How Many Of You Cheat On Your Spouse At Conventions
 

I cant help but wonder how many of you are loyal men vs the ones who are clearly cheatiers.

I have always said, those who cheat on their woman, will do it to a man no problem.

This is why I know most cannot be trusted, its a simple fact I have lived my life by for a very long time and its kept me out of shit with liars.

I love how the men here like to pretend to be good husbands or whatever, but in reality are nothing but liars and cheats.

i'll guess 20%

I've often wondered this myself.

I have only cheated on one girlfriend, with an ex girlfriend, and as soon as we were finished she looked at me and said 'You just cheated on your girlfriend' with an evil look in her eye.

I felt guilty for about a year.

I'm thinking the actual number is higher than that.

I'm a girl and I am so fucking faithful to the point of being a prude ..

wait a second..i'm just a webwhore and there is no way this can be true :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

in all seriousness, I feel ya and know what you are saying.

You ar talking about the ones actually cheating or the ones who want to but can't get some? :winkwink:

I am not your typical male when it comes to this.

One of my first girlfriends fucked my best friend when I was young, so ever since then Ive had a thing about "cheating" and I have been out with guys who like to have a little fun when their girl is not around.

And unlike most guys who find that funny, I label them as a liar and know they cannot be trusted.

liars lie to anyone, if they can lie to their girl, they can lie to me and I label them as such.

one of the cheapest things a man can do is go back on his word, and be a liar or cheat. And they usually go hand in hand.

maybe so, i just figured the rest of it was swinging instead of cheating perhaps *shrug*

I said "cheating" not swinging.

There are shades to this. I have not slept or messed around with anyone at conventions, which my spouse does not attend. However, he (I think) would not approve of all the hugs I give out or the drinks I consume while he isn't there. Is that cheating? Maybe a bit, but there it is.

she sounds evil. i bet she has sex with you just to say that.

Agreed, except for use of the word "man". Real men (or women) don't need to lie or cheat, they are true to their word and do what they say, say what they mean.


There is something very defective about someone who feels the need to cheat.

man are you people for real?

Are you adults?

not know WHAT CHEATING IS?

hahaha

hmmmm then that would mean I was cheating too.. oh my.. surely this cant be :winkwink:

no, thats not cheating, but definitly not conservative!

Some of you geeks get laid at conventions?

life isn't black and white








- but sometimes the closer you get to it the clearer your life becomes.....

That's called flirting, not cheating. Flirting can be hurtful in some cases, but if he trusts you implicitly (which he should) then he should be secure enough with himself to handle it.

After all, you are in a very social position in a very social business.

yes, i know, that's why my guess for that was 20%

yep, it may not be black and white, but when it comes to HONOR it is surely is.

alright folks, its midnight here.

time to go out and RAISE SOME HELL!

Have mercy on no one tonight, ill see you guys tomorrow!

Does it matter?

Fletch, I was showing that cheating does not have to be sexual. If you break an agreement that you have with your spouse, be it regarding monogamy or whatever, then you've gone back on your word.

Of course sex is the more high profile issue.

Oh sure, troll us with a hot issue, then go out and have FUN.


I see how it is. :feels-hot





























:1orglaugh Have a good time man.

never have and never will ....she comes with me :-)

wasn't in my marriage. there were other things that hurt WAY more than infidelity.

i've only met one woman in my life that ever made me loose interest in other women.

I flirt for discounts, and my wife is completely cool with it.

Ah...But how many men have turned your head? :Graucho

I'm single so I never cheat :thumbsup

baby baby baby

Great post :thumbsup

Added in edit.

The guys who say trust no bitch and fuck all whores blah blah have not met the right girl yet.

oral sex is not cheating right?

cheating= the biggest no no

Never

Chances are, if you're cheating, she is too. She might be even if you aren't. So a few years after you find out, it doesn't matter and you become jaded.

Most people want a little *strange* now and then to keep life interesting. In addition there are many forms of cheating. There's lust. There?s physical cheating and then cheating in your heart. So holding hands with someone you may love could be more of a violation than a one-night stand.

Find a soul mate, then you can share all these feelings openly.

I wouldn't..and I'll take my bitch with me when I go anyways (not coming now though)

oral sex is not cheating right?

Strange! I bet many of those that say cheating is so wrong are big Clinton supporters.

So if you say a man that will cheat on his wife will cheat on you in biz, do you say the same about your President?

1) He's not the president anymore
2) He wasn't my president
3) Cheating and lying and scamming and thieving is bad, mmkay?

That's a two way street then. Think about it next time you kiss your wife / gf. :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

I think that THIS is a gross over-generalization about the men, and in my experience, women are just as likely to cheat as much as a man is. So why is this post so "anti-man"?

I dont cheat. I dont go to conventions either.

no cheating is my name..
samuel

but i'm sure they "cheat online" a few times a week :2 cents:

havent been to a convention yet but ill give it a shot if it makes you unhappy :1orglaugh

Faithfulness and loyalty is the #1 thing I look for in a guy, I don't care if he makes money, or what kind of car he drives , if someone is faithful then a lot of faults or bad things about him can be overlooked.

I also have a theory (that I made up) that men with more money are MORE likely to cheat because they have the resources to wine and dine other women, can afford luxury cars and so forth to attract more women, plus they can AFFORD to buy women like hookers...

I don't know if my theory is true, but I tend to avoid and be prejudiced against men with money, I hold it against them, and I think they are MORE likely to cheat.

I also think that men in positions of power are MORE likely to cheat as well because they tend to have "sense of entitlement". They think they have worked hard for what they got, so they "deserve" and or are "entitled" to as much pussy as they want. These are just generalizations, but it's what I think.

Poor guys can cheat too of course...

Perhaps most guys cheat? I think the only solution for people who are worried about being cheated on is to just remain ALONE FOREVER and die alone. And I am not kidding either, I am absolutely serious. A lot of times I think men are so atrocious that I really want to die alone, I think I prefer it that way and remain single for the rest of my life than to be with someone and get cheated on.

Just remember cheating can actually really kill someone, if some guy just fucked some bimbo or a whore and got HIV, and then fucked his girlfriend or wife with no protection he could actually murder her. But I bet people never even think about that? Their minds are too clouded with scoring pussy.

Also the things that some men like Pornwolf post on this message board; that men are BIOLOGICALLY WIRED to NEED and REQUIRE sexually variety; that nature made it that way, and that a wife HAS TO allow her husband to fuck other women because that's the only way a marriage will last. There are men who actually BELIEVE this, like Pornwolf does; that a marriage REQUIRE the man to cheat while the woman CAN'T because that's against nature. That's not very encouraging.

Great outlook on life phogirl69

sorry, what can I say, I'm jaded ;(