Serious question: What would you do?
 

What would you do if your GF asks for a break and you find out that she has been going out with a ex-boyfriend of hers.

Should I just dump her?

I´m really upset right now, so it would be nice if all the haters just fuck off right now...

I would.

Yep, me too

Seriously mate I wouldn't have nothing more to do with her!!

If you honestly feel inside she is salvagable and you love her then well let her go and see if she returns. Wish her happiness and the best and let her know that you will be there but you can not promise for how long.

DUMP HER!

This is a hard question. Too many factors involoved.

Do you love her?
Has she been fucking this other guy?
Do you think she loves you?

There's tons more. I'm not hating, just pointing some stuff out. Find out the answers to these questions and you'll be a little more clear on the situation.

It sucks either way, I feel for ya buddy, Take it easy.

Dude, I would move on, and let her go.....

and I would get one last blow job first, then spray her right in the friggin eye with it LOL

when you are done, just say, " OK get out now whore I am done with you"

That should do it...:)

To be honest if someone said they needed a break from me and they were suppose to be my partner I would make the break last forever. Loving me and supporting me (and vice versa) shouldn't be a chore and it isn't a part time job.

Dump her cheating ass..she was probably fucking him

Dump her.. :ak47:

Oh yeah, it's a done deal.

If she's fucking an ex and has asked for break, dump her. :2 cents:

Hell ya, shes cheating on ya,

Of course you should just dump her. Obviously she wants to have casual sex, and you want monogamy (right?).
Neither issue can be forced or cooerced, if it is, it's doomed anyway.
So give in to the stark reality of things and tell it like it is.


edit. Hmmm maybe that was too harsh, but still serious. Take a step back and look at it as it is. Not as you want to see it, not with "spin", but the facts of it. A "break" is for Friends on TV. It's not real. She's too much a wimp to break up with you, so do it for her... sorry.

I know you're hurting; but, what bothers me is she started seeing the ex before she asked for a break.

Good manners dictate saying something first and then seeing others, doesn't it?

Fuck her 1 last time and film it without her knowing, then post it here. :thumbsup

Dude, I would be very upset as well! That is very tough to go through, but you have to get rid of her man!

Ask her about him. He can be just her friend now. U know, my ex b/f is my best friend now and because of the fact that we were living together and he knows me pretty well 4 a long time i often ask him for advice!!!
Talk to her...

ditch the bitch.

just dump her

I know everyone is saying dump her.. but you really need to ask yourself how important she is to your life??

Yes there are girls out there who cant be trusted, but why is she considering leaving?? What is it about this ex that in comparison better than you? Learn from her mistake to avoid it in the future.

I have known guys who allowed this to happen, and they ended up never trusting a woman again - and their self confidence dropped down so far they couldnt find another girl again.

And NO - This is not justification to men that they should have more than one girlfriend since the likely hood of her cheating gives you several options.

But dont look needy dude - girls hate a man that has no confidence in themselves.