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08-23-2004 03:17 PM |
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Originally posted by Trixie
I'm a lazy domme, and most fond of psychological domination and humiliation. At heart, and with people I trust, I'm a switch. I'm not sure I can be of any assistance since it's totally a personal thing with me, not a "lifestyle" or something I feel particularly knowledgeable outside of my own kinks (well, and experience with phone & video customers).
Now I'm dying to know why you ask!
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I think I can relate.....I have this hungry curiosity...I'm very dominant in my marriage...just the way things go at my place...what Mama says, goes. My husband is very, very, very laid back. Too much pot, I guess, lmao. He's not interested in being a sub in the typical sense of the word; he just says he trusts me to handle most things because I make sound decisions 99% of the time, while he has problems even making the wrong ones, lol. So, I don't think he'll let me get my kink on with him. What's funny, is, with him in bed, I'm pretty submissive, anyway...I guess that's the one place he "flexxxes" his muscle (:Graucho and at 10.5, it's a very impressive muscle!)
Anyway, I think the draw for me is the nuturing aspect....I could never be a cruel mistress....even discipline would be administered with a loving hand. i suppose that alienates me from subs who crave that treatment, but again, lol, I assume that there are others who just like to give up control. (Though in all reality, in a healthy D/s relationship it is the sub who sets the limits.)
Anyway, I guess I am just wanting someone with a bit of experience to bounce my interpertations of D/s relationships off of...so anyway, if you'd like to chat, please feel free to hit me up...the number's in my sig!
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