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polish_aristocrat 08-12-2004 05:35 AM

Adult Friend Finder - fake profiles, whores or really girls looking for fuck buddies?
 
What do you think?
Are really the tens of women who place their nude pics on AFF saying they live in London and they want some action, real woman looking for easy fuck partners? Or rather professional whores, or just often fake profiles?

:glugglug

EviLGuY 08-12-2004 05:36 AM

I hooked up with a girl off there one time like 4 years ago. :)

polish_aristocrat 08-12-2004 05:39 AM

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Originally posted by EviLGuY
I hooked up with a girl off there one time like 4 years ago. :)
Cool, I know you can find a partner in a dating site, but I doubt there're so many woman who openly say "Hi, In live in London, ( Chicago, Sydney, wtahever ), my name is Sandra, I am 23, I am always wet, wanna hook up for some action?" And then their post pics of their face and often also tits + pussy :Graucho

Or am i wrong? :helpme

bigdog 08-12-2004 05:42 AM

Those dating sites are a trip. I signed up with one, with bascially a blank profile. I just clicked on any key on the keyboard to make up my profile. A couple days later i check my email and i got ladies intrested in me

Oracle Porn 08-12-2004 05:43 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by polish_aristocrat
Cool, I know you can find a partner in a dating site, but I doubt there're so many woman who openly say "Hi, In live in London, ( Chicago, Sydney, wtahever ), my name is Sandra, I am 23, I am always wet, wanna hook up for some action?" And then their post pics of their face and often also tits + pussy :Graucho

Or am i wrong? :helpme

American sluts bro...american sluts....:winkwink:

EviLGuY 08-12-2004 05:44 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by polish_aristocrat
Cool, I know you can find a partner in a dating site, but I doubt there're so many woman who openly say "Hi, In live in London, ( Chicago, Sydney, wtahever ), my name is Sandra, I am 23, I am always wet, wanna hook up for some action?" And then their post pics of their face and often also tits + pussy :Graucho

Or am i wrong? :helpme

This one was pretty forward if I recall correctly.. a really slutty type. I agree though that most of those type are probably either escorts looking for johns or complete fakes trying to lead you to a website.

Webmaster_Logic 08-12-2004 05:46 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by EviLGuY
This one was pretty forward if I recall correctly.. a really slutty type. I agree though that most of those type are probably either escorts looking for johns or complete fakes trying to lead you to a website.
:thumbsup

arachnO 08-12-2004 06:01 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Oracle Porn
American sluts bro...american sluts....:winkwink:
:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

neewwman 08-12-2004 06:35 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by EviLGuY
most of those type are probably either escorts looking for johns or complete fakes trying to lead you to a website.
Don't disillusion me. I need to believe that there are lots of women eager to fuck me with no strings attached.

KRL 08-12-2004 06:36 AM

One girl e-mailed and said she would go out on a 4 hour date for $2,500. She said it would be the most incredible date ever.

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

:321GFY

pxxx 08-12-2004 06:38 AM

I dont think thats true because a porn lady lives across the street and she be saying she is from canada.

uchase/webpry 08-12-2004 06:39 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by neewwman
Don't disillusion me. I need to believe that there are lots of women eager to fuck me with no strings attached.
... belive me, there are.

Veterans Day 08-12-2004 06:40 AM

escorts or fake....period

polish_aristocrat 08-12-2004 06:43 AM

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Originally posted by uchase/webpry
... belive me, there are.
But they just go out to the clubs, instead of creating a adult friend finder profile, don't they ?

polish_aristocrat 08-12-2004 08:01 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by polish_aristocrat
But they just go out to the clubs, instead of creating a adult friend finder profile, don't they ?
:banana :banana :banana

johndoebob 08-12-2004 09:16 AM

Aff takes care of the fake ones,believe me there are a lot who want to fuck like you want to.

CurrentlySober 08-12-2004 09:19 AM

There ARE real ones and more than you think as well, out on adult friend lifestylelounge etc...
Basically its just Lifestylers :)

kane 08-12-2004 09:26 AM

alittle while back I did a little experiment with it. I did a browse for women in my area and emailed the first 50 women on there. about 15 of them never got back to me about 30 of them ended up being fake they would send me emails saying things like " you sound like a cool guy, here's some more pics of me that are more recent" and link to a site that had a couple other pics and invited me to join an AVS to see the naughty pics and about 5 of them were real.

EviLGuY 08-12-2004 09:30 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by kane
alittle while back I did a little experiment with it. I did a browse for women in my area and emailed the first 50 women on there. about 15 of them never got back to me about 30 of them ended up being fake they would send me emails saying things like " you sound like a cool guy, here's some more pics of me that are more recent" and link to a site that had a couple other pics and invited me to join an AVS to see the naughty pics and about 5 of them were real.
That sounds about right to me too.. you can sort of get a sense for who the fakes are after a while too.

I probably emailed about 10 and I nailed one.. thats not a bad conversion ratio. :)

JohnnyPearl 08-12-2004 09:57 AM

Yahoo personal and AFF are the 2 best dating sites.. I have picked up a enough chicks for those sites.. Before those I use to get tons from AOL Personal. And I mean Tons..

ShellyCrash 08-12-2004 10:35 AM

One thing that's important to keep in mind is that where ever you go online- the internet is still the internet. There was a thread about this last week, I'm pretty confident most of us in the dating industry do our best to weed out the fakes and sales reps- etc- but take this message board for example- how many people on here have multiple aliases and post under fake names, etc.

We do the validation feature- where members can send in a copy of their state issued photo ID and we update their profile to reflect that the pics posted are fair and accurate depictions of the account holder. Other sites I'm sure have their own methods. I would always be suspicious of a member who says "email me at.." right away- most members don't give out their personal email address until they've chatted with someone etc. You just have to use common sense.

I know for a fact people do hook up on adult dating sites like ours because our customer service department is flooded with the aftermath- the break ups. If something goes wrong on a date people get crazy- they are always trying to get eachother banned, etc. :winkwink:

polish_aristocrat 08-12-2004 11:10 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by ShellyCrash
One thing that's important to keep in mind is that where ever you go online- the internet is still the internet. There was a thread about this last week, I'm pretty confident most of us in the dating industry do our best to weed out the fakes and sales reps- etc- but take this message board for example- how many people on here have multiple aliases and post under fake names, etc.

We do the validation feature- where members can send in a copy of their state issued photo ID and we update their profile to reflect that the pics posted are fair and accurate depictions of the account holder. Other sites I'm sure have their own methods. I would always be suspicious of a member who says "email me at.." right away- most members don't give out their personal email address until they've chatted with someone etc. You just have to use common sense.

I know for a fact people do hook up on adult dating sites like ours because our customer service department is flooded with the aftermath- the break ups. If something goes wrong on a date people get crazy- they are always trying to get eachother banned, etc. :winkwink:

Thanks for your comprehensive reply.
And - as said before - I know people can find partners in dating sites. But once again, i was just wondering...f.e when i make a search on AFF - woman - 19-25, looking for 1-0n-1 sex in Italy and there come tens or hundreds results with woman who are posing nude in these photos. I don't think women are so straight forward so I was wondering if their profiles are real. :2 cents:

polish_aristocrat 08-12-2004 11:11 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by EviLGuY

I probably emailed about 10 and I nailed one.. thats not a bad conversion ratio. :)

You converted them better than WiredGuy converts SE traffic :Graucho

JohnnyPearl 08-12-2004 11:17 AM

I find with AFF it's better to write to ads with no pictures.. So far I have meet a bunch that way.. Cause no normal non adult working female will pose nude pictures.. There are a few but not many..

polish_aristocrat 08-12-2004 12:58 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by JohnnyPearl
I find with AFF it's better to write to ads with no pictures.. So far I have meet a bunch that way.. Cause no normal non adult working female will pose nude pictures.. There are a few but not many..
seems true :thumbsup

2HousePlague 08-12-2004 07:55 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by polish_aristocrat
What do you think?
Are really the tens of women who place their nude pics on AFF saying they live in London and they want some action, real woman looking for easy fuck partners? Or rather professional whores, or just often fake profiles?

:glugglug

I appreciate everyone's comments.

Here's our perspective of things. In many ways AdultFriendFinder is like a vast bazaar in the center of a great city. Everybody goes there with their own individual expectations of what they are hoping to "buy" and what they are hoping to "sell". I use the words buy and sell deliberately because sexual encounters are often very transactional in nature, even when no money, per se, changes hands. Unfortunately, as with all large marketplaces, sometimes people come there to misrepresent, to cheat, to deceive, to advance commercial objectives under the guise of human interaction.

When you look at it this way, the lines that separate a person who is offering sex in exchange for dinner, from the person who wants to monetize you as traffic in their own web site, from the person who will actually have sex with you for a negotiated price, become a little blurry. From this potentially confused and muddy state of affairs, we're forced to examine the basic objectives of our site. We want AdultFriendFinder to be the best place on the Web for people to come whenever they want to explore themselves and others sexually. Sometimes that exploration takes the form of physical meetings, sometimes the need is fulfilled through online interaction -- chat, e-mail, exchange of photos, etc. Many of our perfectly satisfied members never reach out at all, but simply gratify their desires by browsing the profiles of their neighbors nextdoor or of strangers on the other side of the globe Given such a broad range of possible member desires and gratifications, it behooves us to keep the options as open as we can. Where we draw the line is very simple: members must be the person they are representing in their profile, and they must refrain from making anonymous commercial solicitations to other members. By anonymous, we mean links to other sites or any open requests for e-mails that rob the AFF experience of its intended direct person-to-person quality.

So, my dear AFF members, I can tell you with absolute conviction that there are millions of REAL people looking for "something" on our site. Whether the "something" they are offering matches the "something" you may be seeking is a matter for personal, private discussion between consenting adults. Caveat emptor.

Jack Mardack
General Manager of Affiliate Programs
FriendFinder Inc.

Dagwolf 08-12-2004 08:02 PM

I have nothing against women... If they want to be escorts, or just want to make a few bucks off their AVS sites...let 'em! Holy catfish, people... We're in the same business.

As for female webmasters taking advantage of dating sites to sell their products... That's kind of a grey area. I mean, they flash some tit, chat up a few guys and make them feel good about themselves, then sell some nude pics... what's the problem?

Sneezy 08-12-2004 08:18 PM

well put Jack.


:thumbsup

2HousePlague 08-12-2004 09:29 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Sneezy
well put Jack.


:thumbsup

Thanks, Sneezy,

j-

xclusive 08-12-2004 09:33 PM

Not only are all the profiles real if you are really good santa will pay you a visit...

polish_aristocrat 08-13-2004 04:38 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Dagwolf
I have nothing against women... If they want to be escorts, or just want to make a few bucks off their AVS sites...let 'em! Holy catfish, people... We're in the same business.


In that case it should be called Escort Friend Finder.
When you go to a Club, start chatting with a girl but then she says she can be yours for $$$$, then you probably get mad and disappointed, unless you were looking for a hooker, but in that case you'd probably go to a borthel or call an escort agency instead of going to a club.... :2 cents:

polish_aristocrat 01-31-2005 02:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xclusive
Not only are all the profiles real if you are really good santa will pay you a visit...

oh really? :uhoh

flashfire 01-31-2005 02:06 AM

mostly fake I think...I dont really know either way though

Der Schleicher 01-31-2005 02:06 AM

that's the usual way of the trade.

xNetworx 01-31-2005 02:10 AM

I fucked one of the most beautiful MILFs of all time, several times, met her on AFF. I quit a few months after that becuase it wasn't gonna get any better

polish_aristocrat 01-31-2005 02:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pimpporn
I fucked one of the most beautiful MILFs of all time, several times, met her on AFF. I quit a few months after that becuase it wasn't gonna get any better

pics? does she still has a profile? :Graucho

BRISK 01-31-2005 02:12 AM

I saw Tawnee Stone and some other Lightspeed girls on AFF

so....uh...yeah....it must be real. Everything on the internet is real. :winkwink:

detoxed 01-31-2005 02:15 AM

ding ding ding all of the above

stev0 01-31-2005 03:33 AM

a good portion are fake, there's no way they can keep up and delete all the fake accounts people make to promote stuff.

$5 submissions 01-31-2005 03:35 AM

If anyone's looking to make money from dating traffic, hit me up :)

sean416 01-31-2005 03:45 AM

how many of you people actually sign up for that shit? lol. I'm gonna have to check it out... maybe Jack will have a new member tonight :p

Varius 01-31-2005 03:45 AM

I can share some input here :)

There will always be escorts/agencies and ofcourse fake profiles trying to weasle their way into any dating site (particularly adult dating). What portion, all depends on how the site operates.

IwantU, for example, employs real people whose sole job is 'browsing'. These people must read and approve every profile submitted or modified on the website. They then either accept it or reject it (there are many reasons to reject it too: wrong club, underage, invalid profile, spam).

This means we try and stop as much of the fakeness as we can. Obviously you cannot stop it 100%, because some people will create profiles manually, putting average pictures and normal text (they spam you once you have sent them a message). Here we just try and find patterns, and scripts notify us of things like many profiles from the same IP, etc...

Now on the flipside, some sites don't check anything at all. I can give you one perfect example:

I signup and post my profile as junk. 'ksdgkfjsdgf kjsdgkjfs dgkjf' will do nicely. I get the message my profile is pending and it will take upto 24 hours, that's pretty normal. Two minutes later I have an email saying my profile is approved, and then I start getting mail saying people read my profile and think we click, etc etc.....OBVIOUSLY script-generated messages from the site itself.

So you can see the number of fake profiles you find will vary depending how the site is run. I can tell you though that there ARE hot women who use dating sites these days who do just want to fuck :winkwink:

SleazyDream 01-31-2005 03:47 AM

aff is more real than any other service out there - unlike others that just fuck around and say this and that about their program they ACTUALLY have dozens of people on staff full time verifying profiles.

Aff is real - very real

iamhere 01-31-2005 03:58 AM

of course a way to make a living
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by polish_aristocrat
What do you think?
Are really the tens of women who place their nude pics on AFF saying they live in London and they want some action, real woman looking for easy fuck partners? Or rather professional whores, or just often fake profiles?

:glugglug

This is the way they make money ,and you have to pay for it there is one site you don,t have to pay for thats meelover dot com

Dalai lama 01-31-2005 04:00 AM

All three is my guess.

Varius 01-31-2005 04:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SleazyDream
aff is more real than any other service out there - unlike others that just fuck around and say this and that about their program they ACTUALLY have dozens of people on staff full time verifying profiles.

Aff is real - very real

As I said above, that's pretty much the only way to verify profiles (having browse agents). Scripts or code can catch some of the more obvious methods, but people will quickly try better methods of avoiding detection.....

If AFF uses real agents, that makes two of us so far.....I don't know how many of the other adult programs can say that they do...though I know for a fact which obviously do NOt :upsidedow

Shoehorn! 01-31-2005 04:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KRL
One girl e-mailed and said she would go out on a 4 hour date for $2,500. She said it would be the most incredible date ever.

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

:321GFY

It'd be a hell of a lot cheaper than marrying her.

E.Kant 01-31-2005 04:38 AM

it is hard to believe but I think they arereal , altough I wonder why (and some are really cute ) gils set up their profile there when they can easily have every man they see on the street ...

pushpills 01-31-2005 04:40 AM

I had 2 offers about 3 years ago, one i got head from the other i didnt meet cuzz i started dating someone.

theres fakers and spammers up the yin yang but theres real people there. alexa rating: 58

hova 01-31-2005 04:51 AM

It's a nice moneymaker


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