE world we live in..
but having sex with a bunch of hoes I picked up at clubs aint' apart of my survival

PLUS the simple fact that a man can get genital warts even while wearing a condom..
man FUCK THAT SHIT...

I see these valtrex commercials all the time..
and say..
Damn, I really dodge some bullets in my lifetime...

I ain't trying to have none of that shit

Honestly, I think it's kinda happening to me too. I see it, I write about it, and porn tends to put me to sleep. I guess I've become too jaded and desensitized to it to really honestly want to do it.

I thnk being single for a while will do me a world of good.

Somebody get that man a hooker fast! He's loosing it! :1orglaugh

:pimp

you cant live your life scared of what you see on tv.Most of the thngs published are designed to keep man at home

Ok man well you go right out and feel free to fuck as many hoes and whores as you want to.

But I'm not interested in fathering any children to women who aren't living good lives.

I'm also not interested in being a slave to sexual desires anymore either...

But when a man decides to stop chasing women and focus on things that TRULY matter in life, don't question their manhood.

I'm desensitized to porn, but not to sex. I'm still enormously attracted to my wife... The way she looks, smells, feels, the sound of her voice. Photos and movies of actresses faking sex just can't compare to the real thing.

Yes sex with your wife is supposed to be a beautiful thing...
But with the women in the bulk of today's society it's not such a beautiful thing.

I'm not interested in a sex partner...
Interested in a wife

Hmmm... GUILT - a useless emotion.

Well...I am abstinate...but for a different reason. Because of injuries I sustained during the '91 Gulf War...sex became more painful than fun...but I still engaged in it until a couple of years ago. I just could not tolerate it any more...so I dropped all of my girlfriends. I do not expect to...ever again... engage in sex and/or seek out companionship.

Good for you. More people should be more monogamous or abstinent :thumbsup

You study medicine?

I think there's nothing wrong with it at all. Just because you market porn does NOT mean you have to be promiscous at all. There is a big difference between marketing porn and engaging in lots of sex.

Also, before my current boyfriend I went without sex for 5-6 years (this was also while marketing porn and prior to that I had a bunch of non-porn related jobs).

Just because I am fine with the IDEA of sex and I am liberal about what other people do; they can be swingers and have double or triple anal gangbangs for all I care, (well, frankly I don't really care because it's not my life) but that doesn't mean that I personally have to engage in it in my own life.