GFY Ladies - Which would you take?
 

A guy with an ultra bright mind and decent looks or a guy with an ultra hot bod but no brains upstairs?

:Graucho

I prefer the mind over the body. MOST of the time the guys with the hot bodies are so consumed with themselves that they can't think of much else.... I want one that can think past his own nose..... LMAO

I don't discount the importance of sexual attraction, but at the end of the day it's I think the brain is still the most powerful sex organ :)

Throw wit into the mix and I'm a goner ;)

some brainy guys get intimidated when their wimmens is just as smart.

i just want a guy who won't cut and run when things get real.

Looks are definitely important but the mind and charisma are way more valuable.

mind over body anyday

I'll go even further and say I'd rather have a brainy funny guy who was downright ugly than a good looking idiot with no personality :)

And I've made that choice MANY times and never lived to regret it :thumbsup

However, I did marry a funny genius who was also great looking with a killer bod and hung like a horse and I'm glad I did so I had a cute kid. But even he was still an asshole (husband, not the kid :winkwink: ) I should have stuck with the ugly guys :)

mmmmmmmmmm KRL:thumbsup

can i have half and half?? =)

90% of women preffer being with a smart guy with average looks than a "stud" with the iq of a chimp. If you want some proof go to americansingles.com and take a look at how they rate intelligence compared to how they rate looks.

Mind for sure. Everyone looks like shit down the road....so go for what does last...a great mind

Now compare that with who they will fuck on the first date or use as a bootycall.

it also depends on whether he is just a booty call that keeps his dumb mouth shut, or a serious relationship where conversation is key

---->$$$<----- :Graucho

my gurlfriend said that it take the middle

why choose when you can have both :Graucho

Good call, but if I had to choose it would be the guy with the brains and average looks :thumbsup

My girlfriend says its the sense of humor that counts. So that makes me an ugly dumb fucker with a lttle dick that can tell a joke. :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

I would pick the one who was 100% completely faithful.

They can be dumb as long as they are faithful, or not that good-looking as long as they are faithful, if they aren't then nothing else matters. I don't care of they are a genius, or look like Brad Pitt, if they are going to cheat on me then there is no point!!

I would even be with someone not great looking and not the smartest who is even poor, as long as they are faithful.. that is the only thing that matters to me.

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

:winkwink:

If any of you GFY ladies want to play with my sex organ I'm all for it :Graucho

KRL,
It's a good question, but unfortunately not one that people can truthfully or accurately answer themselves. It's a fact that people will not want to make themselves look like superficial idiots, and therefore will give the answer they think will make themselves look better.

I've seen some interesting psychology studies videotaped, in my days as a psychology student. One of which was where they put an average looking lady on the side of the road, with the hood on her car up, during rush hour traffic. Not one soul stopped to help her. If you asked those people if they'd stop for an average looking lady who needed help, do you think they'd say no?

Just as you might guess, they followed that segment with an extremely attractive lady in the same situation. In contrast, she had DOSENS of men lining up in their cars, behind hers. They were WALKING to fill up gas cans, and even after explaining other guys were already getting gas, MORE men went to get gas for her. By the time the tape was over, 3 or 4 men had brought her gas.

Food for thought. :2 cents:

LOL, at least you're being honest :)
WG

good thing im married. i ran out of both.:anon

The smart guy for sure.... :)

Looks are most definitely not everything. Ever meet someone for the first time and your first thought is that they're not very visually appealing? Then you start hanging with them a bit more and next thing you know you're dating. Three months down the road you think he's the sexiest man you've ever met.

Luckily I'm currently dating someone with both looks and brains. Now I just have to teach him English and I'll be all set. :1orglaugh

That's my hubby! :)

this thread has been very informative

peaches, just think how good looking our kids would be.

mind over body...I cannot stand a man that has no common sense..I dont give a fuck how great they thing they look..plus who wants a man that is better looking than them...:1orglaugh

I knew there was a reason on why I don't work out.

i prefer a smart guy than anything else...looks can be changed
:thumbsup

Hmmm interesting thread KRL :thumbsup

what they will answer here doesn't mean shit :1orglaugh

BTW most of them would take the stupid, ugly looking guy, but with money instead :1orglaugh

you liars,...

My girl has both :)

I'm one hot motherfucker and I'm smart as hell too :)

Good thing i'm married i'm dumb as shit and i'm a fugly mother fucker...

That's about how I feel. A guy can be so mentally stimulating, but if he's ugly, you can't get past a lack of physical attraction. Another thing that's sexy is talent. There's nothing hotter than a musician.

or would you rather have a guy like me who has both?

Then you have the Nick Baauw's of the world who are smart, funny and very cute - just born 20 years too late. :winkwink:

In a crowd, the attraction is to the regular guy that exudes intelligence. I've never been one to go for the hotties & very rarely will comment on a guys 'good looks'. Beauty is skin deep - if the beauty is gone, what's there to look forward to?

You are such a sweetheart KISS KISS KISS :winkwink: