My sister just found out in gay. My whole body is shaking now
 

what a mind fuck. She comes over to visit and in my driveway under my truck was a little invitation card with some barechested guys that I picked up at a bar last night. It must have fallen out of the car when I came home and fell under my car.

She reaches under my car and said "whats this"?
My heart just fucking dropped and the only word that popped up in my head was
FUCK!!!!
I was like Oh I dont know, what is that thing? Just talking out of my ass.

oh well, cats out of the bag.
She finally left, I couldnt wait for her to leave. so uncomfortable. Thank God for alcohol, ill be drinking a lot tonight.

anyways I just needed to tell somebody lol

oh man that sucks :(

LOL she can share her ex b/fs with you now

fag
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Be honest with them..they will eventually accept you for your choice

why doesnt she know already?

its true, when spunky came out of the closet his family was a little upset, but once they realized he's one of the hottest gay models in the biz they left him alone

She never wondered why you didn't have a girlfriend?

My family thinks I'm gay. When realistically... I'm just a loser.

Hahaha.

If it wasn't for your advice sweet cheeks,I couldn't have done it

so are you gonna come to the party or what? haha :)

Ahh...quit it.

My ex wife, current fiance, family, models, etc... none of them know I'm gay yet.

how did your sister react?

Don't you think you fiance has a right to know?

People ask if I am gay from time to time. I havn't had a girl fried for like 3 years. Loser also :thumbsup

i just figure, hey, i'm so good at playing with my own cock, i may as well share the love around.

I don't think frying girls is a good thing :helpme

Yeah, alcohol is the solution. mmmmkay

If it was a "choice" Id be straight.
Its not politically correct to say that, but I dont like feeling like an outcast.

Exactly.

:thumbsup :1orglaugh

I know that's a hard thing to deal with but I think it might be better she knows now. I hope everything works out to be ok hun.


:)

If it makes you feel any better, I pretty much had it figured out as soon as I read your posts for the first time.

I dont know, she might have put 2 and 2 together and figured it out, but I didnt think so.

I feel better now. In fact, I feel so much better that I think I'll go eat some sushi.

Just tell her you're metro...

Eh, she'll soon realize it's better to have lost a straight brother, than to have lost a brother completely.

We all go through certain shocks that take our bodies days, weeks, even months to truely comprehend..

A week ago, a good friend of mine, who is 50ish, turns out to be a cat burglar and is now gonna be put in prison for years and years... NOONE had a clue, and he was the last person you'd expect... the nicest, most honest person in the world...

Lost my faith in humanity for a while, as stupid as that sounds.

You'll pull through it, she loves you no matter.

so is she still clueless.. did she accept your response?
sorry to hear ur havin a rough go at it.
but anyone that cares about you.. truely cares about you.. will deal, accept. And that will be that. :)

You Fuckin Homo!!!!!

Play your card right and you might be the lucky guy!

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She didnt say anything after. I just kept talking and talking about nothing so she wouldnt get the chance to open her mouth and start asking me questions. The whole time I just wanted to get out of there and I was thinking "Just leave leave, just go go go go", but we were at my house and Italians stay over forever for hours when we visit family.
Anyways its just uncomfortable for me, ill get over it. Thank god im alone now. Jesus I didnt like that

I guess my daughter is real lucky that I love her so much that her being gay means absolutly nothing to me.

My parents have no idea she is gay and I hope to leave it that way as they are major gay haters.

I know I'm not a sister of anyone but, my first and longest friend turned out to be gay. I've known him since I was three,... our families did everything together,... he was #1 in the class and I was right behind.

Right after my now-husband met him for the first time, he said to me afterward, "you never told me the guy you've been talking about non-stop for years is gay". and, you know... I never noticed... and it didn't matter. He's still the closest thing I've had to a brother as long as I can remember and I love him to death.

It took a while for his father to get back to "normal", but his mother and brother were so supportive it was great.

What I couldn't fathom was carrying that "secret" around for so many years. I mean, I'm storing a LOT of secrets that people have told me over the years, but something like that has to be hell to carry! Thank god you have someone close to you now to confide in... and I hope it all works out even better than you've hoped it would :thumbsup

i told my mum when i was 15 i liked girls, 15 years later she still thinks my love of the box is a phase. be proud of yourself, content with who you are. just "be". :2 cents:

Dude I just laughed out loud. i never do that on GFY.

:1orglaugh

Marcus go out and by the book by Andrew Tobias about his life and give it to her. It really is a great insight into being gay in america for the straight person. he is a great writer and makes it very funny and understandable. His discussion about growing up this secret is truly touching and will make them see that is was not a secret you chose to keep from them.

Not gay but I have friends and it really opened my eyes.

PS how is the TGP doing? I tried to buy it from you a few years ago i think.

Maybe this is actually a blessing. After years of living in the closet, you might actually have a chance to come out to some of your family. Sometimes it takes a scary event that shakes us to our core to make us take a step in a direction that is actually good for our mental well-being.

Over time I hope you will be glad this happened.

Best of luck.

sucks for you :(

I hope you realize that life goes on. It seems bad now, but its not the end of the world.

Good luck with that. You will be fine. Family has to learn to respect you regardless.

If they dont accept you, then fuck them. You can survive without family like that.

Congrats on being out of the closet. FAG! Just kidding.

i agree, hiding is not the answer. good luck and i hope all goes well.

Mouhahahaha, you would be so lucky !