why are women such jeleous creatures???
 

I was spouting off about how I think it's foolish to delete photos of ex's and such, after you're no longer together, and happened to throw in that I have a bunch of naked pics of my ex girlfriend on my computer. I think it was the 3rd date that I mentioned this. I told her I have them, and they're memories of my life, and why would I want to get rid of memories? Good or bad, they're a way to reflect. That was my point, anyway.

So we've been together for a month now, and last night I mentioned something about this neck pain I've been having ever since I was lying on top of my ex a few months ago, and all of a sudden she bursts into tears and says "you keep talking about her! I want you to delete all the photos of her off your computer!" It took over an hour to calm her down. So I went and backed them up... for better security, and better safe keeping. :)

I don't want anything to do with my ex girlfriend now, because what's done is done, and she's a nut now. But why do women think that having a photo in one's posession is somehow a prerequsite to getting back together with an ex? It doesn't make much sense. It's just a record of my life. That's all.

She's a psycho.

Tread carefully.

I feel for ya. Most women are psycho jealous. Insecurities, most likely due to things that happened long before you ever came into her life, and making her even more irrational than most women are anyway.
BTW, I'm a chick. And it's not just chicks.
I'm drafting a letter right now to my husband, who I've caught snooping through my emails and im logs like I don't deserve his respect and trust, when, in the 13 years I've known him, I've never given him cause. So I feel ya. I'd hate to break up a family over snooping, but it's not just snooping, it's a lack of trust and respect and both of those are vital in a relationship. So I am seriously considering taking some kind of action. I can't blame you for wanting out.
Smothering is the worst.

Ask her to pose nude to overwrite the old pictures with. then post them here.

I dont get the point of keeping pics of old girlfriends and I think shes right for being upset.. That said fuck that bitch..

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women........ sheesh:(

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i'm jealous sometimes.. although I try hard not to be.

I do find alot of jealous men out there.. so what it boils down to is the jealous persons insecurities in their relationship.
I can see her point.. but you guys have only been going out for a month.. if this were a long time realtionship..then yes, she would have a bit of reason to worry why you would even want naked pics of an ex.

What if she kept naked pics of her ex and wouldnt get rid of them...have you put the shoe on the other foot? that sometimes helps t o understand.

You can never do the right thing with chicks :(

I've thought about that, and I can kind of see her point... but I'm still firm in my believe that memories shouldn't be deleted. I like to reflect at times. Let's me remember where I was back then, and what I was going through. I think it helps me more clearly see where I'm going in life.

you are stupid for having photos NUDE of your ex, i dont want my girl to have some pics of some dudes dong,

you are stupid for telling her you have NUDE photos of your ex,

and why the hell are you at all talking about your ex? if whats done is done you should never have to bring her up.

yes women are crazy but watch what u say switch possitions and you would think she was a slut.

If you can't deal with her issues now, they aren't likely to get better down the road. You can't tell somebody, "Don't be jealous." Either they are or they aren't, and nothing's going to change that.

Sounds to me like you're more interested in your ex than your current girl.

Probably does to her too.

I think the right thing would have been to back them up, stuff them away, and not mention it to your new gf. :2 cents:

Yeah, you're right. Oh well, she's much better today. She wacked me off this morning. :)

Why do you need memories of your ex girlfriend anyway? The reason why she is your ex is because things didn't work out and you have both moved on. You obviously haven't moved on if you're still keeping naked photos of her around.

Sounds rather dumb and immature to tell your girl that you deleted the nude photos but then back them up anyway. You've only been with her for a month, shouldn't you be trying to focus on creating new memories instead of hanging on to the past?

Well yeah, ...a happy ( :banana ) is always a sure sign things are back on track! :winkwink:

Its one thing to have pics of your ex...the Nude part is what would bother her... But would you want to know if she had naked pics of her and her ex?

You went wrong when you said;

"I was lying on top of my ex a few months ago"

WTF would she want to know that?

Would you wanna hear if she was having cramps in her hips, from a few months ago when she was rotating on her ex's cock.

I believe there is nothing wrong with keeping pics for memories, I don't know about nude pics... but if you have them, don't mention them... she stays happy... and then your cock stays happy cos your getting pussy.

uh naked pics of your ex ? im pretty sure i understand why your gf is mad at ya

Oh, yeah. Just what every chick wants... a guy who keeps naked pictures of his ex on his computer and tells you how bad his neck hurts from crawling on top of her a couple of months ago.

Sounds like a keeper. :glugglug

guys are just as jealous if not more than women i think. i've always tried not to be but it isn't easy at all. especially if you are with somebody who is desirable to alot of people. one of the worst years of my life was spent with a girl who was a '9' in the looks department, you would have to be the most secure guy in the world OR a guy who just doesn't care one way or the other to be able to deal with being with a girl that everywhere she goes, works, shopping, clubs is going to get hit on or chatted up by more than one guy. i actually think that girl was one of reasons i started getting panic attacks, not the cause, but part of a bunch of things that laid the groundwork.

i think guys are relieved when their gf's dress down most of the time and leave off the makeup in regular day to day life.

Excellent post! :thumbsup

How many girls are willing to have a threesome with their man and another girl?

How many men are willing to have a threesome with their woman and another MAN??

Nuff said.

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