Why do girls like to be treated like shit
 

Well? Why is it that girls say they want someone to take care of them and be nice and all that shit, but when you do that they take advantage of you, then when you treat them like shit they won't leave you alone? Girls, help us out. :helpme

they dont...i treat girls hella nice and they all love it...sometimes a lil too much ya know....

It has to be an equal balance of asshole/showing them respect

because their daddies didn't give them enough love

Nice guys finish last.

I have never understood that either. I have a friend whos boyfriend is so fucking mean to her it is ridiculous. But then she would never leave him. I just don't get it. I mean even if he has a big dick or some flow...is it worth sticking around for that? Aren't there other big dicks and dudes with cash out there? She is for sure a glutton for punishment.

butter melts out of habit

Oh that is bullshit. No one wants to be treated without respect. I think sometimes people, both guys and girls, forget what it's all about and take their partner for granted. Usually the partner puts up with it way too long, hoping it will stop and things will either go back to normal or find some other good point of normalcy.

But then again men always like to chase, I guess when you start being too nice to them they decide you're a pushover.

Discuss.

;)

I think females for one thing, like a good challenge. No one wants to have a guy that is a pushover, he'll get stepped on.

As for asshole boyrfriends, sometimes the abuse just grows on the woman, and they eventually feel worthless as a person. When you feel like shit about yourself, you don't realize you are too good for this person.


BG

True that what Sly_RJ said

My theory is girls want the "Bad boy" type so they can try to mold them how they want.

The kind hearted male has no chance. :2 cents:

I think that is really what has happened with my friend. She says she thinks she is so ugly but she is actually hot as shit. Nice body, beautiful blonde...He beats her down mentally though.

yeah if these guys acted this way early on or you said to them what they would eventually do they would never go willingly into it. they gradually become desensitized to it. it's the same premise as battered woman's syndrome

for every guy I know looking for a nice girl, i know atleast one girl looking for a nice guy. the problem is they never seem to be attracted to each other.

Because women thrive on drama, if ya treat em all nicey nice then there is nothing to bitch about.

you are in denial
you tell yourself this line of bullshit to make you feel better about not treating them right

I was in a very abusive (mentally) relationship. My boyfriend at the time would cheat on me, then blame it on me. There would always be moments where he would be nice - and that is one reason why I think I stayed - the potential of "changing" him into someone who could love me.


Also, I found a lot of girls that are insecure as I was at the time - get taken advantage of.

Its hard, but its definately a learning experience. Eventually I found a kick ass guy who is an ass sometimes, but so am I. We put each other in our places :)

BG

LOL, women want strong men not weaklings...by nature women are weak and men are stoong so it's only natural for them to be atrracted to strong men, i'm not saying beat a bitch ass, or shit like that but you must show strength...when chicks say they want a sensitve man they're just fukcing with :1orglaugh

I treat girls really damn nice and they always keep comming back

then again, I AM so damb fucking good looking



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your massive q factor helps:Graucho

You are all missing the point:
A girl wants a guy she can can call |)4|)|)`/...some one who is strong and will take care of her. Someone who make hard decisions for her and generally make her feel safe. Someone she can respect, because he knows what's best... She also wants a guy who will put up a fight, and not be a pushover. Who the hell wants a boyfriend who will do anything you say! I for one like to be put in my place every once in a while, I know that I don't know everything and that once in a while I need to be reminded. Guys who let me walk over them, or cry and whine about how much time they don't spend with me make me want to puke. Be men...for fuck's sake...thats ALL you have to do! I am so sick of pussy ass guys trying to wine and dine me and treat me like a fragile useless thing...I think there is equality in the sexes when men and women respect their own roles. I'll be loyal and honest and trusting and hot, you be manly and strong and take some goddamn charge. And stop fucking whining and crying like a chick! All of you!
(/rant)
then again, I'm single so what the fuck do I know? lol.
:2 cents:

:) i been fucking with chicks damn near half my life.....am i right or am i'm right

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he wants his mentality back

:thumbsup

Sounds like you know your place :winkwink:

Mmm know, I have a brain and occassionally like to use it.


BG

Mmm NO, I have a brain and occassionally like to use it.

Besides my Brain > my boyfriends brain :) (hide)


BG

Definitely not saying women don't have a brain, just saying we are better at some things and guys are better at other things...and I like to keep it that way. :)

everyone is missing the point 98% of the population is fucked in the head. Allot of wemon like to be treated badly and then allot of men have such small dicks they like to treat wemon badly.
Denial has no limits

this is true

Cuz it reminds them of their daddy and women are attracted to men who are like their fathers.

Honestly...cuz girls awant to be forever a challenge for the likes of us...I mean they don't want to stop being confusing and hella mysterious. ANd they like guys treating them shit so they can complain and whine and bitch forever with their friends...

You can't be sweet all of the time, they'll think you're gay.

Because the girls really don't want nice guys. They just think they do till they find them. I used to be nice to every girl I ever meet. It got me you are nice but I just want to be friends with over 35 girls. NICE GUYS FINISH LAST

She is so used to it and thinks she can't get anyone better. I know a few girls in the exact same situation. They have been cheated on lied to and treaded like shit but they stay because they believe they can't find better and don't want to be alone.

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Because the girls really don't want nice guys. They just think they do till they find them. I used to be nice to every girl I ever meet. It got me you are nice but I just want to be friends with over 35 girls. NICE GUYS FINISH LAST

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VERY TRUE

I always try to be nice to the ladies I meet. :)

Depends on the girl. You have the girls that will suck you dry ( and you can take that both ways) and girls that want to be treated hard, and everything in between. I guess you didn't meet the right one yet.

Psychology. They need your validation. When you are nice to them, compliment, show that you want/need them, that gives them their validation that they are pretty and worthy. Do this before you get laid, and well, what the fuck do they need you for anymore? You've already given them what they need.

When you don't, (but be nice, be witty, show your self worth) they will keep coming after you seeking this validation.

Stop dating girls. Try women.