Ever had a moment of clarity when you realized you fucked up your life?
 

If you had this happen to you I hope you had a chance to stop and change it. If not then you truly have my sympathy.

I'm in the process of changing it now, I just hope its not too late

Fuckn sucks man.. I lost custody of my child this week and I feel like shit.:(

I alway get those moments of clarity after it is too late.

Right after I sobered up from my first joint.... I realized I had fucked up my life for years by not smoking pot.

too bad it took that for you to gain clarity

Need help? I used to specialize in helping guys that were going through a divorce not only keep more of their shit but to not lose their kids.

Yup...I know some of you read what was going on with my family. Almost lost my kids, too....and it does suck that it took that to get my head out of the sand. But, it did, and my life, while certainly not less stressful, lol, is definitely moving in the right direction now, and I think we'll end up stronger and wiser than if we had avoided the mess in the first place. You just have to turn a negative into a positive.

PS Hey Pud, we got social services on our asses, too (assuming it wasn't a divorce or something, in which case, sorry for assuming!).....you just have to roll over and play the game their way, by their rules, and don't try to outsmart them. Your kid's worth every sacrifice you'll make, and all in all, it's only a short time that their kids, and once their grown, you can make decisions just for you again.

Since the day I was born :Graucho

Haven't got there yet, let's hope soon :1orglaugh

yea I woke up one day and realized I was a ass hole. :321GFY

already divorced

I have an anger problem and ... this is why every thing happened i got in a fight over some stupid shit with my nabbers ... i done like people in my face ...fuck if i could take every thing back i would

i try every fuckn day not to get in arguments over stupid shit with people because im scared ill get angry , i could blame it on my father for being an ass with me but i feel that's to ez

i was trying to make every thing better ..i just got a new house with a big back yard for my kid and this fucken guy tells my boy not to ride his bike next to his car

Pud: sorry to hear about the kids: Best of luck to yah Dogg ;)

Pud, if English is your native language I'm really sorry!

"Ever had a moment of clarity when you realized you fucked up your life?"

Yep. About two days into my honeymoon.

every morning before the binge drinking begins.

I bought a BMW and then lost my source of income two months later, and had a $400 a month car payment. I felt like a fuckin idiot.

But..... two years later I traded it in and bought a newer one in cash :thumbsup

Just proves that you can always pick yourself back up again!

I didn't start smoking pot until 27, so I know exactly what you are talking about!

:rasta

Ten years have come and gone, I missed the starting gun.

Sometimes I see things to clear.