It hurts to get hurt
 

Ouch. :(

i can see this thread has potential

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I agree Brad... been there before...

yes ... :)

Who hurt you???
*gets out my boxing gloves*

I just got fucking owned. Thought the date went well too. God damn.

Oh well, I just closed a sweet deal so fuck women. :)

that, and it really sucks.

I thought it went well... What happened??

what happened dude? share...
they say you'll feel better..

She said she wasn't really into anything serious. Just wanted to hang out. Be friends and stuff.

Oh well, I should be happy with that.

uhh...fuck that bitch

i hate that word....friends

friends is what 2 guys should be...not a guy+girl

Maybe your mother asked her if you were gay and she got scared. :1orglaugh

Ok, seriously though...if she wasn't feeling it then it is best it ended where it did. It would be much harder if she just let it continue until you really fell for her before she disclosed her real feelings.

What's so wrong about that? I was recently in that exact situation (me being the one that doesn't want the relationship). There's nothing wrong with being friends. You get sex and friendship without the extra bullshit and hassle of a relationship.

Unless of course "I want to be friends" = "I don't want to fuck you." Well then, that's a different story.

I think it meant she didnt want to fuck me. Thats the feeling I got lol

of course this is what she meant..
but don't worry man.. she might as well come back tomorrow and change her mind..
girls can be that weird

Ouch. Sorry man. Would it make ya feel better if I said she was probably a psychotic freak who's lousy in bed and you're better off without her anyway? lol

Maybe she was a man dressed as a woman? If she (he) was . . . then you can be thankful it didn't advance to the ?sex? stuff!!!

It's just a FleshLight, it didn't mean it.

LOL
Thanks guys... you cheered me up quite a bit.

lol

Topic: It hurts to get hurt
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Yes it does! It's only temporary. Keep on!

Your topic reminded me of this:
It's nice to be nice to the nice!

Thats the spirit Brad:thumbsup

Unless you know her immediate past... it may have nothing to do with you.

Perhaps she just got out of a relationship and likes the idea of being single for a little while, inwhich case, she may want to be with you a lot... but has committment issues so soon after a breakup.

Who knows.... maybe she's considering lesbianism and you're the most feminie guy she can find and just needs to adjust.

Ya just never know. :winkwink:

Stuart: You have no idea how hard and direct you hit that one.

About her thinking you're the most feminie guy around? :winkwink:

Well, just be at ease in knowing that it's not you... it's just the way she needs it to be for a little while.

I bumped my toe this morning on the dresser... Hell Yeah it hurts to get hurt.

Brad at least she told you now and not after bunch of dates... If you are friends get her real drunk and try to take advantage of her :1orglaugh It's Payback time

Hahahahaha okay Jman she likes to party so Ill try that

You know, from what little info. we have here, it's entirely possible that she *just* wants some casual fun, just not a relationship :Graucho

Either way, as friends, she can pay for the next dinner or drink or whatever. :thumbsup