When bumping uglies for the first time
 

(Sorry for the title. It just sounded funny.)

When you're with someone for the first time, what sort of sex are you hoping to have? Slow, seductive, explorative sex or fast, hard, rough and hot sex?

I have no idea why this thought crossed my mind, but what the hell. I'll share.

is this in a relationship? a fling? what.
cause that all depends.
if its just a booty call..fling type of thing.
I like it kinky..something I'll remember and think back on fondly.
if its in a relationship that seems to be going somewhere..i like to know he knows what hes doing, but prefer it soft and sensual. :2 cents:

I personally like to get blown before I screw her. If she sucks a good pole, then it is worth getting her a tad emotionally attached as most women USUALLY do after you fuck em :2 cents:

i only use my penis for the powers of good

It doesn't have to be relationship material, just a booty call, or it can be relationship type, either one works.

As long as I get my money when he's through, I dont' really care.

bumping uglies :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

lmao you just made my day :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

can she keep up ... that is all I care about ... not like it matters either way - I ask a question and she answers ... if she is unable to produce according to her response ...
nah-nah-nah-nah,
nah-nah-nah-nah
yo-ho
good bye.

Okay, this made me laugh. :1orglaugh

Anyone ever play the "You do to me what you like, and I'll do to you what I like" game? (Obviously, there are a couple of things that aren't exact, unless you're gay or lesbian, so you kinda have to wing it a little here and there)

I've found that if you do something like that, you can keep each other happy for hours. :glugglug

First time you gotta take it easy on her, anything after that and the real freak comes out in me.

The first time you have to let them think it was good but yet somewhat tame, then when you start going crazy on her ass and pulling some hardcore porn maneuvers she will have to rethink whatever it was she thought of you hehe.....

If done this a few times and the chicks dunno what to think, funny to make their head spin sometimes....

:winkwink:


PS, if its just a booty call then you can just skip everything i just said and go to step 2

just lookin to get off lol

Aren't we all?

I don't know, maybe I'm just a dreamer, but I rather like it when a man takes the time to explore me and not just do me.

:glugglug

Hmmm -- I think too many people bring a contrived version of themselves to bed, while at the same time expecting that the other person fit a pre-existing ideal that's got nothing to do with reality.

Pretense mated to delusion works for some folks.

But I like to approach sex (especially first-time sex) as MYSELF , with all my decadent idiosyncracies and depraved predilections in tow. In return, I offer acceptance, tolerance and a capacity to enjoy all kinds of sick and twisted things the other person might suggest we do.


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I love you, j-baby. Even though I'm delusional. :glugglug

Love ya back -- but I don't think there's a shred of delusion in your sexuality, Tala. If anything (LOL), you've impressed me as a person with an unusually high degree of sexual self-awareness. You know who you are, and why you fuck whom you choose to fuck.


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I'm usually looking for hot rough animalistic sex.

Thank you very much. That's a wonderful compliment coming from you.

Now if only those whom I chose were willing....:Graucho

That can be so yummy when I'm in the mood for it. The louder the screaming, the happier I am. :thumbsup

I'd do you for free.

I wanna watch.

depends on who its with

Each time is different. There's no rule really.

Are there universal rules to sex or sexuality?

Great. I go waxing philosophical and kill the thread. :(

First time I think should be slow and seductive to show that you are capable of being a very gentle tender lover, and as the trust factor goes up then you can start pushing boundaries and getting nastier.

The Law has forbid me to have sex. They say my penis is too powerful.

i want to be fucked hard, slow sex is so boring, usually a girl starts to talk " o baby o baby im sorry about this " SHUT UP we are having sex stop whining!

Great. Now I'm hearing Judas Priest in my head. (Not a bad thing, mind you)

Thank you!

Come get a massage at booth 739, if you'll be in Vegas.


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Clean socks make lovely gags. (So do dirty ones, but ick)

It of course depends on the situation but I would just go at it as passionatly as I could I save the tenderness for the ones I love...

Passion = hard?

Wild Monkey Sex!

I just can't wait to have sex for the first time!

A perfect date would be when she gets down on her knees the moment we enter a house.

fast and hard that is the best thing, man!:thumbsup

Starts off slow usually to make partner feel comfortable and safe...then winds up fast and rough depending on the chemistry