Question about Cross Sales and epoch
 

If someone joins Site A and on the Site A join page their is a cross sell to Site B...where does the Site B sale go to? Does it go to Site B's epoch account where they then have to send us a check or vise versa?

The sale goes to site B's epoch account and that site owner is responsible for paying you

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It goes to the owner of site B where you have made a deal before hand to get paid for sending cross sales.