my four year old daughter just came home with...
 

her fucking ears pierced.

:feels-hot :feels-hot :feels-hot :feels-hot :feels-hot :feels-hot

my wife is avoiding me now.

HORROR!!

hey at least its just her ears... could be a nose or something worse.

first the ears then the bellybutton!

DRAMA!

oo boy! more drama :thumbsup

4 is a bit young

I would say 6 or 7 would be good for ears for little girls


butr what makes me mad is seeing like 2 year olds with ears pierced
grr

why is that?

It aint that bad.

ummm... she obviously didn't do this by herself.. sounds like the communication in your house isn't the best

pierced ears isn't that bad.. just be thankful it's not a tattoo or something like that where she'd have to live with it forever

Stop being so fucking dramatic. A good majority of moms, get their daughters ears pierced at infantcy.

Was going to say the same thing.

did the 2 year old say " mommy i want a needle shoved in my ear that will effect me for the rest of life and leave an ugly scar " ?

Dont think soooooo

sounds like those child glamour model freaks

isnt it illegal to do piercings on an individual under the age of 16

you might wanna speak to a lawyer about sueing the place where your wife had it done ;)

apparently not if you show a Birth Certificate, and proof my wife was her actual mother..

you shouldnt have let here until it was her choice

OMG! Not her EARS!!!!

j/k :1orglaugh My mom had mine pierced when I was a baby. *shrug*

People should decide for themselves if they want piercings.

Why hurt a baby for no reason? It has no vanity yet.
Who does it impress? Other babies?
You're just risking infection.

your wife is a democrat?

nice

:thumbsup

Had you expressed your opposition to having your daughters ears pierced at this time?

No you can peirce a 2year olds tounge, you cant sue the business who did it aslong as you got an elder there who signs a paper. where the hell have you been? you cant sue somebody for that get real wake up go into the real world experiance some stuff besides your computer, thanks :)

damn that uncool :/ :warning

Get used to it, you have a baby GIRL.

Yes, and up to apparently today, my wife was in full agreement.

and now my wife has resorted to using the "She wanted them" routine.

Well, sorry.. that blows big time. It should take one NO to veto a major decision, and two YES to approve. The child doesnt vote until she's 18.

my daughter is almost 4 and came home from preschool and said
"Whatever!" when I asked her something

yikes, starting already.

way to young for that don't you think?

WRONG!

you can sue ANYBODY for ANYTHING doesnt mean you will win though :)

why are you opposed it? its not a big deal.

She can always let them heal over when she's old enough too decide.... they can look cute.. providing earrings are small

I agree way to young!!!:mad: My wife had our 7 month old baby girl's ears pierced! I was fucking pissed! she is a baby for christ sake, 4 years old is a bit better but still kinda young!:2 cents:

Uhh that would be the case if she walked in herself, however, her mother took her there and that is all the permission they need...lol

Me too... I was only 6 weeks old when mine were done.

Are all republicans whiny little bitches?

agree:winkwink:

I have to say that I dont think the real issue is the ears.

It's the fact that there was a lack of respect and deception. That shit is important. Ears will heal.

dr phil signing off :1orglaugh :glugglug

don't sweat the small stuff...life is too short...your wife should of respected your opinion and waiting until she could of talked you into letting her take your daughter....I had my ears pireced at 4 almost 5..we were at the mall and we passed the piercing pogoda and I asked if i could do it...I chickened out and got down...as we left the mall I changed my mind and went up and did it...it did not hurt I remember clearly...I might of been 4 but I already knew what i wanted!

I would normally say "So what...big deal", but the main issue is that your wife went behind your back when she knew you were against it.

On the other hand, I was married to a guy who called it "trashy" when I got mine pierced the second time. So, when it came time to get my daughters ears pierced, I didn't listen to him either.:1orglaugh

sounds like you lost control of your own home

if your wife took her in - than she doesnt respect you by letting her get it without consulting

if your girl just went ahead.. she doesnt respect you and somehow got the money to get it done. surprised that anyone would allow her to do it without parents being around.

either way dude - if it was your wife.. then you respond by getting her to have her clit pierced or tongue

as far as your daughter goes.. take out the pin and everything and have it heal up.

ahhh

Actually not. I had my ears pierced when I was a baby, and used earings through my whole childhood. Now, I haven't used earrings for the past 5 years, and the holes haven't closed, and I guess it never will. I still can put earrings if I choose so.

Anyway, I don't think it's a big deal. It's not a scar or anything. You can hardly see it!

I agree. It's fairly common. And I definitely don't think it's the big, traumatic deal that a lot of people in this thread are making it out to be. How many women do you know that claim to be physically or emotionally scarred because their moms got their ears pierced when they were little? :1orglaugh

I doubt it hurt. You don't have a lot of nerves in your earlobes anyway, esp as a baby. I think the younger you do it, the better. They get used to it from the beginning and the fact is, most girls do want and end up with their ears pierced.

You wanna talk painful shit? Ever see a baby get a vaccination?? :helpme

oh thank god. i was expecting something worse.. dont worry man youll get over it... :thumbsup

not cool on the wife's part.

My cousin just had her 6 month old's ears pierced. My grandmother did all of theirs and my little sisters when they were all that same age. I don't see anything wrong with it.

What wasn't cool was that your wife didn't bother to consult you prior to doing it.

He's a man. He's married to a women. Any control he has or had was just percieved. When it comes down too it, the woman usually has the control in the relationship...whether we like it or not. :winkwink: