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Did a few lines of coke with my 16 year old daughter today
Am I going to hell?
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You=idiot
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2 liters?
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It was areally weird situation. She knows I've had a problem with coke in the past. So today I came out of the back door and saw her sitting there doing a line off a little cosmetics mirror. She was all like "oh, I'm not doing anything" but then I made her give me the coke. I was pissed and was about to tear into her but then I realized how hypocritical that would be. So I snorted what was left and passed her the mirror with a line on it. She did a double-take and looked really confused, but finished the line. Then I was all confused, I realized this probably wasn't the best parenting maneuver, but I didn't know waht to say and it was too late to take it back. Fuck, I just went inside and locked myself in my office where I've been drinking for the past 6 hours. :(
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You just affirmed to her, at still an impressionable age, that doing drugs is OK and that even a figure she should hold in high regard and use as an example later in life, YOU, affirms that doing drugs is OK. That's as bad as molestation, in my opinion.
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If she is sitting alone doing coke she has a problem. You should make sure she gets some help instead of getting drunk.
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I really wish good luck to your daughter...
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i hope your lying sooo much
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You have to be kidding. I really don't believe you.
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Was it quality blow?
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Very bad parenting move.
And drinking isn't the answer. Wait for the buzz to go away, then talk to her. Tell her what you've just told us. You can't stop her from using, to try to do so will only make her resent you and become increasingly cold, angry, and spiteful toward you, but you CAN forbid her to bring her shit home. Explain bad situations you've been in due to drugs. Tell her that you love her and don't want her to end up in those situations or worse ones. Let her know that you're serious about not having the shit in your house, and should you find it, it gets flushed and she gets put on lockdown. I don't know how much this will help, but speaking from my own memories as a teen with a fucked up mom, I didn't need the lecture to stay clean. I just watched my mother as she got further and further down the spiral. Scary shit. |
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That's not a good thing unless you think letting your kids fuck their minds up with drugs is going make their lives better.
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I remember the first time I came home stoned on pot; my mom knew something was amiss and sat me down on the couch after I made a peanut butter and jelly sandwich and right away she asked "what are you on." I couldn't eat the most yummy sandwich I ever made and ended up having a conversation with her, mostly about how I thought marijuana was OK and her telling me it wasn't. I smoked pot for years after that and eventually stopped, but I'll always remember her trying to be a figure against something that may harm me, because she loved me and didn't want me to hurt myself. I think in regard to coke, it's a different situation as that drug can fuck up a person in ways marijuana could never. I'd have a "sitdown" with your daughter and tell her the truth about the drug as you experienced it and why you quit. Get so emotional about it, start crying. She's an individual and will do what she wants, but at least she'll always have the image of you pouring your soul out over such an evil substance that maybe it might change her mind in some situations. |
Very bad move in a parent pov. You show her that drugs is ok.
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lol that was not a good idea
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No wonder kids are so fucked up these days. I think you should also take her to the strip club and help her apply for a job. Get her a gun to, she may need it to rob a liquor store.
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Is she cute?
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I really hate people like you. |
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Thread useless w/o pic or video.......
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thats pretty fucked up , but on the other hand she now wont do it behind your back
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God damn, catch a 16 yo girl snorting coke by herself. WTF is this world coming to, FUCK! My younger brother was into hardcore drugs, well he was basically a junkie at the age of 14. What finally saved his life was he got busted with weed at school (thank god they didnt catch him with crack, coke, or speed the shit he always did), he was sentenced to a summer of rehab, and he ended up getting straightened out enough to save his life. Nowadays he is still drinking and smoking weed (something alot of us do socially) but lays off the hard shit. He even ended up graduating high school.
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soon they'll be sucking crackpipes together along with cocks to buy the rocks
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My parents allowed me to smoke chronic when I lived there . They thought it was better then if I was out there getting caught . (I never smoked much) . Just an open talk about drugs, stories and stuff that happened might just be enough ... |
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That's about the worst thing I've ever heard on gfy . I really hope you were kidding
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I did coke with her too and then :winkwink: :winkwink: !
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It prob wasnt the smartest idea in the world and i dont advise doing t again.
But dont beat yourself up about it. Most of the people here would have no problems dropping a 40oz bottle of vodka down their daughters throat on gradnight, and alcohol is WAY MORE dangerous than coke. BUT if as someone pointed out she id doing coke by herself, she might already have a problem.. DEF dont talk to us about it , talk to your daughter.. Explain the heartache you may have gone thru with the drug etc etc and BE THERE FOR HER especially now that you know she is doing them |
Fake drama
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tell her to watch pulp fiction ( ? )
Explain to her that all it takes is ONE mistaken switch between coke and heroin , and she will be dead. ONE mistake thats all you get. |
haha wow... some of the oldschool thinking around here is pretty thick...
if you wanna do rails with your daughter, go for it... some of the richest, smartest people i've ever met do yayo and smoke weed all the time... |
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I am not going to say I was the perfect parent, and I am sitting here trying to think of anything I may have done that was as close to a fuck up as that and I can't. I have done everything in my youth, but my kids only know some of it, and they didn't even begin to hear any type of details until they were adults. . . . and even now I emphasize to them that it probably wasn't the smartest thing to do. I do recall telling them that I would prefer that they smoke weed rather than drink alcohol. And I guess there are some people that probably looked down on me for allowing them to ride on my bike when they were so young. But doing coke with them? Not hardly. |
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Umm it can both look like white powder. If you snort a line of heroin you will be dead. |
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You watch too much TV |
are you wealthy with money coming out the ass or are you a trailer park guy? makes a big difference
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No i had a friend o.d. on heroin in front of me thinking it was crystal meth Snorted one line, 30 seconds later he was having a seizure |
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You are an example of why people should need a license to breed. |
Why on earth are you coming onto GFY to tell everyone this?
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