maybe single life is better
 

seriously. being single so long now, i like having my own place, my own space. it's annoying having someone hanging around all the time. maybe this is a good choice for some people. i'm beginning to think it might be mine.

:)

It is if it truly works for you - if you're trying to convince yourself, maybe it's not :glugglug

Dont say that.....

U know what happens when u stop looking :)

if I find the woman that will leaveme the hell alone when I'm caught up in something like...
Designing.
Researching.
Typing.
Submitting.
Fucking her friend.
Updating.
Cropping thumbs.
Fucking around on GFY.
Checking my stats.
Working.


I'll marry her and give her anything she wants.

More than likely, I'm in the same position as you.
:winkwink:

there is pro's and con's to it.. but I also like having my own space, my own place, nobody to bitch at me.. but I still love her.. :glugglug

most of the time that is the best idea.

I'm about 99% with you on this Quiet. After my divorce, I've gotten so used to living on my own again, I thought ok this is n't really that bad.

However last night I went out with the kind of girl that fits every single thing I'm looking for. I'm talking 110% perfect.

She's got supermodel looks, college educated, super bright mind, has her own money, ultra nice personality, fantastic sense of humor, killer body, integrity, sweet, sexy, I could go on and on.

So guess what? I'm already head over heals and today I'm thinking finally I've met someone perfect for me again and that 1% of me that has missed living with someone is already fucking up my head again.

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

After being alone.. you'll say damn it! I'm alone I need someone to share and talk..
3-4 months untill your going to post here on the same subject the other way around this time.

btw if were in to that...
does anyone here still belives in the instatution of marrige?
or is it something that belongs to the past?

agreed with everything you've just said :)

During the 9 years that I was married in the 1990's, I became a different person...more independent and less willing to put up with shit from a significant other because "the devil you know is better than the one you don't". Since my divorce almost 5 years ago, I've dated here and there but haven't found anyone that can keep up with me...(haven't found one in my income bracket or even close that I could stand) and the more I tried to look past the $$ thing the more I ended up getting used. More recently I think I've either shut down altogether or just given up. Sure it would be nice to have someone other than my teenage boys to go to the movies, concerts, ballgames, or dinner with... but I don't see it happening anytime soon.

Are you saying that you gave up?
come on I can't belive someone will give up on looking for someone to be with share with him and talk..
(other than gfy) ;)

And when you reach that point, its seems to be when someone appears out of the blue perfect for you.

:)

Welcome to the land of Bliss.

5 years and the want to look just isn't there anymore. Guess I'm just too comfortable.

"can't live with them and can't live without them"

ya know these saying have alot of truth

wow I can't imagine myself stop looking...
I don't tend to talk about my private life too much...
my bf and me have a lot of problems after we had our first child.. I just get a feeling I'll be out there again preaty soon + 1

Sorry I'm taking your thread Q... please forgive me.
just looks like a good thread to post my thoughts...

It would be nice to have someone clean the bathroom and make me meals though...

np. the only reason i ever start threads is to simply get people talking :)

Thats one thing people on GFY forgot... :)
the talking part...

She turned you down? :glugglug

I see no reason for in house pussy unless you want kids :2 cents:

its not about independence, theres something men lack and yearn for in the night. only those who crave it acknowledge it, no man can deny it though.

I see no necessity for long term relationships when you're young and virile:winkwink:

If you find somebody special, sure thing. But if not, I wouldn't sweat it. Have fun. So many more years ahead of you to hookup.

quiet, if you find a chick that doesn't know your w0rth and still likes you, put some effort in and see if it's not worth it

chicks are a pain but that's just how it is.. .

I don't think I'd enjoy being single.
Mostly because I would never get laid (I never leave the house). Although I'm amazed how well my girl has tolerated my antisocial behavior, considering she's not nearly as antisocial as I.
I guess I'm lucky (until I find out she's cheating on me, and using my money to pay for her boytoy's toys):1orglaugh

they both have their perks and peeves, but i love my wife, great having her here :)

i never offer much advice anymore, but this is one to look at the stars to:

Railbenders - there once was a time

quiet do you try to hide your wealth from girls when you first meet?

Although it has its perks, I have to admit it is fairly lonely. After all, relationships are all about compromise.

WG

quiet cant find a woman ? what a loser.

grow some balls, nerd.

No, relationships are all about trust. Compromise is down the list, just below respect.

damn... I knew I shouldn't click on this thread :(
Guys, I still got a hope

You havent found the person that fits you and makes you WANT to be near them no matter what it takes.

Few are fortunate to locate these folks in their lives, some never do and think its just not meant to be.

Just enjoy doing what your like to do and let the future present itself to you instead of looking for it......

Sometimes what you are looking for is staring you in the face and you still cant see it for miles :)

I'm single again after over 6 years and it's a relief. Sure I miss some of the perks of a relationship but it's good to be free again :)

UH OH ......from the frying pan into the fire ??:Graucho
But have a great time:thumbsup

:glugglug

my wife leaves me alone 80% of the time, the other 20% i want to hang with her

we have a nice arrangement, she accepts me as being a total computer addict and I accept her for being hot as shit

hell yeah, my wife and I do EVERYTHING together that isn't work related....we are best friends..

Fixed it for you.

Single gives you space to grow. Sometimes, it is harder to grow when you are too close to someone. Trees are planted far apart so they can spread their branches and become strong as they
mature.

Single means freedom. You are free to spend a week's vacation on the beach, to take computer courses, to work late on an interesting project, to spend the day in bed with a good book or simply with a person who has read one.

Single means learning not to need a man/woman to make your life meaningful but learning to live with a man/woman because you want to be with him/her.

Ironically, yet quite happily, single is feeling good about being in control of your life.

I am happy being single "for now" but I dont wanna be single for life though

The meaning of life is to love and be loved in return.

So you're shit out of luck, quiet.

No, that's the meaning of life to you, it's different for everyone.

Anyway, one thing I've learnt lately... don't dwell on being single or being in a relationship.... the only thing thinking about either will do is make you depressed.

Just ride it out, and go with the flow.... if you're single, do all those things that you do while single, even if it means taking off your pants at the couch and leaving them there for a couple days... you're single, who cares!??!

And if you're in a relationship, have wild monkey love and do things together.

But what ever you do... don't dwell on it. Just enjoy it... because dwelling on it makes it less enjoyable, and dwelling on it won't help when *poof*... one day something happens out of the blue and then everything is changed before you know it.

How is it different for you ?

Whats your meanig in life ? Money ? Bah.

If you're not willing to figure it out on your own, you're not worth explaining it to.

You can't answer a simple question ?

Whats the meanig of life for you ?

Sorry, I was told not to feed the trolls.

Besides, my philosophical ideals are hardly any of your business.

Translation: i'm too dumb to keep up an inteligent discussion.

depends on the type of charakter I'd say...I'm rather the "related" guy :)

god i hope so