women that can't orgasm. Do they exist?
 

I could pretty much lick my ex girlfriend any which way, and she'd cum pretty consistently. Now I'm with a new girl, and she likes having sex but I swear I can't get her to cum. Apparently she's never even done it herself.

I've gone down on her for eternity, and that didn't do it either. I'm thinking about taking her toy shopping or something and seeing if that helps her out. Anyone ever had this issue?

It's a common situation that happens with many women

she's got issues...is she comfortable with herself?? It takes a lot of personal attention to be that comfortable...soemtimes it's just HOW you are gettign her worked up...no offense..lol;)

frigid :(

tbh she's like most women. It takes practice...if she can't do it to herself then how is she going to be able to tel lyou how she wants YOU to do it???

get her as close as you ever have , and then do something to offend her sexually in some way. stick a finger up her butt if you arent doing that already.

My ex wife was like that. I've spoken to counselors about it, actually. Women like that must learn how to do it. They must be WILLING to learn how. My ex was willing to remain in missionary position and that's about it.

Her sister didn't get off for 4 years after she started having sex. She finally did after smoking pot and riding some penis in an abnormally excited state of mind.

Didn't you get the memo? Or do we need sexed back?

you'll have to make her comfortable with her sexuality :thumbsup

damn that would suck.

I have yet to make a woman orgazm might have to do with my 2 inch penis though:)

I gave my current g/f her first orgasm from sex ever. And 2nd, and 3rd, etc.

For women, sex is in their head. I have no problem with orgasms, as long as im into the guy :-)

Encourage her to explore on her own. If she can make herself cum, then you can. If she cant, then take her to a doctor to see if there is anything physical wrong with her. If there isnt, its in her head, and she probably would need counseling to get over it.

Good luck :-)

maybe the problem is that its you doing the licking, try asking your exgirlfriend to have a go and see how fast she comes NOW!! Face it, your with a lesbian and there is not a good damn thing you can do about it LOL

get her first in the mood for love then do your thing.

Take her toy shopping for sure.

no orgasms would suck. I feel for her!!!!!!!!!!

and if nothing helps. Tell her to find a new bf :1orglaugh

I can make any girl cum that says that they can't. You just need to know what you are doing and how to judge their expressions on their face and sounds that they are making. I am also much bigger then most guys and pierced soo that may be something .

any girl can cum. but don't any man can make her cum.

Try the iceman trick
1. grab a peice of ice from the freezer
2. go down on her
3. insert the ice into hole 1 or hole 2..
4. await reaction
5. continue

I knew of a chick that couldn't come. I think she was too uptight. I think a girl can come either with her clit or her g-spot, not necessarily both though.
Only if she's lucky!

that's a new one on me

it takes practice and just being able to be comfortable with herself and learning how her body works..:)

classical trick :)

How old is she? It's not uncommon for some women to not orgasm.

Why not just have her "direct" you in the direction she needs?

The Kinsey Institute stats say that 40% of women have never had a true orgasm...

yeah. but that 40 % is all over the age of 50

Nope... i really still think a lot of girls fake it. Every guy should buy her girl a rabbit and let her figure out her orgasms.... that is how I learned at 19 =)

the girl i am with said no guy had ever givin her an orgasm from oral before well 5 minutes later i changed that make sure she is comfy with you and relaxed

Yup, I very rarely cum the first time I am with a partner because I can't if I am not that comfortable with a partner. Once I am comfortable I cum very strongly, etc but it is all about where my head is at.

my granny cant cum

take her toy shopping and make sure you're there to help her experiment with the toys, then as she learns how to cum, you can gradually stop using the toys. hopefully.

if that doesn't work, buy her one of these:
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:thumbsup

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taking her shopping is a good idea.
also..how old is she?

My suggestion... (I'm a girl) Buy her two things: a) a shower massager, and b) a vibrating egg... Those two things are sure to get a girl to her first orgasm.

My best friend said "I *think* I've had an orgasm before" and I bought her an egg... a week later, we got together for coffee... she said "I have now become a woman" lol

Anyway, good luck. A lot of the problem with her not cumming during oral sex could be her *trying* too hard. She needs to relax... She also needs to be able to tell you what feels good. Make sure she's comfortable with trying new things.

Have fun along the way! :thumbsup

I she still in her 20's? I've found it takes women until they're a little older to learn how to have an orgasm.