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  • AaronM
    GFY Royality ;)
    • Oct 2001
    • 46917
    #1

    This sucks some serious ass.

    Almost 4 years ago I met this chick in a club. We hit it off good and became fuck buddies. She vanished after about 8 months.

    The other night I bumped into her again. We exchanged numbers and hooked up for lunch the next day. My hopes were high.

    Turns out that she contracted HIV last year.

    WTF was I supposed to say at that point?

    "Sucks to be you."

    "You mind if I wear 6 condoms?"

    Seriously though......I did not know WTF to say to the girl. I had a lot of questions going through my mind but did not want to seem invasive by asking any of them.

    What would you have done?
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    • StuartD
      Sofa King Band
      • Jul 2002
      • 29903
      #2
      My "hater" GFY answer would be "have her pay for the bill since she won't need money where she's going anyway."

      My real answer though would be "ask if she has a non-HIV sister who's as liberal about sex as she is... and preferablly hotter."

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        • wyldblyss
          Confirmed User
          • Nov 2003
          • 5779
          #3
          There isn't too much you can say. HIV is not an easy subject to discuss in that type of situation. Other than wishing her the best...I'm sure she is aware that with her condition the chances or you two hooking up again are over.

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            • DrewKole
              Confirmed User
              • Jul 2001
              • 5193
              #4
              Takes alot for me to be turned onto someone.....

              And takes only 1 thing to turn me off completely.

              That would have been one of the turn offs, obviously.

              At that point, if she's cool to be around, I'd just be her bud. God knows, I imagine she'd appreciate that more at this point anyways.

              I doubt she was coming with a mind to hook up with you, she probably just wanted to spend some time with someone she felt comforatable with....

              And if she WAS coming to hook up with you, she's got serious issues that I think would be your place to inform her of.

              shrugs.

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                • AaronM
                  GFY Royality ;)
                  • Oct 2001
                  • 46917
                  #5
                  Originally posted by wyldblyss
                  There isn't too much you can say. HIV is not an easy subject to discuss in that type of situation. Other than wishing her the best...I'm sure she is aware that with her condition the chances or you two hooking up again are over.
                  I made that abundantly clear.

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                    • NoCarrier
                      We need more free porn
                      • Mar 2002
                      • 16356
                      #6
                      What makes you so sure she was telling the truth?

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                        • AaronM
                          GFY Royality ;)
                          • Oct 2001
                          • 46917
                          #7
                          Originally posted by DrewKole
                          Takes alot for me to be turned onto someone.....

                          And takes only 1 thing to turn me off completely.

                          That would have been one of the turn offs, obviously.

                          At that point, if she's cool to be around, I'd just be her bud. God knows, I imagine she'd appreciate that more at this point anyways.

                          I doubt she was coming with a mind to hook up with you, she probably just wanted to spend some time with someone she felt comforatable with....

                          And if she WAS coming to hook up with you, she's got serious issues that I think would be your place to inform her of.

                          shrugs.
                          Agreed.

                          She's a cool chick and I will have no problems hanging out with her any time.

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                            • Zerof8
                              Confirmed User
                              • Jul 2004
                              • 1245
                              #8
                              i would have cut lunch short to go get tested
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                                • pornguy
                                  Too lazy to set a custom title
                                  • Mar 2003
                                  • 62910
                                  #9
                                  True that.

                                  I have heard that some chicks think it is ok to use that as a way of saying that they are not interested, or in your case not interested anymore...

                                  But that is something that you may never know. I mean how the hell do you say, Prove it!
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                                    • Varius
                                      Confirmed User
                                      • Jun 2004
                                      • 6890
                                      #10
                                      How did she bring it up though?

                                      "What's new with you?"

                                      "Well I got HIV last year..."

                                      (I really doubt it came up like that, atleast I hope so)

                                      Knowing how it came up might lead to what you could've said to not keep the situation so awkward.
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                                        • BRISK
                                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                                          • Feb 2003
                                          • 12240
                                          #11
                                          freaky
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                                            • sumphatpimp
                                              Confirmed User
                                              • Aug 2002
                                              • 5235
                                              #12
                                              I just got off the phone with her.
                                              truth is......
                                              she don't have Hiv
                                              she just wants to pork someone who is
                                              taller
                                              thinner
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                                              oh yeah, she is a really nice girl.

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                                                • Huggles
                                                  GFY'S #1 retard
                                                  • Feb 2003
                                                  • 12541
                                                  #13
                                                  Originally posted by AaronM

                                                  Seriously though......I did not know WTF to say to the girl. I had a lot of questions going through my mind but did not want to seem invasive by asking any of them.

                                                  What would you have done?

                                                  I have no fucking clue. That's a pretty difficult thing to talk about with someone.
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                                                    • boobmaster
                                                      So Fucking Banned
                                                      • Jul 2003
                                                      • 6185
                                                      #14
                                                      Originally posted by AaronM
                                                      Almost 4 years ago I met this chick in a club. We hit it off good and became fuck buddies. She vanished after about 8 months.

                                                      The other night I bumped into her again. We exchanged numbers and hooked up for lunch the next day. My hopes were high.

                                                      Turns out that she contracted HIV last year.

                                                      WTF was I supposed to say at that point?

                                                      "Sucks to be you."

                                                      "You mind if I wear 6 condoms?"

                                                      Seriously though......I did not know WTF to say to the girl. I had a lot of questions going through my mind but did not want to seem invasive by asking any of them.

                                                      What would you have done?
                                                      You should get yourself tested.

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                                                        • AaronM
                                                          GFY Royality ;)
                                                          • Oct 2001
                                                          • 46917
                                                          #15
                                                          Originally posted by NoCarrier
                                                          What makes you so sure she was telling the truth?
                                                          WTF do I care? I'm not taking any chances that she was lying and she made it clear that there was still an interest there.

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                                                            • warlock5
                                                              Confirmed User
                                                              • Jan 2004
                                                              • 2808
                                                              #16
                                                              On the positive side (pun not intended), at least she told you!

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                                                                • evilshaun
                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                  • Aug 2003
                                                                  • 295
                                                                  #17
                                                                  You actually have sex?

                                                                  I mean physically, how would it work? Can you be on top, can you see half her body only when she rides you? Do you have a machine to lift your gut so you can bang her doggystyle, or do you just rest your gut on her back?

                                                                  Inquiring minds want to know.
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                                                                    • emthree
                                                                      Dialer Kingpin
                                                                      • Jun 2003
                                                                      • 10816
                                                                      #18
                                                                      um wow - how the fuck did that come up?

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                                                                        • CDSmith
                                                                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                                          • May 2001
                                                                          • 51460
                                                                          #19
                                                                          Originally posted by warlock5
                                                                          On the positive side (pun not intended), at least she told you!
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                                                                            • AaronM
                                                                              GFY Royality ;)
                                                                              • Oct 2001
                                                                              • 46917
                                                                              #20
                                                                              Originally posted by boobmaster
                                                                              You should get yourself tested.
                                                                              Once again....Reading comprehension not being your strongest point, I will recap some facts.

                                                                              1: We were fucking about 4 years ago. That lasted for 8 months.

                                                                              2: She contracted HIV last year.

                                                                              Were you absent the day they taught math or something?

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                                                                                • AaronM
                                                                                  GFY Royality ;)
                                                                                  • Oct 2001
                                                                                  • 46917
                                                                                  #21
                                                                                  Originally posted by evilshaun
                                                                                  You actually have sex?

                                                                                  I mean physically, how would it work? Can you be on top, can you see half her body only when she rides you? Do you have a machine to lift your gut so you can bang her doggystyle, or do you just rest your gut on her back?

                                                                                  Inquiring minds want to know.

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                                                                                    • Kevin2
                                                                                      Confirmed User
                                                                                      • May 2003
                                                                                      • 1429
                                                                                      #22
                                                                                      Originally posted by AaronM
                                                                                      Once again....Reading comprehension not being your strongest point, I will recap some facts.

                                                                                      1: We were fucking about 4 years ago. That lasted for 8 months.

                                                                                      2: She contracted HIV last year.

                                                                                      Were you absent the day they taught math or something?
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                                                                                        • StuartD
                                                                                          Sofa King Band
                                                                                          • Jul 2002
                                                                                          • 29903
                                                                                          #23
                                                                                          Originally posted by boobmaster
                                                                                          You should get yourself tested.
                                                                                          Yes, because HIV is retro-active up to 3 years.... meaning that despite her not getting it until 3 years after sleeping with him, he could still have caught it from her.

                                                                                          By the way... did I mention? You are clearly a retard
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                                                                                            • sumphatpimp
                                                                                              Confirmed User
                                                                                              • Aug 2002
                                                                                              • 5235
                                                                                              #24
                                                                                              Originally posted by AaronM
                                                                                              Once again....Reading comprehension not being your strongest point, I will recap some facts.

                                                                                              1: We were fucking about 4 years ago. That lasted for 8 months.

                                                                                              2: She contracted HIV last year.

                                                                                              Were you absent the day they taught math or something?
                                                                                              common sence and math are bad for board bullshit.

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                                                                                                • boobmaster
                                                                                                  So Fucking Banned
                                                                                                  • Jul 2003
                                                                                                  • 6185
                                                                                                  #25
                                                                                                  Originally posted by AaronM
                                                                                                  Once again....Reading comprehension not being your strongest point, I will recap some facts.

                                                                                                  1: We were fucking about 4 years ago. That lasted for 8 months.

                                                                                                  2: She contracted HIV last year.

                                                                                                  Were you absent the day they taught math or something?
                                                                                                  How do you KNOW she CONTRACTED it last year? She may have tested positive last year, but HIV can live dormant in the body for up to 10 years. She could easily have had the virus when you were humping her without knowing. I would get tested if I were you.

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                                                                                                    • NoCarrier
                                                                                                      We need more free porn
                                                                                                      • Mar 2002
                                                                                                      • 16356
                                                                                                      #26
                                                                                                      Originally posted by AaronM
                                                                                                      WTF do I care? I'm not taking any chances that she was lying and she made it clear that there was still an interest there.
                                                                                                      You said you didn't know what to say to her? Once she told you, how did the rest of the conversation and evening go?

                                                                                                      Personally I would've asked a lot of questions about it, if she was actually on tri-therapy, if the virus was still detectable.. I would've been more curious. But that's just me.

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                                                                                                        • NoCarrier
                                                                                                          We need more free porn
                                                                                                          • Mar 2002
                                                                                                          • 16356
                                                                                                          #27
                                                                                                          Originally posted by boobmaster
                                                                                                          How do you KNOW she CONTRACTED it last year? She may have tested positive last year, but HIV can live dormant in the body for up to 10 years. She could easily have had the virus when you were humping her without knowing. I would get tested if I were you.
                                                                                                          You got a point there. I'd also get tested, just to be sure.

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                                                                                                            • AaronM
                                                                                                              GFY Royality ;)
                                                                                                              • Oct 2001
                                                                                                              • 46917
                                                                                                              #28
                                                                                                              Originally posted by boobmaster
                                                                                                              How do you KNOW she CONTRACTED it last year? She may have tested positive last year, but HIV can live dormant in the body for up to 10 years. She could easily have had the virus when you were humping her without knowing. I would get tested if I were you.
                                                                                                              Thanks doc.

                                                                                                              FYI...I am tested on a regular basis and I am a firm believer in the use of condoms.

                                                                                                              Except when fucking farm animals and GFY trolls.
                                                                                                              Last edited by AaronM; 07-24-2004, 08:35 PM.

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                                                                                                                • BigG
                                                                                                                  So Fucking Banned
                                                                                                                  • Apr 2004
                                                                                                                  • 931
                                                                                                                  #29
                                                                                                                  Originally posted by AaronM
                                                                                                                  Once again....Reading comprehension not being your strongest point, I will recap some facts.

                                                                                                                  1: We were fucking about 4 years ago. That lasted for 8 months.

                                                                                                                  2: She contracted HIV last year.

                                                                                                                  Were you absent the day they taught math or something?


                                                                                                                  I would ask her, "How exactly do you know when you contracted HIV?????


                                                                                                                  Maybe she lied to you so that she could let you know that it would be a very good idea to get tested?


                                                                                                                  Maybe she said she had HIV so that you would just go away???


                                                                                                                  Maybe she really does have HIV and is honestly warning you that you should find another hooker???


                                                                                                                  It is wild but some hookers care about their "johns."

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                                                                                                                    • boobmaster
                                                                                                                      So Fucking Banned
                                                                                                                      • Jul 2003
                                                                                                                      • 6185
                                                                                                                      #30
                                                                                                                      Originally posted by MaskedMan
                                                                                                                      Yes, because HIV is retro-active up to 3 years.... meaning that despite her not getting it until 3 years after sleeping with him, he could still have caught it from her.

                                                                                                                      By the way... did I mention? You are clearly a retard
                                                                                                                      HIV can live dormant in the body so knowing exactly WHEN someone contracted it is impossible. She could have had it in her system four years ago.

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                                                                                                                        • AaronM
                                                                                                                          GFY Royality ;)
                                                                                                                          • Oct 2001
                                                                                                                          • 46917
                                                                                                                          #31
                                                                                                                          Originally posted by BigG
                                                                                                                          I would ask her, "How exactly do you know when you contracted HIV?????


                                                                                                                          Maybe she lied to you so that she could let you know that it would be a very good idea to get tested?


                                                                                                                          Maybe she said she had HIV so that you would just go away???


                                                                                                                          Maybe she really does have HIV and is honestly warning you that you should find another hooker???


                                                                                                                          It is wild but some hookers care about their "johns."
                                                                                                                          So...You have decided to insult me and my friend who has HIV.

                                                                                                                          What a great human being you are.

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                                                                                                                            • AaronM
                                                                                                                              GFY Royality ;)
                                                                                                                              • Oct 2001
                                                                                                                              • 46917
                                                                                                                              #32
                                                                                                                              Originally posted by boobmaster
                                                                                                                              HIV can live dormant in the body so knowing exactly WHEN someone contracted it is impossible. She could have had it in her system four years ago.
                                                                                                                              Unless they know specifically from whome and how they contracted it. Which in this case, she does.

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                                                                                                                                • KCat
                                                                                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                                                                                  • Sep 2002
                                                                                                                                  • 2204
                                                                                                                                  #33
                                                                                                                                  Poor girl. Sounds like she just needs a friend to talk to & thought someone open-minded enough to be in the porn biz could deal.

                                                                                                                                  I'm sure she expected you to be a little freaked out. Sounds like you handled it well.

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                                                                                                                                    • boobmaster
                                                                                                                                      So Fucking Banned
                                                                                                                                      • Jul 2003
                                                                                                                                      • 6185
                                                                                                                                      #34
                                                                                                                                      Originally posted by AaronM
                                                                                                                                      Unless they know specifically from whome and how they contracted it. Which in this case, she does.
                                                                                                                                      If this is the case, and you believe her, then fine. You didn't make that point clear in your original post. Regardless, I feel for your friend. To be so young and have a virus like HIV must suck. The good news is that there are a lot of treatments available today which can prolong life significantly. Look at Magic Johnson.

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                                                                                                                                        • BigG
                                                                                                                                          So Fucking Banned
                                                                                                                                          • Apr 2004
                                                                                                                                          • 931
                                                                                                                                          #35
                                                                                                                                          Originally posted by AaronM
                                                                                                                                          So...You have decided to insult me and my friend who has HIV.

                                                                                                                                          What a great human being you are.

                                                                                                                                          I'm sorry . . . I thought this was the GO FUCK YOURSELF chat board. I thought you asked for opinions???

                                                                                                                                          Well, she is clearly NOT "hard to get" so was she hooking? Has she ever been a hooker? I feel bad for her because one of her anonymous lovers infected her . . . but who should she blame??? Is it her fault that she didn't protect herself? Is it the infected man?s fault?

                                                                                                                                          Maybe she should have "believed in condoms" as strongly as you did/do????

                                                                                                                                          Just be glad you never rode her bareback!

                                                                                                                                          All I know is that you should go get yourself tested and then get yourself tested regularly because you are clearly at an extreme risk for infection.

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                                                                                                                                            • BigG
                                                                                                                                              So Fucking Banned
                                                                                                                                              • Apr 2004
                                                                                                                                              • 931
                                                                                                                                              #36
                                                                                                                                              Originally posted by AaronM
                                                                                                                                              So...You have decided to insult me and my friend who has HIV.

                                                                                                                                              What a great human being you are.

                                                                                                                                              Again, I am very, very sorry!

                                                                                                                                              I hope I didn't offend your great friend who was your "fuck buddy" for 8 months and then hid from you for four years.

                                                                                                                                              I realize how hard it is to maintain such friendships but sometimes you just have to say, "fuck . . . did you just infect me?"


                                                                                                                                              Save the drama for your mama . . . she wasn't your "friend" otherwise she wouldn't have disappeared after 8 months and popped up after 4 years only to tell you she has HIV.

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                                                                                                                                                • FlyingIguana
                                                                                                                                                  aspiring banker
                                                                                                                                                  • Mar 2002
                                                                                                                                                  • 10870
                                                                                                                                                  #37
                                                                                                                                                  thats what makes me nervous about sleeping around. if she gives it up easy you know she'll prolly giving it up easy to others as well.

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                                                                                                                                                    • BigG
                                                                                                                                                      So Fucking Banned
                                                                                                                                                      • Apr 2004
                                                                                                                                                      • 931
                                                                                                                                                      #38
                                                                                                                                                      Originally posted by KCat
                                                                                                                                                      Poor girl. Sounds like she just needs a friend to talk to & thought someone open-minded enough to be in the porn biz could deal.

                                                                                                                                                      I'm sure she expected you to be a little freaked out. Sounds like you handled it well.


                                                                                                                                                      OR NOT -

                                                                                                                                                      WTF was I supposed to say at that point?

                                                                                                                                                      "Sucks to be you."

                                                                                                                                                      "You mind if I wear 6 condoms?"

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                                                                                                                                                        • KCat
                                                                                                                                                          Confirmed User
                                                                                                                                                          • Sep 2002
                                                                                                                                                          • 2204
                                                                                                                                                          #39
                                                                                                                                                          Originally posted by BigG
                                                                                                                                                          OR NOT -

                                                                                                                                                          WTF was I supposed to say at that point?

                                                                                                                                                          "Sucks to be you."

                                                                                                                                                          "You mind if I wear 6 condoms?"
                                                                                                                                                          LMAO. He didn't say that TO her. He's using it to add humor to a fucked up situation when retelling the story on GFY.


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                                                                                                                                                            • AaronM
                                                                                                                                                              GFY Royality ;)
                                                                                                                                                              • Oct 2001
                                                                                                                                                              • 46917
                                                                                                                                                              #40
                                                                                                                                                              Originally posted by KCat
                                                                                                                                                              LMAO. He didn't say that TO her. He's using it to add humor to a fucked up situation when retelling the story on GFY.
                                                                                                                                                              Some people get it...The idiots don't.

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                                                                                                                                                                • BigG
                                                                                                                                                                  So Fucking Banned
                                                                                                                                                                  • Apr 2004
                                                                                                                                                                  • 931
                                                                                                                                                                  #41
                                                                                                                                                                  Originally posted by KCat
                                                                                                                                                                  LMAO. He didn't say that TO her. He's using it to add humor to a fucked up situation when retelling the story on GFY.

                                                                                                                                                                  OH SHIT, I didn't realize that telling a horrific story needed "humor." I guess I don't get it. I wish I "got it" becuase I have all sorts of horrifying stories to reveal about people and if I could make them "funny" in some way . . . well that would be great!

                                                                                                                                                                  Nothing makes sense like adding humor to an HIV story!!!

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                                                                                                                                                                    • jade_dragon
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                                                                                                                                                                      • May 2004
                                                                                                                                                                      • 1737
                                                                                                                                                                      #42
                                                                                                                                                                      Originally posted by boobmaster
                                                                                                                                                                      If this is the case, and you believe her, then fine. You didn't make that point clear in your original post. Regardless, I feel for your friend. To be so young and have a virus like HIV must suck. The good news is that there are a lot of treatments available today which can prolong life significantly. Look at Magic Johnson.
                                                                                                                                                                      Last I heard he tested clean!

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                                                                                                                                                                        • BradM
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                                                                                                                                                                          • Dec 2003
                                                                                                                                                                          • 3397
                                                                                                                                                                          #43
                                                                                                                                                                          Couldn't tell you what I would do. Never been in a situation like that.


                                                                                                                                                                          Of course my GFY answer would be:
                                                                                                                                                                          "Laugh at her, get up and leave- leaving her with the bill."

                                                                                                                                                                          But in all honesty... that's terrible news. Such a terrible disease too.

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                                                                                                                                                                            • BigG
                                                                                                                                                                              So Fucking Banned
                                                                                                                                                                              • Apr 2004
                                                                                                                                                                              • 931
                                                                                                                                                                              #44
                                                                                                                                                                              Originally posted by AaronM
                                                                                                                                                                              [B]Almost 4 years ago I met this chick in a club. We hit it off good and became fuck buddies. She vanished after about 8 months.

                                                                                                                                                                              The other night I bumped into her again. We exchanged numbers and hooked up for lunch the next day. My hopes were high.

                                                                                                                                                                              Turns out that she contracted HIV last year.
                                                                                                                                                                              B]

                                                                                                                                                                              Honestly, did you think you were "special"??? Did you honestly believe that she doesn't normally become "fuck buddies" with strangers, but you were just too irresistible???

                                                                                                                                                                              Seriously, didn't you think that this was a dangerous sex partner?

                                                                                                                                                                              I guess the combination of details (which include) the fact that she just disappeared after 8 months makes me wonder why you even care what happens to her.


                                                                                                                                                                              In fact, I would be pissed as hell that she waited a full year before telling you that she was HIV positive!!!!!!!


                                                                                                                                                                              You haven't heard from her for 4 YEARS!!!!


                                                                                                                                                                              What a GREAT friend!

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                                                                                                                                                                                • KCat
                                                                                                                                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                                                                                                                                  • Sep 2002
                                                                                                                                                                                  • 2204
                                                                                                                                                                                  #45
                                                                                                                                                                                  Originally posted by BigG
                                                                                                                                                                                  OH SHIT, I didn't realize that telling a horrific story needed "humor." I guess I don't get it. I wish I "got it" becuase I have all sorts of horrifying stories to reveal about people and if I could make them "funny" in some way . . . well that would be great!

                                                                                                                                                                                  Nothing makes sense like adding humor to an HIV story!!!
                                                                                                                                                                                  You're an idiot. If people couldn't make light of life's tragedies, we'd all be sitting around on Prozac, afraid to talk about anything but rainbows & kittens.

                                                                                                                                                                                  You must think comedians like George Carlin should be thrown in jail!

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                                                                                                                                                                                    • jonesy
                                                                                                                                                                                      Confirmed User
                                                                                                                                                                                      • Jan 2003
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                                                                                                                                                                                      #46
                                                                                                                                                                                      Originally posted by KCat
                                                                                                                                                                                      If people couldn't make light of life's tragedies, we'd all be sitting around on Prozac, afraid to talk about anything but rainbows & kittens.
                                                                                                                                                                                      theres one MAIN ingredient, actually 2, when it comes to mixing tradegy and humor, its time.

                                                                                                                                                                                      the only other is taste.

                                                                                                                                                                                      carlin rules too.
                                                                                                                                                                                      as did sam kinison.
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                                                                                                                                                                                        • brand0n
                                                                                                                                                                                          been very busy
                                                                                                                                                                                          • Nov 2002
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                                                                                                                                                                                          #47
                                                                                                                                                                                          broomed her as fast as im sure you did
                                                                                                                                                                                          want to buy this spot for cheap? it is of course for sale. long term deals are always the best bet. brand0n/ at/ a o l dot commies.

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                                                                                                                                                                                            • SlickRick
                                                                                                                                                                                              Confirmed User
                                                                                                                                                                                              • Jan 2003
                                                                                                                                                                                              • 2849
                                                                                                                                                                                              #48
                                                                                                                                                                                              Originally posted by AaronM
                                                                                                                                                                                              Almost 4 years ago I met this chick in a club. We hit it off good and became fuck buddies. She vanished after about 8 months.

                                                                                                                                                                                              The other night I bumped into her again. We exchanged numbers and hooked up for lunch the next day. My hopes were high.

                                                                                                                                                                                              Turns out that she contracted HIV last year.

                                                                                                                                                                                              WTF was I supposed to say at that point?

                                                                                                                                                                                              "Sucks to be you."

                                                                                                                                                                                              "You mind if I wear 6 condoms?"

                                                                                                                                                                                              Seriously though......I did not know WTF to say to the girl. I had a lot of questions going through my mind but did not want to seem invasive by asking any of them.

                                                                                                                                                                                              What would you have done?



                                                                                                                                                                                              You offer the same thing to anyone else that gets something thru their life, offer your support and your sorrys, and make them feel beter if possible.

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