If your wife/gf makes more money than you, are you a LOSER?
 

My buddies have a big thing against having to 'depend' on their women financially. What are your thoughts?

I would not care if my gf made more money then me.

I think it'd be great.. I'd sit home and play computer games and watch tv. :Graucho

.. actually not too different from now.

I couldnt care less, be happy for her

I think it would be awsome if my wife made more money then me, only stupid people would have a problem with that :)

i think being a loser is about more than just money, you have to work at it

No, I would be happy.

my wife makes over 400k in real estate Im at home with the baby lovin life:glugglug

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true- there are plenty of people in this world with no money but aren't losers - they kick ass at other stuff

I cannot imagine earning less than my gf/ wife :2 cents:

No just a smart picker of GF's :thumbsup

My girlfriend will never make ass much money than i do.

A lot of guys have this problem. I dated a guy who at first was fine with it, then slowly started freaking out. He'd max out his credit cards just to pay for things. Didn't make any sense to me. :(

note to myself: Peaches is a woman

Yeah, a serious LOSER ! :thumbsup

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yes

DAMN man thats the fucking life :)


My wife right now makes about as much as I do, but hopefully I'll be passing her up in the next few months.

I make more than my husband and he doesn't seem to have a problem with it. And besides, it's all 'our' money, not 'mine' and 'his'. When you're building a life, family, and home together, why does it matter where the money comes from? I put in the time and effort building the business and he works a regular job, this way we have the best of both worlds. He has medical and dental benefits and a nice retirement package...plus some extra time on his hands to be my lawn bitch ;)

I think a guy who feels threatened by it has esteem problems :2 cents:

I put that "ego" shit aside alot of guys have and live life and enjoy it with the wife and child, I got no time for that nonsense.:glugglug

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Just keep your finances separate. She doesn't have to know how much you make, you don't have to know how much she makes.

When you just sleep all day and play video games and just wait for your girl to bring home a paycheck then you're a fucking loser. If your girl makes more than you but you still work, then no you're not a loser.

Women should get the same chance for a career as men and careers sometimes take unusual turns. So I don't see a problem, if you "depend" on your mate for a certain period of time as long as this is something mutually agreed.

i wouldn't care if my girl was making more money than me as i would have an income also so we'd be making a lot of money together :thumbsup

I don't think it should be an issue since, you are a couple, you should be great for each one's achievement

I don't see how if the wife/gf makes more money than me I would "have" to depend on her financially :2 cents:

Unless of course she made like millions a year and wanted to be with me and still life the life of a millionare, then yeah, she would have to support some of that, but in you average relationship you're only a loser if you don't do anything :glugglug

Personally I wouldn't have a problem with it.....

I wouldn't rely on no woman though even if they was filthy rich :2 cents:

Your body is not a pimp then

LOSER.

What's wrong with a little give and take? One works while the other goes through school, or one stays home with a child, etc etc. The important thing is that both partners contribute to the family, and there are more ways to contribute than monetarily.

You might feel like one! But, i think as long as she does'nt throw it in your face it's cool! :thumbsup

you hit the nail on the head...


been through various cycles over the last 12 years of marraige, I expect more to come...


if you or your partner have security issues then its generally about a few more things than 'just' money...and that should be dealt with...

maybe if you live in 1942

I could care less if she did, I'd be happy for her. :)

Doesn't bother me one bit, it must be nice to have a sugar mamma!

WG

Wouldn't bother me, most of the money is for family etc so why would it bother?

I couldn't have said it better than that!:thumbsup

Kitty and I help each other in many different ways. It's a partnership not a competition! :)

I'd be the happiest man in the world if my GF made more than me. :1orglaugh


Then i might be able to get out of debt. LOL