| hydro |
09-22-2004 10:28 PM |
its not your pickup lines romeo, its your mindset
Ill make sure to post at least 1 "player guide" every week. Some will laugh, some will hate, some will doubt. Some will understand it, use it, and succeed.
Breaking through your mindset is not an easy thing to do, it may take a while before you can let it go and grasp a new one. Most men were told by their father/brother/mother to treat women with ?respect? by complimenting them on their good looks, ignoring their weaknesses, and giving into their demanding and possessive attitudes which is what turns men into pussies. The truth is that women don?t want guys with this type of mindset; almost all will say they want a ?nice guy? but the nice guy?s only good use is a shoulder to cry on. What women really want is a guy who?s in charge and hard to change, in other words a challenge. Somebody who doesn?t chase her, could care less if she?s dating him and doesn?t give into her, that?s why women are attracted to ?bad boys?. They can?t be controlled and are hard to change; if they do manage to get a ?you look nice? or ?wow you look sexy tonight? it makes them feel special, very special. Im not saying you should go out and buy a harley and get a tattoo on your arm, you just need to change the way you think of what women want and realize that what they want is the exact opposite of what they say.
The quickest way to change your mindset is to remember everything your mom/dad/brother told you about dating and attracting women and do the exact opposite of what they said. Don?t treat women like shit and beat them but don?t give into them and learn to use the word ?no?. You need to find a median between jerk/dead beat and nice guy.
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