Ladies - How do you know if a woman truly LOVES you?
 

ok, i'd like to hear from the ladies.

How do you know the difference between when a woman likes you, lusts for you, and when she truly loves you?

I believe you just know.

That's not an easy question..

When they buy you shit, instead of you buying them shit.
When they are open to try random shit, that makes no sence.

For me that's how it starts.

When they sign a prenup that gives them nothing at divorce.

When they ask NOTHING of you...ever! Just to be with you, except to spend time with you! Time tells all! Don't rush anything!!!!

Give her a test....tell her to be somewhere the next day or 2....see if she shows up......her paying, of course! :)

Where did i hear this before :Graucho
Duke

Not from me!

That is a hard question Sleazy. I wish I could put it all into words but I can't. There are just so many things :)

When i like someone these are some of things i do :
-make effort to call them or hang out on regular basis
- this is kind of dorky but i email them or chat online
- send him cards+ gifts for special occasions like for valentine's day / birthdays / xmas ...
- When we go out for dinners i pay the 4 the bill sometimes so its shared

okay this is just depressing :(

They don't care what you have only what you are. They want to see you knowing that all they will get is to see you and they are always happy to see you. I think that is a pretty good indication. :2 cents:

Read and re-read FA, webgurl and Emthree's posts :)

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thanks for the laugh man :thumbsup

All women are sluts! :2 cents:

Ask her to make you a sandwich.

If she brings you a sandwich on a plate that looks like she just slapped it together, she doesn't love you....

But if she brings you a nice sandwich with some chips and a pickle, it's love.

It's all about the extra effort.

simple test... wake her up at 3am by hugging her affectionately. if she opens her eyes and smiles, she loves you. if not... then she doesn't.

i also believe that everything can be summed up in a relationship by the way you say hello and goodbye.


:2 cents:

If you have to ask, chances are she doesn't..... when a woman loves, it's plain as day and there isn't a question to be asked whether she loves you or not. So if you have to ask......... well, it may be lust or something else. You just KNOW when we love....

I have been with my husband more than 20 years and I love him more now than when we met. The things I do are:
when he's sick I take care of him
when he laughs, I laugh with him
when he cries, I take the time to cry with him
when I shop, he's more on my mind than I am
when I am not with him I want to be with him
HIS happiness is above my own

Bottom line, there isn't any place I would rather be or want to be than right by his side, physically, mentally and emotionally. I don't pressure him when I know he is stressing out and I don't nag. Women who TRULY love do NOT nag, despite what people say, none I know does this.

Last but not least, I TRUST him, I love him enough to know he can go out with his friends and he'll come home to me and not have other women on his mind. Women don't trust as easily as men, so if you have their trust, you have something pretty damn special. I don't mean trust that you aren't going to hurt them, I mean trust like you are pretty much free to roam about as you want without her wanting to know each and every move.... she's secure enough with you to know that you aren't going to do ANYTHING to hurt her, physically or emotionally.

That's a few of the ways you can tell... :thumbsup

Damn, Tam - what a great post! :)

I just know when a men loves me he snuggles and spoons just like you do Precious :winkwink:

No two women are going to have the same way of expressing their love and devotion. If she loves you, really loves you, she will make you know it, even if she has to smack you in the face with it.

well thats interesting to find out...