Don't f'in tell me how to raise my daughter
 

My mother in law is here and she is telling us what we should do to raise our daugther that isnt even born yet

going off about shit that they didnt dow hen we where kids

treating us like we are stupid

omfg i hate this shit why cant they leave???? :(

give the boot. :winkwink: :thumbsup :warning

only if i was that mean lol

ha, its only begun my friend..its only begun.
Just wait till your daughter is born, everybody and their brother thinks THEY know which way YOU should parent YOUR child.
Just ignore it, people are gonna hand out alot of unwanted advice..take it with a grain of salt, and always follow your heart. :)

I totally feel for ya man. That's why I moved my entire family across the country.

If you were smart you would listen to them and be open to their advice, you'll need it. They obviously have raised one kid, how many have you raised?

this is good advice..to a point..
till you meet MY inlaws, and see who they've raised. LOL.
I swear to god, my significant other was the mail mans son..no other logical reason for why he turned out as decent as he did. lol. :1orglaugh

they are telling me to do shit that they didnt do

example
she sells this MLM herballife shit and is trying to get me to buy it saying if i dont the baby will in up being stupid and wont have a chance in life and will just be sick all the time


sooo f'in stupid

agreed.

as annoying as it may seem to hear all the nagging, listen to them. take some advice. they're just tryin to help.

kick her ass to the street :)

read my post above
they are tyring to use my baby to make money
they didnt do half the shit they are telling me to do

they are even telling us obvious stuff
like we just went thru an hour speach about how to change a diaper properly.. no one here could agree ona " proper " way

wanna put an end to this bullshit?
ask then on which days are they available to babysit and change shity diapers?
get up at 3am to give the kid a bottle?
and all the rest of it?

okay, the diaper thing is just ridiculous. every parent learns simple tasks like that. you'll be surprised how much your daughter will actually teach you.

oh, and kick them out. lol

So your girl is still pregnant or is the baby born already? Either way, just tell her that mommy quit taking coke as soon as she found out she was pregnant, and besides an occasional sniff for good old times, she's keeping it clean.

...that will give them something to really worry about instead of fucking herbalive!

I have a 2 month old son here and I know exactly how you feel regarding unwanted advice. Shame you can't filter it out like the spam it really is...

Have you talked to her about it?

I've got no idea about your relationship with your mother-in-law, but I'd think that if you were to explain to her what you didn't like and then listen to why she's telling you these things, maybe things would get better.

Or setup a cam and make a paysite ihatemymotherinlaw.com. I be that a lot of people would tune in over Christmas. But, whatever works really.

Okay, that sounds tough.

She's trying to be helpful give a old lady a break

just get up and walk away. do some work or go out for a drive.