is it possible to love and have a relationship with someone you have nothing in
 

common with?

I like to think it's possible, after all, opposites attract. Whether it lasts in the long term, well, that's going to be very challenging.

WG

Your posts crack me up recently Quiet.

Could you please rephrase the question so I can go to sleep now not wondering wtf did he ask?

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

Oh ok I see its a 2 parter.

Ooops, my mistake.

Goodnight sleep night.

Love no, lust yes.

As long as the sex is good.

Tuff Question.

Love is possible under the strangest circumstances, and most of the time when you least expect it. Having nothing in common will just give you more to teach each other about.

love is just crazy man. it can be good and it can be bad and even both at the same time.

fuckin' emotions can destroy you.

just remember that "Love" is exactly what you make it out to be. its not even real. its 100% mental.

I would say yes, as long as you have one thing in common. Respect and admiration for one another. Everything else is just compromise.

Sure. Not likely, but possible, yes.

Yes, it is......

As time moves foward, you will find things that are mutually liked between the 2 of you thereby blurring the lines of seperation.

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It's never worked for me. You have to have SOME sort of common thread between the two of you.

However, there are times when opposites are good. I dated a guy who was a clean freak and a great cook whilst I'm a pig and I hate to cook. He did the cooking and cleaning so it worked great :) We still had most everything else in common though.

Battuss complained that Quiet posts only about money, so he started posting about love and relationships. :thumbsup

Absolutely.. it's funny to see over time how many things you DO end up having in common, even if the commonalities aren't obvious, or if they aren't something you think of in that context.

yeah. it is possible.

as long as you love each other, what matters most :glugglug

Yea, I think it's possible. You know what they say about " Love at first sight" :)

It probably wouldn't last very long.eventually you get tired of it and move on

Possible? Yes - also depends on whether the differences become a debate daily. Being different will make it interesting - who wants to be with their exact equal? I think the fundamental stuff you should have a common view in - family, house, respect, etc...
As long as it doesn't become a 24hr debate on who's thoughts are right/wrong/popular belief, it should make the relationship interesting.

everyone is different. Some relationships like this will work, some won't

definitely.

depends on the size of her hooters :winkwink:

These types of relationships may carry some added stress because when you both want to do your opposite thing, the other whines about not getting enough time with you.

Being opposites is not the problem, how much other bi-poloar behavior and acting out in the relationships is the one to watch for.

If she is emotionally secure and independent not possessive, not jealous, you could amuse each other for years.

yea. keeps the relationship interesting lol :winkwink:

I've done that before, didn't last long, although I am not the kind of girl that wants a boyfriend...I party too much.

Possible! you might find something that both of you like one way or another. You have to love a person unconditionaly, whether the both you likes/differs with most of the things. You both have to learn to compromise and share each others interest. That's where your relationship grows and matures.:) :thumbsup :warning

if you can give her an orgasm and she's not secretly faking it.. it might be possible.

maybe you should read KRL's second post.

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Anything is possible for example if you make each other laugh that's a great building block for love...

Yep, gives you more shit to talk about.
Teach her a thing or two, that she doesnt know and she'll love you lang time

yup. opposite poles attract. a friend of mine and her husband have quite different charcters. But they enjoy being together.

they may attrack but if you do not have common goals, it will not last. it has been proven over and over again.

Trust me it is inposible....

Are you kidding me? When they started the talk of cloning, I was REALLY excited about the prospects of having another one of me around.

He'd be great to hang out with AND the perfect present to my wife for Christmas.

Only one way to find out... :glugglug

The girl I have a crush on right now is much younger than I am, and we have very little in common, and yet it just clicks on a personal level. So I would say that yes, it is indeed possible to have a relationship with someone you have very little in common with.