the world simply caves in on you
 

and there is nothing you can do about it.

:glugglug

Sometimes I too feel I have no control of my life.

You are master of your own caving destiny:thumbsup

I have that feeling from time to time. Then I spend time with my daughter. She makes all the weight of the world vanish. :thumbsup

There is plenty you can do about it........only a matter of having the right shovel to get from under the rubble :)