Hey ladies, why show off your boobs yet act like you dont want people to look at them
 

HEY LADIES, why wear outfits that show off the size or shape of your lovely boobs, yet act like you don't want people to look at them and expect people to look only at your face?

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You see lots of this..

Some gals will wear really short skirts and revealing blouses, and are constantly tugging and pulling ..

Seems a bit like a whole lotta work for the sake of wearing sexy clothes..

Just because a women wears a shirt that shows off shape or size does not mean that we want you to go out of your way to check them out. Should we wear sweaters that are 2 sizes to big to hide them?

Well, yes.. unless you want to get stares.

I think you know exactly what he is talking about. Girls wear clothes that are made to make guys stare but get pissy when they get the stares.

exactly...of course we are proud of how we look so we wear flattering pieces of clothing. I don't go to the gym 4 days a week so that I can hide under a huge sweater and baggy pants..:)

it's one thing to notice, but it's another when you are STARING and GAWKING..fine have a look but u don't have to stare...like you have never seen a pair of tits b4...:)

haha, i only wear outfits like that when I want people to look at them

Same here. If I don't want people staring at my boobs, I'll just wear a different outfit. :2 cents:

So does every girl. Then they say they are mad when they get what they want.

But girls are like that about everything. :glugglug

Her: "Hi"

Me: "Hi"

Her: "How are you?"

Me: "Pretty good, you?"

Her: "Uh, my eyes are up here"

Me: "Yeah, but your tits are down there."



:Graucho

exactly

Yes, there is a brand out there called "these are made to make guys stare"

I think it's when the people are so obvious or think they have the right to comment that makes it very uncomfortable.

Just because they are in revealing clothes, don't be so downright obvious or rude for that matter. Generally, people wear things that make them feel good, not necessarily for your perusal.

Yeah, what the fuck...chicks wear these tight fitting shirts yet they get pissed when I look, run over, rip their shirts off, tie them up, stick a ball gag in their mouth, and apply clothespins to their nipples. How fucked up is that.

This is exactly why I have always dressed down..... I used to, for a very brief time, wore clothes that were a little more revealing, but I got so sick of guys looking at my tits or ass than my face, so I started dressing in big ass baggy shirts. I still did the tighter jeans, but wore big baggy shirts to cover everything up and NOT call attention to it.

If I have to pull and tug and watch to make sure my ass or tits aren't hanging out, then I want no part of it. I want to enjoy where I am and what I am doing and not have to worry about all my shit hanging out for the world to see. LOL

Even when I had the body for it, I never have been one to dress where it would cause a problem for either party, me or the ones I am talking to.

I managed a band, my husband's, for years, and had to do a LOT of Bar Scenes to book them, and there was nothing worse than having some horny bar owner talking to my tits and not hearing a damn thing I said.

You really can't blame the guys either....... they ARE men and they ARE going to look...... hell, if I was out and seen a guy that was half naked, it would make even ME want to look, and it isn't making me bad.... it is HUMAN people!!!!!

We are red blooded animals, and if you put a piece of meat in front of us, we ARE going to look...... male OR female. Males are just a little more obvious about it in most cases. But women do it too, you just don't see as many men dressing like this as you do women. LOL

BOY...... why do I get the feeling I am going to catch hell for this post? LMAO

They want SOME people to see them and the losers to fuck off.
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And the losers are the ones that are making the comments and learing as tho they just found their 2nd breakfast!

My post was not meant to excuse those men that are rude about it or anything, it was meant for the ones that LOOK and stare...... not the ones that want to "reach out and touch someone", as that isn't excusable on any level, naked or not. I should have made that part clear. LOL

As long as you got the curves baby, I've got the angles :Graucho



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Oh that -- we wear them so that WOMEN will check out our bouncy jugs . . . . that doesn't mean we want men to look.

Just kidding. It's one thing for someone to give an appreciative glance. And another for someone to stay tuned to them for a loooooooooong time as though we've just invited the neighborhood to come and titty fuck us because we didn't hide our rack under a raincoat.

I avoid this problem by dressing like an escaped mental patient when I'm in public.

You too? I swear I think I have seen men in white coats stalking me at times when I am out...... not so much now as I did a few years ago.

My sweat pants and very big black shirts make damn sure I am not going to be seen as anything but "just some chick that looks like shit" doing the shopping..

My favorites are my sweats and my GFY sweatshirt, no one fucks with me then......... rotfl

Women have a natural desire to be sexually validated. In other words they want attention.

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, yet act like you don't want people to look at them and expect people to look only at your face?

Because when you continue to stare at their body they feel like a slut. (A woman would never agree to this logic because its so easy for them to backwards rationalize it to some other reason so they dont feel like they did anything wrong.)

She have them stuffed in her belt? :eek7

Actually this is probably the most truth I have seen on here in awhile...... LOL

Women DO want to be noticed, and I say this from experience. BUT when it becomes a focus then we get a little uncomfortable and start thinking that we are looked at as a slut, great in bed, and god knows what else. It becomes more of what we LOOK like than what we ARE!! It's nice to know that we turn a few heads, it is a good feeling, but when the FOCUS becomes the very thing we want attention for, then it becomes very uncomfortable and we then want to be seen for our inward beauty and not the outward appearances.

NO we don't want to be pawed at or gawked at or anything, but it is a little of a turn on that you have all this attention and people think you are hot. We WANT to dress nice and we want the attention, BUT we also want to be seen as having a brain as well as a set of tits...... and it is a fine line you walk on when you are doing this.

When women dress down, they are seen as trailer trash, when they dress up, they are seen as some sex object that hasn't a brain in her head. This is the way people are and no matter what you try and put on it, it is just the way it is.

But you know? It goes the same way for men as well, men just don't see it as often because MOST women aren't as aggressive as men are with their approach to this, they get in huddles and gawk and talk and such...... but not as many will go and approach the men as men will.

Women have the SAME talks in their groups as men do, they just don't ACT on these things as often. LOL

So guys, don't think because you are guys, that you aren't being looked at and talked about any less, you are, we just aren't AS aggressive with it as you are. We're just more discreet about it....... to YOU!!!! LMAO

I have spent a LOT of time in bars, and I mean A LOT, and always straight. So I would spend the entire time my husband was doing his shows, watching people. Watching how they interact, watching their mannerisms...... and women are JUST as bad....... and any HONEST woman will agree with me here. Spend some time in the women's bathroom at any bar and you will see what I am talking about....... rotfl


I adore people and there is nothing that turns me on more, not sexually, than to go into a place where there are a lot of people in a situation such as a bar setting and just watching....... not drinking, not talking to anyone, just watching....... it is a major trip.

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I agree with you.... of course guys and gals are going to look :) Especially when they're out on display.... that's exactly the reason I wear sexy clothes hehe Maybe try to not make it completely obvious that you're looking though.... but if you get caught, I won't get mad :Graucho

Wow, your husband is a lucky guy to have an intelligent woman who understands the program . . . . . of course thank god for the girls who dont get it, as they are the easiest to game:Graucho

:1orglaugh good one

Personally, I wear outfits which show of my boobs BECAUSE I want people to notice them! :winkwink:

You should have seen his face the night some chick walked up to him while he was doing a show and planted a sloppy ass kiss right on his mouth..... he looked at me and grinned REALLY big and then realized it wasn't ME who had just kissed him because I was in my seat....... he nearly died and so did the rest of the band and the wives/girlfriends we were with....... but I just died fucking laughing because I thought it was funny. She was dressed similar to me and had the same color hair and it was dark, so he first thought it was me. LMAO

The only times I have ever gotten mad is when he is NOT doing a show and some girl started making passes and grabbing him while I was between the two........ SHE walked out of the bar with two huge black eyes and a bloody mouth. Her fiance was his best friend and playing that show, we were there to listen....... and she was warned 3 times. LOL

If he is on stage playing, I don't interfere at ALL........ and wouldn't ever. But man, let someone go grabbing his "package" when he isn't on the job and they WILL deal with me....... LMAO

That is so awesome that you realize its his job and he needs to schmooze the women :) I have so many friends in bands, and their wives are really jealous and cause problems for the band, because they can't handle the women! Hello... its a band... where there are guys in a band, there will always be women followers :) You rock girl! Glad to see there are other women out there who feel the same way that I do :)

SHIT, woman, I TEACH him how to. He is so damn shy and I have seen girls almost literally THROW themselves at his feet and he just smiles and is extremely polite to them........ and then he'll ask me why he never gets all the hot girls showing him attention. It is funny as hell to watch. I have to tell him when girls are making passes because he doesn't get it...... He isn't rude or aggressive or anything with them, if you have ever had him say one word to you, you'd know..... but he is extremely shy and treats women with so much respect.

The others in the band would leave with all kinds of girls, fuck a different one every night and he has had plenty of chances, but always comes home with me or home if I am not there. He has NEVER even given them a thought that he thinks anything more than just that they are women and deserve respect. Hell I have seen them cram their tits right in his face and he just smiles and looks and goes on.......

All the women always loved and still love him because he hasn't got it in him to treat them like they are a piece of meat. He sure loves the attention, but doesn't invite it, if that makes any sense. LOL

amen, I totally agree...I always watch other people when I go out..I'm also the one who is usually bartending so I get every chance to watch people...it's quite funny how some guys/girls get when the opposite sex is around...

I like to get dressed up and love being looked at..look all you want..I don't have to worry that much...my breasts are small..so there's not much to look at..which forces you to look everywhere else..:thumbsup..just be prepared to receive some abuse when you make an abusive comment that's all:1orglaugh

That's by far not the only thing that's hard to understand about ladies

If I said you had a nice body would you hold it against me? :Graucho

I love wearing sexy clothes to show off my legs and boobs, and i get "hello" 's and stares and smiles from guys, ITS THE FEMALES THAT GET PISSY because im wearing something classy yet sexy (and yes, that is possible!) and the females HATE on me for it. That pisses me off.

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no, I don't mind b/c I work hard at it..and I'm proud..it's the rude comments that are annoying..it doesn't bother me that much anymore..I've been bartending for a long time and the crazier the outfit the more $$ I make..if I don't feel like being abused then I'll dress down..:thumbsup

hahahah, I was mistaken for a serial killer by a mental patient..I dress in serial killer mode when I am in public.. dare a man look at my tits.. I might cut hm to pieces and eat him:1orglaugh

Think I saw a picture of you in a dress once... HOT! :winkwink:

I would like to add a petit gripe to this rant:

What is with all these short cropped tshirts and short short skirts? I like dressing sexy, but seriously people, casual should not have to look out of date, and "nice" should not have to look trampy. Is it wrong to want my shorts to come down past my butt cheeks? Or for the bottom of my shirt to actually reach the top of my jeans? Gah!

And yes, it's the women who are hating. Men give compliments and nods, while women point and sneer and say nasty things.

This is why I run to town in my track pants and Steelers sweatshirt all the time. It simply saves me the hassle.

Tits are usually lower than her eyes.


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