women make the worst friends
 

help me out with a woman's perspective here.

this is for all the women out there that like to keep guys as just "friends"

why do you fall for a guy, that used to like you, after he finally gets with a new woman? why dont you be more open initially when the guy first approaches you?


enlighten me

Some girls are dumb... they don't want you until they realize that they can't have you.

that's hoes for you, they want what someone else always has, never what they have. and all they have is a stank ass pussy that they spend their lives giving away free to assholes until they trap one.

you think its jealousy?

or trying to get the unatainable?

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i agree with about 99% of that. there still are a few good ones out there. they just dont live near me

it's sad but it's true. even these hoes on here posting and think their pussy is made of gold are giving that shit away for free to some asshole.

eventually they trap one who falls in and can't climb out.

Once they have lost your attention, they want it back. Women...

*sighs* sometimes I am ashamed to be a female of the species. sorry, hon.

save yourself the time and call a ho a ho and bitch a bitch.

hehe good comment ;)
And I made exactly this experience...and women say men are hard to understand...

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lol, dont be ashamed...this has always been a touchy subject for me.





it seems like all of my life i've had sooooo many women as friends, when i made a move they didnt want to go with it....thats ok.....but once i started to see someone then my "girlfriends" would act up and get all offensive towards my new chick.


wtf?

Most of girls are dumb i think. pls correct if i'm wrong :winkwink:

lmao..ounfortunately, you are right :(

both
just avoid it
once you're available, all she'll want to be is friends again

When a girl tells you she just wants to be firends. She is really telling you she wont fuck you.. Plain and simple...

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oh i know that all too well.


its after i find another woman that all of the sudden they want to fuck me

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we (M & F) all want we dont already have....or cant have.

but womens choices need validation from other women...
so if a guy walks into a bar by himself - hes seen as a loser.
..if walks in with 1 or more hot babes - hes seen as desirable....because he MUST have SOMETHING (power, money, big dick, whatever)

to tell you honestly, i myself doesn't know & understand myself sometimes lol we are kinda hard to spell, sometimes, the rite guy is rite infront of me, but I choose to go with the wrong guy, and after I realized I am better off without him, its too late to go for the rite guy... awww women tsk tsk

It could be (this is just my hypothesis) that your female friend wanted to be friends for a while to check you out and maybe take things slow. Then this other girl comes along and you jump right into dating her, so girl #1's hand is forced and she has to accelerate her plans, therefore forcing her to admit her attraction to you and willingness to date.

But that's only if the world were a logical place, which it isn't.

Some people (men and women alike) are just dumb.

this whole thread is women in a nutshell really lol

Female Friends equate to a failed fuck attempt...

If a guy has a girl-friend, he failed to fuck her....MOVE ON!

7 years i knew this one girl. so i tried to date her after about 2 years. so the feeling out period was way over. and she didnt want to me. :( so i stayed friends with her because shes a real cool girl.


then, over the years she has always given a cold should to any girl that i dated. so recently she confessed to me that she wanted me. and i told her to back off because i was with another girl when she asked me.


long story short, shes put a huge wedge between our friendship now because i dont want to put up with her hiding her emotions anymore.

She sounds pretty flakey to me. She has no idea what she really wants or why she wants it. Tell her to call you when she gets her shit together. She'll stomp off and slam the door or hang up on you, but it's probably for the best.

simple solution, don't be friends with women :2 cents:

We aren't meant to understand them.

Just to chase em.

Accept it :D

What women want, and what women say they want are completely completely different things. Women say they want a guy who's nice, caring, affectionate, passionate, professional, attractive, respectful... etc etc. What they actually want is a guy who's the "alpha male", someone who's big, burley, and often times a complete idiot. And sometimes just being a complete idiot will suffice. Women are funny, because they'll equate someone who's attractive, to being intelligent, smart, and all those things they say they want. Women so often will take one look at a nicely dressed guy, driving a (fill in the blank), and say he's everthing they've been looking for WITHOUT knowing a damn thing about the guy.

So all you really need to do to for every woman to make all kinds of wonderful assumptions about you, is to dress nice, smell nice, look nice, and drive a nice car. With those bases covered, in her mind you'll be intelligent, caring, funny, affectionate, and respectful...

So just chalk it up to the fact that women are insane, and you'll be fine.

women play stupid games. fuck them


literally :Graucho

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this could explain why juicy picks up more chicks then me:(

Answer me this then Elli,

As you said; guy starts dating a new girl, girl #1 is now interested, because guy is dating girl 2. Why would it take another girl in the picture that girl #1 may have been interested the guy.

Women love playing head games...& thats my :2 cents:

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I forgot to add one more important point to my post. When you're unattractive, women make the same kinds of assumptions, but in a negative sense. You'll be unintelligent, uncaring, unaffectionate, disrespectful... all BEFORE you even open your mouth.

And any women that wants to debate this can look it up in the Intro to Psychology school book sitting on your shelf.

pretty much true.. fuck em.

I don't think she's doing it conciously, and therefore it's not a "head game". She just thought she had him reserved for her own use for a while, but when another female entered the scene, she realized that she wanted what the other woman was getting.

She's still a flake.

because women love all the attention they can get. so when they lose one, they start to panic and eventually try to win back the guy.odd? that's nature taking its course. i think.....:2 cents:

lol


i didnt intend this thread to be a woman bashing thread.:)

i will always love women and the huge part they play in my happiness when i find one that i truly click with.

i need to stop having women as friends:1orglaugh

The second you do that, youll realize that your getting laid alot more, and your quality of life will be upped by 50%

All women know what they are doing conciously and & unconciously.:1orglaugh

shes definitely a flake.


she was a great friend over the years though. unfortunately, people change. she even used this line on me...


"hey, if both of us arent married by the time we hit 30 then lets get married".

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so now she's the 6th woman that has said that to me over the years...........lol.............i better get married before i hit 30 because then i'm gonna have issues having to chose between 6 women.

i think the answer is two fold...even though the woman does not want you....it is sort of a let down for him to "get over you" and move on to someone else...perhaps ego makes them try for you to see if they can still get you.

on the other side of the coin i think that once you are gone they might think bank and understand just how great you were and how you were there all the time..and they just didn't see it and they made a mistake

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i've never had a problem getting laid, but i was never a "don juan" either.

i've wasted too much time trying to build relationships with women who have wanted to be only friends.

well said.

its her mistake in my eyes, i'm the kind of guy that will move on and meet new people. hope that she can too. but our friendship is gonna suffer...

i am female, and i have to admit to not being able to understand women myself at times. if i lose a chance with a guy, thats my fault if he had been trying. but i sure as hell am not going to chase him when he gets with someone else. i really do believe alot of times its ego or wanting what you lost or cant have.

lol So i guess fucking with a womans ego is a good way into their pants huh...

ya, where do all the nice woman hide out?

to get a woman when you poor and rich follow this:

when you poor:
-try to play alpha male (might get u into trouble but there's no way around it)
-try to diss her couple times so she will see you as an asshole and then play it like you still like her
-try harder by making jokes and running around her (showing you got energy)
-be an asshole

when you rich(or got decent dollar):
-drive nice car
-don't run around her, play it cool (she will see you not desprate fuck and will want to get to know u)
-pretend like you doing something big
-when she calls, sometimes don't pick up, call her the next day and say you had to do somehting
-you can dress whatever, as long as she knows you not average joe who's fucking broke..

or just be yourself and who gives a fuck what they think

yeah i agreed women they are so crazy sometimes :fart but in one way man they deserve what women do to them