Bdsm
 

what does it stand for and what exactly does it mean? i know it's something about tie up sex and some wierd shit like that but my mind is having English language block right now...so please excuse the stupidity

bondage and sado masichism, enjoy inflicting pain on others and you enjoying receiving pain.

thank you for your professional response.

If you want to learn more, I highly suggest signing up for a free account on alt.com and talking to a few people.

Most people in the "lifestyle" (as they call it) completely seperate "play" (the actual scene of a sub being dominated) and sex.

If you want to promote this kind of niche, there's a lot of terminology you need to know. Some quick pointers:

Always capitalize anyone in a story or sentence as the "top" (dome). i.e. Mistress, Master, Dominatrix

subs get lower case at all times - even for proper names. (i.e. mary, john, slave)

It actually is a composite for B&D D&S and S&M

Bondage/Discipline Dominance/Submission Sadism/Masochism (I'm pretty sure that's right. I might have the D's mixed up though.)

Are you exploring the niche? Gotta be careful because people in the scene really resent people not in the scene horning in on their kink. You've got to know at least a little about what you're selling before this niche will buy. There are a lot of misconceptions about what is a Dom (or Domme) and what is a submissive. And to be honest it's different for everyone. Some tops only want to be referred to as Master or Mistress and insist on all kinds of ceremony and theatrics. Others are fine with pet names and proper names and are more into differnt headspace or different facets of the kink.