how do I shake a 19 year old that has a crush on me ?
 

and not look too cruel?

This 19 year old metal kid that saw me at some gig and then found me online keeps emailing me and messaging me telling me he is in love with me. I didn't believe he saw me at a gig but he knew the gig and what I was wearing...lordknows how he found me online.

I stopped replying to messages and mails but i get them all the time from him. He is in love with me. He is a virgin but wants to save his first time for me (lol) and now he will kill himself if I don't meet him.

Now, I never go to gigs without a male companion so I think I am okay at the actual gigs just don't need this right now even if it is flattering. He did call me an older woman though...so maybe a little cruel is okay.

im 30 sarah not 19 :(

rip his heart our sarah

it has to happen sometime

it may as well be you :smilie_we

if hes going to kill himself tell him to at least do it live online and then we can all make a buck from the imgoingtokillmydumbshitkiddieassliveonline.com affilaite program :)

If he actually TOLD you this, run away...fast.

Make it clear you have no interest and maybe point out that emotional blackmail isn't gonna work on his future love interests either.

Then monitor your mail for "Stalker" like tendencies and be careful.

well atleast you won't call me the older woman

You should be cruel. Tell him he's a fucking idiot who should fuck off.

Ofcourse, he does sound like the stalker type, so you may need to move and change your name after that :glugglug

::pictures:: ? :smilie_we

Tell him you're a tranny.

I'm 30 and I wish I had a 19 year old after me (That's my dick talking), ha ha ha.

Don't be too cruel, could be one of those psycho stalkers you read about.

yeah he did and given recent events in my life i told him to not be a moron and spelt out that I have no interest but still he keeps messaging

Just tell him that you have a crush on me. :1orglaugh

call the cops restraining order restraining order lol


save yourself the time and bullshit of dealing with the stalker

Call the cops this dude is psycho...

Pretty sad story..

Tell him your recently found out that you are lesbian and are totally disgusted be the idea of being with men. Be friendly.. Tell him you hope he understands...

Hope it works

i might not even call afterwards at all lol

Tell him he will have to wait until after the herpes outbreak clears up.

At least give him a mercy fuck.

and would have the bonus of not being a lie..lol

if he's saying he's going to kill himself over you, then theres not a doubt in my mind that he's bullshitting.

be harsh as fuck to get this guy off your back, he sounds like a real attention whore/dramaqueen to me... not someone id like hangin around me

Thanks for making me smile. I really needed that today.
:tongue:

lol that might do it

by the ears

like you didn't know :)

:bowdown

Still doesn't hurt to hear it. :bowdown

Make it TOTALLY clear you aren't interested

i have not encouraged him once and at the gig I would have been rather clearly with another guy..put it that way

Lol......

Why would you want to get rid of a 19 year old that wants to sex you up? I dream of that shit.

He knows about what's happened recently and is still hassling you? Tell him you'll meet him. Only have one of your large male friends meet him instead with a kick in the face. Guys like that only understand having the shit beat out of them. Beiieve me, he won't go away. If you're too nice to have him beat upon, call the cops, but i don't think it's as effective.

I say gave him a mercy fuck. The guys 19 and still a virgin.

never fails LOL

:banana

Just sleep with him, and do such a bad job at it, that he will never want to sleep with you again.
But seriously let him down gently, you never know what people are capable of these days.

he is a virgin...he wouldn't know if I was crap or not

stop talking to him !!

simple as that.. after a while he will go away because your not replying at all to him. any police officer will tell you that even when you get a phone call from someone who does speak.. say , "hello" once..and if theres not answer.. hang up.. they only want to hear you voice and feel they are in charge.

If that isnt good for you.. then start sending him biblical quotes. be more crazier than him... so that even he will say, shes fucking nuts !!

A girl I know who was getting harassing phone calls did that.. she just started reading from the bible.. the guy got so pissed at her mocking him.. that he stopped after the 4 call

I think it will work.


:smilie_we

indeed :eatmouse

WTF how did he find your email address? :uhoh Don't take things like this lightly. Get a restraining order! Fast!

Write him a lengthy email telling him you're interested too...and then describe in detail your herpes simplex B, vaginal itching, and hemmoroids.

Then ask if he'd like to come over and pull some of them out?


:p

The virgin thing is just a line he uses to get "older women" to jump him.

I agree! be gentle this christmas lol :xmas-smil

simple great :stoned

Meet him and be annoying, obnoxious and disgusting. He'll never bother you again. I did that to a girl several years ago and it worked like a charm.

one day he'll get older and won't want the older ladies anymore. He'll want the young tenders. I used to be like that back in the day.

You make the best memory of that kids life and screw his brains out!

Tell him you just lost your husband and that you have zero interest in him.

If he has any respect for you then he'd leave you the fuck alone. :ak47:

tell him you used to be a man

Call his parents
hopefully they will send him to a mental institution