strippers and girlfriends. a question
 

how do you answer the question that most girlfriends ask men about strip clubs and strippers.

"what do you get out of going to a strip joint? i just don't understand"


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"I like looking at naked women. Deal with it."
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More likely say something like :
"Its a male thing, you won't ever really understand and its no big deal. Its like going to a ball game or something. You don't see me asking what you get out of shopping all day, do you?"

valid question. I personally think they suck and are a waste of money.

I just tell mine that I am scouting new talent :Graucho

ohh i've answered this question differently with each occasion that an ex has asked me. and to this day i can never find a g/f that is pleased with the answer:helpme

My wife has finally accepted the fact that I like to look at other women and that doesn't mean I love her less or that I'm cheating or that i don't find her sexy.


Now THAT is a fucking accomplishment.


Of course she is probably lying and doesn't believe me.

Tell her " Cuz I can" that's all she needs to know.



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should i show her the back of my hand as well?


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Why not just be honest? Tell her it gets you all hot and thinking about coming home to her. :)

Try being a stripper and answering that question to a pissed off wife or G/f...

I personally wouldnt want my man wasting money on other girls... and if he is not spending money, he just doesnt need to be taking up space for someone that could be spending the money...

Noooo....... :glugglug

"I like naughty girls"

Simple as that!

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shit I go to strip clubs WITH my boyfriends

You can give out a number of answers, all I've found to be acceptable by gf's:

a) invite her so she can see for herself
b) your friends don't want to go anywhere else
c) you have no point going to a normal bar since you're not allowed to pickup anymore
d) you barely look at the stage anyways and mostly talk about work
e) you dont mind if she goes to a male strip club

Ofcourse if your gf is/was a stripper, then you shouldn't have a problem :winkwink:

c).... is a great reply:thumbsup


and e).... i've never had an issue with an ex of mine going to a strip club:)

some more thoughts?

I personally never have a problem because my first date is always to a strip club. I find out right then if they can hang and they also get to see it's not that bad. Down in south florida it's not unusual to see couples or even groups of girls there just hanging out

I have heard that one before....lol

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same thing as she does when she bonds with her girlfriends : its a guy thing. personally i think that if and when a woman is secure of her man, she wouldnt ask nor mind at all.

and no man should ever cheat on a girl whos as cool as that.

I HATE STRIP JOINTS!

fucking losers and dirty old men are the only people who enjoy them,

i see some dum ass bitch on stage looking at me thinking a want her, the only fun part is tossing loonies at the 2 bit,

I can guarantee it :1orglaugh

That's because that would be a lie. It's more like you come home from a strip club then look at your woman and wonder why you put the ring on that one instead of an uuber hot babe like the one you just left.

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :thumbsup

Wow, my guy always wants to know how I managed to get more lap dances than he did.

Go figure.

question for the guys who say they just go "to look". I know a lot of guys get lap dances and do more than "just look" My ex told that he got laps while we were going out and the stripper even bit his dick with her lips and played with his dick through his
pants and he got his dick grinded for 7 dances with this one girl. That is a lot more than "just looking" I would think. He said the whole point of going to strip clubs is to get grinded and the freaker the girls the better. Of course I don't have a problem with my guy looking at other people, but getting your dick bitten by a stripper is a bit extreme, no??

also, I wouldn't mind if a guy took me to a strip club. I'm a bit wild and I dress almost as provocative as a stripper anyways so I would probably fit right in (just a joke) but I'm not uptight so I don't mind going at all. If my ex would take me, I even would have gotten lap dances! The only problem is that my ex used to REFUSE to bring me. He was like "hell no, no real man takes his girl to a trip club. I ain't pussy whipped, I do whatever the hell I feel like". So he didn't even want me to come along. That's why he's my ex.

Pornwolf, why am I not surprised to find you in this thread? :disgust

you forgot the food is great.....

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You can come with me. :)

I just say its a guy thing and my gf understands. She asked why I havent been in a while.... its just like jerking off, all guys do it and if a chick cant understand that then she is fuckin ignorant.

I don't understand either personally. I'd rather go to a club and hit on a chic I have a shot with then throw my money away at a stripper.

Well good for you honey...But not all of us have a very UNDERSTANDING and OPEN-MINDED babes...

Strip clubs improve the sex lives of couples all across the country. Men go in, they get horny, and often they fuck their wives/girlfriends. When I've had boyfriends who didn't go on their own, I'd drag them to the club and pay for dances. (Although, I must admit I'd buy MORE dances for myself than for the guy. hehehe..)

I'm lucky coz my girl doesn't ask me! :winkwink: