I told my boss to go fuck himself today...wrong or right?
 

As some of you guys know I only do this adult stuff as a hobby. Sure its a profitable hobby but still a hobby.

My main work is in the security and bouncer area.

But the company I worked for have had some problems with it´s organisation and we alway gotten our schemes late in the month and they where always wrong printed since 6 month back.

And today was my second day at work after my 5 weeks holiday.

And I was allready feeling angry because of the incompenece of my bosses.

One thing lead to another and I ended this day telling my boss to go fuck himself and I left work with the words "From now on I am sick and I wont tell you when im back again"

So now im gonna go to a doctor and trying to get a long term sickness paper :)

So was I wrong for telling my boss this you think.

Maby its time to fuck the world and go fulltime finally into the adult bizz.

I hate the world right now.

my neighbor got fired yesterday after he punched his boss and another warehouse worker....his boss's top lip was severed and had to have stiches inside and out...it was basically hanging off under his nose....

crazy shit...but a damn good story

Why do u work ?
Dont you make enough money in adult biz ?

are you as stupid as to think that a doctor will sign such a paper?

Fuck the world. If you think you can make good money in this business go for it.

I personally think having a boss sucks.

I know doctors that'd do that

Are you naive enough to think there aren't doctors that will? :winkwink:

Yepp I allready got one.
Noone here in sweden will say no if you tell them the right things. :)

Sure I make good money in adult bizz. But I also liked I say LIKED the work I was working with as a bouncer.

But maby it finally comed to and end...I will take this week to think about it.

But sure feels that way.

Go fulltime :)

Hey, might be a good time to venture into adult full time. Kak_azn is looking for a partner, maybe you two could start something together.

Thats no problem if Sweden is anything like Denmark when it comes to that just need the right story :winkwink:

Contacting you about some "things" now

Andre

hey bro - sad thing is that whoever has the money has the power, right or wrong - its a job and hes got the cash. Every boss has their pro's and con's - so they fuck up every now and then - at times making wrong decisions that you know will ultimately harm the company, all anyone can do as an employee is say that you give a shit about the company and that you feel he has made a wrong turn.

yet in the end, he is the boss - writes the checks.

If you feel that you can survive on your other jobs without suffering too much then its no use putting yourself through additional stress. yet there are worse jobs out there, and in an industry where sales people, tech's and designers switch jobs faster than a bukkake round-a-bout.

I would have recommended if you needed the cash to find another place of employment before ditching this one, but in this business - never burn your bridges.. never. Networking is very important and a bad name does more damage than anyone realizes. Owners talk to owners.

I am fortunate that for the 8 years that I am still on pretty good terms with the majority I have worked with.

Långtidssjukskriven? Kom igen, kör så det ryker, 9-5 är för idioter :)

That decision may already be out of your hands... unless your boss is ALSO a really good friend who will forgive you, or some kind of pussy who likes to be abused.

it is always best to leave on good terms

Their's no money in porn keep your job!

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

Does not work that way here in sweden.

Interesting. How DOES it work?

wrong
i think you always can right solution with your bosses

Well the employee got alot of fucking rights.

And I did not just burst out like that for no reason at all.

I tried to fix things first so when they wanna mess with me I got a guy from the union who will rip those fuckers apart if needed :)

They say change is good and that everything happens for a reason. Just something to ponder.

Why be a pussy? If you want to quit, than quit. Find another job or really work on your Adult biz, but why should society pay for your lazy ass?

Why not ? He can have a doctor friend ...

go fulltime ... you won't regret it if you work hard .

The doctor and uinion stuff sounds nuts. Sweden sounds like loafer hell.

For me, I find that just about the only time that
tellin someone "go fuck yourself" is the best
course of action is when they ask me what the
busiest adult board is.
Call me a wuss, but what works better for me is
to say "Dave, these am having a problem because
of these two issues, ____ and ____. These two problems
haven't gotten better in the last year or so.
Is there anything I can do to help you fix these
problems, because if not I don't think I'll be able to
continue working here."
I had a scheduling problem one time that I ncely brought
to my boss's attention. he said that if I thought
I could write a schedule that would keep everyone
happy go right ahead. I did a good schedule and
kept writing the schedule for the next year or two.

OK, so let's say you decide that wasn't the best thing to do.
Each day at bedtime, I look over my day, looking for
times when I've behaved badly because I was being
selfish, angry, or afraid. then that night or the next
day I call the people or whatever and make it right.
Maybe you still want to quit, but you can still call the
boss or go by and say "I apologize for losing my temper.
I was angry about other things and let my anger get the best of me.
Though I do feel that I need to move on, I wish you well."

Uhh you just admited you are gonna scam your government for disabilty that you don't need.... is that illegal where you come from, it is here.

Yes it is :(

:evil-laug :eek2 :eek2 muuhaaaaaaa

really? wow...hope the boss will forgive you. but why don't go fulltime?

Scandinavia is built around the wellfare system.
Basically it creates a whole bunch of deadbeats doing nothing, and just leeching off of the state.

According to an article I just read:
On any given day, as much as 25% of the total work force in Norway ( Sweden is very similar ) is home sick from work.

Haha I'd like to see THAT happen in the US.

Work fulltime in the biz

eh...who cares if it was wrong or right...as long as it felt good! :thumbsup

stick with what you love to do as your main gig

good for you

Well its kind of funny really..
The bosses are so busy they never had the time to talk to me about the problems I had with my scedule.

And now when I made a fuzz and called in sick...NOW they have time.

Aint that funny. Well maby I dont have time now.

Wankers.

I told my boss to go fuck himself 5 years ago. I then started my own business and now I can tell everone to go fuck themselfs. Best thing I ever done was to start my own thing. Hopefully I will never have to go back to a regular job again.