How do you go about "seeing" a girl without "dating" her and having her fall in love?
 

Situation:

I am newly single.
I want to see this girl I like. I do not want a girlfriend, I do not want a serious relationship. I want somebody to have fun with, hang out with, have sex with. I do not treat women like shit, and in no way do I want to use somebody. I want to make it clear to this person I am not ready to love or be loved. Telling her this will not be a problem, the bigger issue is how can I avoid her falling in love with me? I do not want to hurt her in the long run.

Should I just stick to beeing friends? Should I make a move and tell her I want nothing serious after?

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you just have to improve your sex style

just flat out tell her the truth, you want a fuck buddy, not a lover.

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tell her all that stuff up front --- before you sleep with her

get a hooker... simple as that...

I don't just want a fuck buddy.

I only want sex if it comes to that. I am not looking for sex. I am looking for all the qualities a GF can provide, but without the relationship and commitment.

paraskass, you can't have everything

nearly impossible I say

just hang out and have fun. no labels attached

Man... thats a tough one. Im in the same situation now. The more I hang out with her the more I am seeming to really like her and her me. I say give it some more time and see where things are in a month. Thats what I am doing.

in that situation right now. best thing is limit the amount of time you spend together. to keep it casual means YOU have to keep it that way, so every time you want to go see her or she wants to see you, you have to ask yourself, where's the line and am I crossing it. I would also keep the sex sporadic, don't do it every time you see her. It also helps if she wants the same thing and isn't too codependent...
good luck!

Just remember that you may get blown off for another guy later on since there is no commitments or anything.

Everyone says they are ok with it until they get that dropped on them and know that as they are home that night making galleries and the babe is out getting pounded like a dollar steak from the ghetto mart from some other guy

Im in love!

Just kidding.

but, im looking for the same thing, and cant get it through guys heads what I want. I want good friends that I can have a good friendship with, call and go do something with, and have good times in bed with :-) I dont need or want a boyfriend.

give her a brutal ass fucking once you get sick of her, and then ask if it's ok for your friends to come and join in, she'll be out the door in no time.

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