Is there a way to get a female to admit that she lied about something?
 

Just wondering if there's actually a way. :)

Any ladies in the house that wanna spill the beans? lol

Gun to the head is 10-10 for me, worked everytime i have used it. Should try it, works like a charm.

What's the point?

no.

to break up or not break up.

ask her ?

doesn't work.

theres a way to tell when ANYone is lying.

ask them a question. if their eyes look up to the left, they're tellin the truth (thats the recall part of the brain)

if they look up to the right, they're lying/fabircatiing.....thats the "creative" part of the brain.


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But if you already KNOW the person is lying, and just want them to admit it to you... ok here's the jist of the story...

I know because I HEARD with my own two ears what she said to someone else and then tells me she didn't say it. Fucking pathetic.

yea, thats a straight up fuckin liar ,right there :glugglug

Yes. If you tell her how important she is to you and how much it hurts your heart to know that maybe she's not being truthful with you, generally we'll admit what we've done and apologize.

Not really.

I was lying.

No there is no way. Even if ya bust her red handed, thanks to Shaggy.. 'it wasnt me'.

Example, my ex had a baby with another dude while we in the middle of our divorce, to this day she still says she never fucked no other dude. hmmmm

anyways, she will never tell you the truth, just trust your gut feeling

You could walk in on her cheating and she will deny everything and say your standing there drunk even though you are sober. So no.

What you have to do is think like they do!
Go all psycho and threaten to kick her out, make her sleep on the sofa the usual shit they do to us when they are not happy with us, I´ve tried it and it worked :glugglug

Some things you just know, in your gut, and some people are just scum and have no regard for anyone but themselves. I wish you luck! :thumbsup

Offer a generous settlement. :Graucho

get rid of her.. life's too short to be fucking around with someone like that

if only men would just catch on and play the same games. She's taking it to her grave buddy, if she doesnt and admits it you'll have the upper hand (as brief as it probably would be seeing how you're clueless about this in the first place) but she would never be able to look at your relationship the same because she's always had the upper hand and would feel inferior and ashamed. So, she's taking it to the grave and she probably thinks/knows that you'll just forget about it.

Torture :thumbsup

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Good advice though.

Are you sure you heard right? Not making excuses for her but there have been times in my own life I have heard wrong. Unless she was talking to you directly there is a chance you are incorrect. If you were eavesdropping from another room perhaps you misunderstood.

Of course there could be a chance I misheard, but I highly doubt it. She's lied to me before, but the only found out most previous things through hearsay, although from a reliable source (her best friend which is my best friend's girlfriend who I'm also very good friends with) let them slide.

What happened was we were having a little argument over the phone (no raising of voices or anything) and then she told me to hold on, i guess she meant to put her hand over the mouth piece but didn't work correctly and I heard CLEARLY "say you need the phone or something". It makes a lot of previous events make sense. It seems everytime we get into a phone argument she gets someone (ie: her brother) to bail her out by saying they need the phone. What also bothers me is that she can't face a problem. I like to talk things out, and she likes to sweep everything under the rug. Actually writing this post has made me closer to the break up decision.

EASY!!!


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works everytime, plus you'll probably score a free blowjob after :thumbsup

Put her on a lie detector test. :thumbsup

forgot to mention where I concluded she had something to hide. When started talking to me again I just said "I heard what you said" in kind of a joking tone and she immediatly became defensive.

I find her attitude towards this to be degrading, dishonest, and insulting. This is my girlfriend we are talking about here and I'm supposed to trust her. It has definetly been shattered.

The answer is NO unless she is covering another lie by admiting to a lie she never told.

:) :) :)

Does any of you guys have an actualy relationship? Or trust your partners? My girlfriend tells me the truth and I am truthful with her.

I think you all need to get away from the keyboards and sort your life out.

The only way a girl will fess up is if (assuming she's actually a halfway decent person who gives a fuck about you) is to make her feel guilty as hell about it.

Yes I am involved in a relationship and basically realized this girl has made me miserable for the past 7 months and her and her mom have some thing about hating men. They lie for each other and it's disgusting. I feel like yelling "RUN!" in her mom's boyfriend's ear. I have actually witnessed her mom telling my g/f to lie to her b/f for her about stuff so silly it's mind boggling.

I don't think a cure has been found yet. I'm sure there are many research teams hard at work on it though. :winkwink:

Aw SmutGiant :(

I think you know what's right. The point is not to get her to admit she lied, because next time she'll just make doubly sure she doesn't get caught. The point is: can you accept this behaviour from someone who is supposed to love and trust you?

ALL WOMEN LIE.....

They were the one with the apple remember?

Riiiiight. Silly me. That must mean it's true.

ask her nicely

She should get rid of you.

I would never want to be hooked up with someone who pushes so hard against my privacy demanding my thoughts and words that weren't meant for them.

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Priorities man. Lost cause, move on. All you needed was an outside objective view, and you've gotten several.

Tell her flat out that lying is a deal-breaker, and you know she's a liar. Bye.

ever heard of xan bars? :Graucho

LOL..i love when women do that.
You catch them lying to you then they freak out when they know there cuaght and try to turn it around rather than just fessing up and clearing up the issue.
"I cant believe you were eave dropping on my conversation!!!" Like women arent the biggest spys ever

Doesn't work either :1orglaugh

You don't have that much power or control over another person to make them admit to something they don't want to.....unless you're willing to use torture techniques, violence or invest a lot of time to playing games, mind fucking her or manipulation.

I have found that the straight forward, honest technique works the best way. I.E. try saying to her "This is what I heard and this is how I felt....." and then say "And this is what I need to do for me....".

So... you don't have a best friend that you discuss things with you never would with your partner or anyone else? If so, would you violate that friend's confidentiality by rolling over and telling all when pressured?

Break up with the lying game-playing bitch. Do it now.

if you dont trust her you shouldnt be going out with her. unless of course you're just really insecure

This tells me she is still in high school. Break up and get a legal girl.