Ladies Of GFY - What's Your Advice?
 

What is the best sexual position to give a girl an orgasm? I've heard doggy-style was the best. Is this true for you?

I don't think I've ever had problems giving a girl and orgasm but the girl I just recently started dating has told me that it's impossible for her to have one. I take that as a challenge! I want to turn it on and take it to the house but now I'm kinda scared (yeah, me scared...the world is coming to an end :( )

Any advice given will be indexed and stored until judgement day.

P.S. I haven't had sex with her so that's probably why she hasn't had an orgasm...yet. :Graucho

yes, doggy:Graucho :thumbsup

Fuck her in the ass gently and give her a vibrator she can use on her clit. works in our household.

Dude... If you got the skills you can make any girl cum. Just use the skills you got. Many times it is on the girl. My advice is to work the tongue action and make her cum that way first. Sometimes a woman can be so anxious it holds her back. Get her into a really relaxed state. Massage works too. Many options so little space to type them all out.

A better question is actually can she make herself cum?

< --- notes to myself - Lucy likes doggy-style :glugglug

That's a good question. I haven't thought to ask that yet.

Agreed... get some info first.

But doggy style and girl-on-top leaning back a bit work best for me :thumbsup

Just hit the right spot. You know how to do it player. ;) :thumbsup

:Graucho :Graucho :Graucho :winkwink:

Depends completely on the type of girl she is for how she gets herself off. I had an ex that was the same way, however I found a position to make her cum. She needed CONSTANT, and I mean, never stopping, pressure on her clit - but at the same time needed a pounding. The grinding on the stroke wasn't enough for her clit.

So, the position that ended up working, was her tilting a bit to left, and me getting in behind her, almost like doggy, but then lifting her leg, and putting 1 of my legs between her legs. That leg was used for the grind while I hit her from the back. Kinda hard to explain, but it worked. And when in doubt:

http://www.collegecuties.org/positions.jpg

The most important thing about making a woman cum, is to make her comfortable (not the positon, but her state of mind). If she is not relaxed, she wont cum.

Easiest way for me to cum is laying on my stomach with my legs closed. It's the best way to hit the g-spot with every single stroke. Yummmmm!

I like that one too...but my suggestion is lots of cunninlingus and foreplay...Most women do not get off on vaginal penetration alone..have fun :thumbsup

I'm good at that too! That's why she likes me!
:glugglug

Sounds like a plan. :thumbsup

FIND THE CLIT!! LOVE IT ! LICK IT!
like CU_Next said, most women cant
get off by just fucking. need some
foreplay and the clit stimulated.

as far as position: I like doggy
and missionary (believe it or not)
when im ready to cum. mostly missionary
cuz the guy can pound it harder and faster
and me laying down while having an orgasm
feels better than me being doggy and collapsing
from too hard of an orgasm & making
my knees weak :winkwink:

the thing is, if she doesn't know how to get herself off and what she likes, and COMMUNICATE it to you... then you pretty much have to try everything...

good, steady pressure on the clit, repetitious.

Great advice so far! :Graucho

women can have orgams?

According to SexEd...no. :(

That's one of Vanilla's favorites too. :Graucho

Its much easier giving her an orgasam with ur hand, just keep working on the G-spot, pull out ur fingers and then touch it again play with her, pull out ur hand and keep doing it, that has to do it, make sure ur hitting the g-spot. its not htat fucking hard,

To give a girl orgazam with ur penis it has to be long enough to reach the SPOT!

so use ur HANDSS!

In my opinion, the best sexual position would have to be Me on top! I can rub inside and out at my own pace and with the right pressure.

:2 cents:

If you are asking here, you have problems :1orglaugh So go with the advice posted here :glugglug

I don't have problems!!! I'm just glandularly challenged! :glugglug

just out of curiosity, what's with the line breaks every 5-7 words?