Are their happy non-married people?
 

Lots of people say marriage is a drag and so on. But how many single 60 year olds do you know of that are happy that they're alone?

yes everybody is different some are made for marriage some not...

Marriage may suck for many, but living your life alone seems pretty terrible to me.

Hell ya.. happy as a pig in shit right now

who said you have to be alone if you're not married?

I'm in my mid 40's. Been married twice. Once in my 20's which was a short one and had a long one in my 30's who I had my kid with.

Single and happy now. It is fun being alone, but sometimes you truly do get that lonely feeling, especially when my son is with my ex and it gets so quiet without the noise kids make in the background.

I'm so picky now, I'm beginning to think that's all she wrote for me. Go out on dates and just don't get impressed anymore and I really don't have the desire to be living with someone again. So I've got the mindset now, its better just to have fun, just have girl friends instead of a full time deal and learn to accept the lonely moments.

The women in my age range are all divorced, and fucked up, and if they have never been married by their 40's there is usually a reason why. The younger women I go out with I have fun and all, but I know they are just there for the money.

Hugh Hefner
Donald Trump (although he's engaged now?)

Damn. Except for being married twice (once for me) I could have written that word for word myself. I am 39, have my kid half the time and when he goes to my ex's house its like wtf do I do now. I havent met a woman that excites me in a long time, seems women in their 30's/40's are messed up in one way or another and I just get the feeling they are looking for someone to take care of them. And since they think I have money they all think 'I'm the one', hard to trust any of them. I have resided to the fact that the days of having true fun with a woman are over, at least for a long time.

Wow, those are some genuine words. Thanks for your :2 cents:

Yep, there's a lot of us in the same situation.

Welcome. :thumbsup

My neighbor's 70 and he has different women over 3 or 4 times a week. Seems pretty happy to me. Only time he doesn't seem happy is when he's out there pushing his lawnmower around.

That's why you gotta marry @ 40 years old when you start to get too ugly to pickup chicks

there are a lot!
It's not only marriage that makes anyone happy! it's a personal thing. some people are happy being unmarried!

Jeez guys there must be some women out there in their late 30's early 40's that aren't damaged goods ;)

I know what you guys are going to say "sure they are out there, they are all married!" LOL!

DH

I've met a few guys in their 50s who aren't married. They play the role like they're having a blast, but you can just tell that they're miserable.

Nowadays living with ur couple and not being married IT'S SO MUCH FUN!! :winkwink: once u get married everything finish.:feels-hot