a good simple schedule software
 

ok , who knows a good simple schedule software I can download that will pop me windows on my specified date and hour
saying: "you have an appointment in 15 mintures" or "don't start jerking off, the wife will be back from work in 5 minutes etc etc"

Windows has built-in task scheduler, but I think it can only run choosen application at given time .... So you would need some application which will write you your text , you can schedule notepad to be run with some text document where you'll put some text. It sounds complicated, but if you don't need to change the text too often it's usable :)

that's no good, there must be some kind of software for this

Outlook, GoldMine, ACT, there are a ton of them. Search Google for "PIM software".

can't find one that can pop a message by hour, only by day

The 3 I listed above all pop messages when you tell them too or within 15 minutes of the event... :smokin

if you are looking for something more advanced i would try
http://www.franklincovey.com/planplus/