What would you do ....
 

.... if you were hopelessly and completely in love with someone and they seemed to have about as much interest in you as my neighbor's cat has in the presidental elections this fall?

Would you ....

(1) Give up and resign yourself to the fact that you just not ment to be happy in this lifetime, ...

(2) Stop at nothing to try and win her heart, or ...

(3) Get shitfaced drunk and work on your GFY postcount?

Go get a hooker.

I'm in that situation and Im going with option b....good luck to you. :(

There are too many women out there to obsess over one. I got that way in high school about a girl and I thought if I didnt have her it would be the end of the world, she and I were friends but it never reached a romantic level. I see her now and again and shes nothing compared to the woman im with, dont let one girl become an obsession, its not worth it, trust me.

what if it turns out that shes a total closet whore and fucked 100 guys EXCEPT for you.
Would you still go after her then?

key word here is "mutual"..if the girl does not feel the same way, pretty sure bet you are wasting your time and leaving yourself open for dissapointment everytime you see her out with another guy. I always found guys who were "in love" with me and I wasnt feeling the same very highly annoying when they would keep trying.:2 cents:

Yes, but there are also a lot of women out there who like to play 'hard to get'. How is a guy to know for sure?

Damn, man, there's still so many fishes in the ocean!

If they want to play games then more power to them..but If i was truly interested in someone and they were into me the same.. I would not waste time playing silly hard to get games. I let people know if I am interested.

The only advice I can give you is to put your heart on your sleave , ask her out and show her the real you...if she doesnt even want a kiss at the end of the night.. you probably have your answer.

Believe it or not, I think she's still a virgin, at least when it comes to other men. I have known her for 10 years and she has never had a BF in all that time. (I went to grad school with her and now we teach in the same university). Lots of 'very close' GFs though. I suspect that the problem may have less to do with me and more to do with my gender, if you get my point.

what if the girl is off and on with her feelings? she says she doesn't want to miss out on you, then becomes distant. invites you over again after a nice makeout session but flakes out on it. says she has a tendency to hold back because guys treat her like crap so it makes you wonder if she is just scared. i am going for option #2 as well, girls like her don't come around that often, and i don't want to regret not giving something i believe in my all. anyhow, thats my gay post for the day.

I guess it is hard for me to understand how one can not know how they feel. I am too blunt for my own good.. if i wanted to fuck, then I would make that perfectly clear, If i wanted to date and see where it leads.. i let them know..

If the girl is on and off with her feelings.. then more n likely she will be on and off with her feelings during a realtionship..that girl is playing games..not worth it in my opnion. If a woman gives you the "guys have always treated me like crap" story.. ask for examples in her life .. if she were truly fucked up in the head from being molested and abused is one thing.. if she just has stupid boyfriends..then this is no excuse.. not all guys are the same.. not all women are the same.

Bingo... you are on to something there. If you have known this women as an adult for over 10 years and she never had a boyfriend.. more n lilkely she never will... I would invite her out to the local gay bar for a drink..see what her reaction is.

gay man back to pussy is doable, straight up lesbo converting back....mmmmm... i dunno.....

Three little letters:

G...H...B

Love is a wasted emotion...rent some ho every now and then:thumbsup

suicide

... lol :glugglug

B is for the movies. Bang a ton of other chicks and you will quickly forget about her.

Converting back? This assumes at one point she wasn't a lesbian.

it would a be a combination of 2 and 3 for me :thumbsup

(2) You're that serious, huh?:)

I'm at number 3 right now :(

im with you bub! :1orglaugh

b. and that's my final answer