this girl I'm seeing want's to restart smoking after 2 weeks of quitting...
 

and it makes me feel like shit :(

I usually don't care at all when the girls I see smoke, but this one, dunno, there's something I really like about her

and the fact that she couldn't put it down for good...



what do you guys think?

This thread is useless wivout pics:Graucho

i think you really like her dude! just let her do the thing.. if she really wants to stop,then she will!

yeah, out of all the girls Im "seeing", I seem to be attached to her the most, she's a sweetheart

and it hurts me that she "can't" stop smoking, she was doing pretty damn good

both her parents smoke

it means yer not givin her enuff good sex

The first month is going to be the most fucked up time in a quitter's life. She's going to feel absolutely horrible. She's going to cough up and hack more than you thought was possible, and she's going to feel the very wind get sucked out of her.

I cannot tell you when it will stop, but for me, it stopped almost a month after I quit smoking.

Just tell her not to worry about "all those cigarettes" she won't be smoking, but to just know that she's not going to smoke the very next cigarette.

She's already over the hardest part if she's been clean for 2 weeks. If she restarts, then there's another problem.

she took a cigarette yesterday
I saw her today and she told me she was craving hardcore, but I told her to try to keep her mind off her

she is also feeling very down, I believe family problems

its not like shes going back to her crack habit.. whats the big deal here?

she actually decided to stop smoking, and did so for 2 whole weeks, to see her restart is heartbreaking

I guess it's when you care bout someone :glugglug

hittin ya up on icq bro

If your care is sincere you should urge her to stop drinking alcohol during partytime.. goes for you too.

If alcohol was invented today it would be considered a hard drug.

If drinking is OK so is smoking! :2 cents:

I got your message. did you get mine? ICQ is a fucker :(

smoking kills
it makes your breath smell like shit
it's a turnoff

and as for that, she DOESN'T drink alcohol during partytime :glugglug , well not more than 1 beer at least...

Tell her that's fine she took the cigarette, and she still has a way out.

Even to this day, I feel that I want a cigarette from time to time, but I remember how shitty I felt compared to how I feel now. When you're smoking, you don't realize that you feel as shitty as you do.

Tell her to not kid herself, there is no way anyone could just reduce the number of cigarettes. I have a lot of self control, but cigarettes were my downfall.

The only way I could do it was go to bed and not smoke that last cigarette before bed, then wake up and take a Commit Lozenge.

That's how I quit. I bought 4 boxes of those lozenges and I finally didn't need the last box. I kept the last blister pack from the last box as a symbol of my past addiction and in case I needed it. I don't need them any more.

I don't even need the symbol anymore, but I've just been too damn lazy to clear them out of the medicine cabinet.

Better than banging smack...be thankful

Wants to?

I'll give you non smokers a little tip. She already has. :winkwink:

it's all relative...

push her not to... it's for your own good... as well as the couple good since as you said it's a turn off.. and seems to bother you enough to post about it here ;)

my icq is fucking up.... slow as fuck.... I'm answering as I can see them

exactly, but I am not around her all the time, I spend maybe 3-4 hours a week with her or so...

I can't control what she does on her other time, and I am scared that if I MENTION "don't smoke", it will make her want that cigarette even more

Drinking doesn't kill the person who's drinking usually.

An alcoholic can kill themselves drinking, but it's a slow death via liver disease.

Drinking does, however, kill other people when a driver decides to get behind a wheel after knocking back a few. This is stupid.

you know what: let her enjoy it.. with 4 more years Bush some big Iranian nukes will come our way... enjoy life to the fullest :2 cents:

(final attempt to give a reasonable suggestion)

add me on AIM yo: bdjufff

I guess so, that's why I don't care about other girls I see that smoke, I just say let them enjoy it, as long as they don't do it when Im around, or before making out :1orglaugh


but with her, it's different, because she did all that to stop, and it seems as if she can't "win" :(

best of luck to her

sorry don't have aim :(

Hope you got my icq messages... hope it helps ya :thumbsup

you rock bro, thanx for the support :thumbsup

Don't tell her that.. just tell her that she can do whatever she wants but make sure to let her know that you don't like kissing her after she smokes... it might make her think more than telling her outright it's gonna kill her...

tell her to smoke your poll instead..

she has to quit for herself NOT for you!!

tell her it hurts you but its her choice to quit, the first fight or if you break up and she will go back to smoking if its based on you

I quit 1 1/2months ago, not for my fiancee, but myself - tell her to cut down until she is able to do 2 a day, then she can do cold turkey.. either way, keep supporting her, but you may have to face living your life with her smoking... if you cant prepare yourself for that - then its unfair to her to change for you, and its not right for you to put up with someone that does.

do whats best for you - and allow her to do whats best for her

bzzt

If she doesnt quit then get rid of her. Smoking is fucking disgusting. Dont let some chick wreck your health.

Makes sense as well... I wouldn't go out with a women that smokes myself..

If you plan long time with her... think about the fact that she'll poison your kids.