its time i settled down
 

yup


i aint a playa, i just have ADD when it comes to women, i just cant stick with one.

but nowadays, theres a growing feeling inside me telling me i need to settle down with one woman.

wow, what happens now?

Don't hate the player hate the game.

nah, this aint a game for me anymore

you try to find her and settle down

cant be a playa forever. sounds like its time to retire from the game as a player and become a Coach. :glugglug

nice, but i wanna edit that coach part, and say its just time to retire after i win myself a championship

right on. :winkwink:

maybe if i threw in some hairy bear pics of 2 dudes sucking cock i would get more replies

instead of kicking the girl out the day after, make her breakfast.

If you get along, go from there.

The game is still the same. But instead of playing it every night with a new person, try playing it for a week with the same woman. If you like her, you will know what to do. If not, try another.

welcome to the club. i've always felt this way...

How old are you Izzz? I thought you had a steady girl?

:glugglug

hmmm i have a few friends. what me to talk to them for you? The problem may be that they are in California.

You pick up Juicy, goto a club and he reminds you of what you're missing.

WG

i've tried, but only with a few exs, i really did put in effort, but the feelings just faded with time.

so i ask myself now, is there someone out there i can just finally settle down with? without having the fear of losing the feeling over time

i hear ya bro.

i still keep an optimistic view to the future, but sometimes, this shit catches up to me

turning 29 in 2 weeks, and i havent had a steady girlfriend since i was 20. thats 9 years, lol, of appetizers with no main course

I've been with my husband for 8 years. The feeling is not lost, it just changes. It's truly a beautiful thing. You can't fear change. That's something you must be ready for in any long term commitment. You will find it when the time comes. :winkwink:

When you will be with the right person the feeling will not fade.

It will mutate over time.

Going from passion and desire, to comfort and feeling safe.

The woman of your life should idealy be your life partner. Communication must come first.

She will be the person you can share everything with, so looks should obviously not be up top, although they will determine if you hook up with her in the first place. Just make sure she has what you are looking for beyond that.

Does she make you feel comfortable, do you enjoy your time with her? Does it make you happy when she smiles etc.

If no, then find another. When you find the right one, you will know.

Snap out of it...Women are she devils..they just rip out your heart and stomp all over it and take what they can:BangBang: :ak47: :mad: :feels-hot

:) nah, thx though.

i just needed to read my own words after i wrote them on this board. always helps me see myself better when i read something.

anyway, i love california, but i'm sure i'll do fine sooner or later out here:glugglug

Very well put. :thumbsup

god damn, that is a long time. it's only been a couple of years for me, but it feels a hell of a lot longer...

amen

yea, i think i need to slow down my pace a little, and just give somebody a better chance.

This makes total sense to me. You should make a journal, online or physical.

Wow... Izzz is the emotional type. That's so sweet. :Graucho

go find the right girl and settle down.

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

see for you its easy, you have all the time on your hands and everything is jolly so long as your postbot doesnt malfunction

its become natural to me now to just treat most of the women i meet like fuck-buddies. they're all cool chicks and fun, but i never saw them for much more.

btw, dont mistake me for claiming to be some kinda don juan, i havent been with hundreds of chicks either here, lol.

i guess the reason i've been surrounded by these kinds of chicks is because of the main place i meet em, bars and clubs, and i no theres no relationship worthy chicks there to begin with

So start meeting chicks at better places... like strip clubs.

:Graucho

i do my share of writing, and of course i'm an emotional guy:winkwink: its just that i never bring it to the boards, til tonight

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh you have to make mad bling to be able to afford a long term stripper relationship, and that for sure aint me:1orglaugh

I've heard that a great place to meet someone is at the grocery store. Go figure. hehe

if you work for me you will meet planty of fat bitches at the counter

You'll find out soon enough...and I have never used a bot :mad:

:1orglaugh


i agree dude, but i believe that only 97.628% of women are evil, the other 2.372% aren't yet