Am I such a bad person that...
 

i just told my girlfriend if she's pregnant that i would want her to get rid of it...she's been on the depo-shot for 2 years...we've fucked like every night...its worked like a charm but now she's coming at me with some shit about "i might be pregnant" blah blah...i'm 21...in a position to transfer to a university next fall...working on my online shit...i simply can't be having a child right now at this point in my life. is my mindset really so fucked up or do other dudes on here feel me on this?

Hon, if she got knocked up while on depo, you've got miracle sperm. That depo shit fucks women up seriously. Trust me--I was on it for over three years, never got a regular cycle after that and can never have children again. My doctor believes that I had a horrible reaction to the depo, but I'm not alone. :(

/\ see now i feel like shit...now that i think about it though i think it was her idea to get it in the first place though...but yea you're right i shouldn't trip because she just got her last shot like a few months ago...

Dude you were man enough to fuck her now you need to be man enough to take care of that child! Not saying you need to be a husband but you do have to be a dad. Own up to your actions and don't be a punk.

if its your child you will want/have to have something to do with it - if you dont then you truly are a mother fucker

otherwise i can see where you are coming from - you have every right not to want to have children

Be a man and own up to it..she could keep it and make you pay..what does she want to do?

i wanna have children eventually...just not right now...thats why i took proper precautions since i've only been sleeping with the same broad with the depo-shot, it's like 99.7% effective or some shit...

what does she want to do? lol...shit...after i told her thats it i can't have anything to do with her anymore cuz this opens my eyes back up to what could happen...now she starts calling me starting to realize that odds are she aint pregnant anyways...so she's just sad i broke it off and shit, she really loves me but it really is time for me to move on with my life...

Propose he to use mirena. www.mirena.com

She wont get pregnant for 5 years, no hormones around the bloodstream. It "dries" the endometrium so she wont have her period either. Do more research and you'll see how pills are more than oooover.:winkwink:

/\ goddamn...that shit probably fucks up broads worse than the depo..lol...

shots are never accurate. I know 5 women who got preg on the shot.:(

keep her on the shot and wear a condom.

/\ yea but man...have you fucked for 2 years straight without condoms then use one all of the sudden? it fucken sucks. with a new broad condoms would be different and shit...but after being used to 2 years of the same thing...

No, I swear God. My gyneco is an oncologist too, just type mirena on google and you'll see whatta miracle it is. Its even prescribed for women with hard bleeding, as that can lead them to cancer. Read on several sites, and ask a doctor too!:thumbsup

well too late for me and this girl anyways...maybe next time i get around to having a main chick i'll look into that bc...

nothing is sure about contraceptions. if you do not want to have a child right now, go for abstinence and plenty of masturbation 101!

...or go oral/facial or anal. you can still enjoy sex, you knw...:winkwink:

In all seriousness, fucking shame on you. Your girl was being responsible, and doing the right thing, and you act like an asshole. Obviously, she was not ready to be a parent either, which is why she did the RESPONSIBLE thing, and used birth control. Then, the minute "a problem arises" you fucking bail. It is selfish and immature. I hope for her sake she is NOT pregnant, because she does not deserve the penalty of being stuck having a bond with you. Hopefully, she realizes very soon what an immature punk you are, and moves on with her life.:321GFY

Now, good news is that pregnant women love sex most the time. I've heard they get tremendously horny and kinky...

yea i did do her dirty...i shouldn't have stayed wiith her for so long...she was gettin her hopes up to get married and all that lol...that's life though i'm not gonna let it fuck with me...