Advice for guys who were cheated on before
 

Let's say you're going out with a girl and she cheats on you.

On most tv shows, movies, and social shows, we see the boyfriend (guy1) who was cheated on, go crazy and attack the (guy2) when the confrontation occurs, and when he finds out. meanwhile the girl sits there proud and happy and nothing happens to her. We this on cheaters and other shows like that. But why?

Why should the guy1 who was cheated on attack the guy2 who his girlfriend is cheating on him with? It's not guy2's fault that guy1's girl is a slut. hell if you're getting head from some hoe who told you she's single (for that matter even if she told you she's cheating with you), would you like it if some crazy ass freak came and tried to knock you out?

the only justifiable explanation is if guy2 forced himself on guy1's girl. Aside from that, if the girl isn't a slut and a fucken whore, she would resist any other guy's advances. This means that if your girlfriend cheats on you, you should NOT be mad at the guy who she cheated on you with and try to knock him out. You should be coming after the bitch that cheated on you in the first place.

:2 cents:

Unless you personally know the (guy2) there is no reason to attack him.

Somethng bothering you bro - wanna talk about it?

If guy2 knew that "a" guy1 was going out with girl he needs his ass beat.
If guy2 didnt know its not his fault.

no, i was just watchin cheaters and it hit me :thumbsup

true ...thats what i think too

if guy2 knew about it, he deserves to get his balls cut off.

needless to say, we would all turn in to a guy2 in the right situation.

lol, there's a tv show called cheaters?

interesting observation...

why? That's what I don't understand. Why is it his fault that the girl's a slut?

:thumbsup

sounds like you fucked a girl that was cheating on someone but maybe not. either way its just instinct to want to fuck up the guy, no matter the situation who was fucking your girl.

why tho? I wouldn't care about that girl

ive had 1 girl cheat on me so i started cheating on her with her friend then mailed her some pics of us fucking. Since then she still calls me every now and then to see if im "ok" :Graucho

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So if i fucked your wife is it my fault that she she is a slutty whore.

i tend to agree with that

territorial thing i guess, he touched what was 'yours'. also the fact that you can't hit women but you want to take out your anger somehow. i've never been in such a situation tho and hope never to be.

obviously.

what's the alternative? that she was soo captivated by you, that she couldn't resist you for the sake of our marriage? or maybe, i'll knock you out, and then i'll knock out the next guy who's "irresistable" ?

That's true, but still, it's not the guy's fault

yeah, emotions and logic don't tend to work together too well in heated situations like that i'd imagine. but if the guy knew, he also knows what the consequences might be with a pissed off boyfriend.

thanks for not wanted to hurt me

yea well i dont' see the point, 2 guys knocking each other out, one happy little slut, and next time guess what? she's cheating on you again another and another time

why would anyone keep a slut like that

that's exactly my point, that's why i'm saying that once you get cheated on, it's over. what's even more pathetic are people who have been cheated on and go back to the slut thinking that she's going to change.

i have thought about this situation many times, and the only fair thing to do is kill them both.

Fuck them before they fuck you

hahahhahahah!!!!!!

yea, and don't look back when they fuck you

Personally, I don't care if a girl has a boyfriend... as long as I don't know him, I'd fuck her.

Now, I wouldn't make it an ongoing thing though.. either he or I go.

Actually, I have a funny story in this department.. In college I was sleeping with this girl who had a boyfriend back home (she was a freshman, he was a HS senior)... We had been dating for a few months, and she kept saying she was going to get rid of him.. but never did. So I gave her an ultimatum, which of course passed.

This was pre-instant messenger days, so I found him using 'talk' the old unix command, and told him I'd been fucking his girlfriend for the past several months; was breaking up with her; and just thought he should know.

He dumped her the same day, and he and I went out and drank beer.

:)

that's how this kind of problem should be dealt with.

i would never kick someones ass because of that. you dump the girl and lesson learned... never trust a girl.