If a couple has fought A LOT is there any hope for the future?
 

Say you've been dating a girl for 6 months and you've spent probably 4 months of that fighting over stupid stuff, is there a possibility of a peaceful future? lol

Yes. :)

Why would you want a future?

Sure there is! Make up sex is the best! :thumbsup

One of you will have to change unless you like fighting. Petty arguments are just that: petty. In many cases they can be avoided by one partner taking the high ground.

SpaceAce

Are you nuts? You're better off without each other. Why prolong the agony?

it's possble, but in your case, NO i see her leaving your within 5 months and i'm sure she got some dick on the side, you're too dumb to realize she's fighting wiht you so you can break it off with her.....

I think it is still possible. but only if you two really want to be with each other. Alot of succesful marriages go through alot of fighting.

if you work at it, theres a chance you'll hit a peaceful balance which will bring you lots of happiness.

Oh no, not you again. :(

All couples must be able to fight in order to survive. Some fight more often, just to blow off steam. If it's done well with no hard feelings in the end, then all's well that ends well.

But if it's not comfortable, then maybe it's time to call it done. Both of you have to want to make it work to succeed.

Absolutely not. In cases like that, a murder/suicide is usually the only answer.

yep

I didn't say anything about this happening to me... although I was just kind of sitting here reflecting on some things and wondered if past arguments/fights would leave a little scar for the rest of the relationship. A lot of day to day conversation seem to slip a little something up from a previous argument.

That, or I just smoked some really good stuff tonight, lol.

Sure there is hope. Give it a little more time and remember a few things, like there doesn't always have to be a winner.....and learn when to pick your battles and when to leave them for another day when things can be talked about when each of you are in a better frame of mind.

jesus people....don't you watch dr. phil?

if you have to ask something like this, then NO!

hehe

I hate Dr Phil !!! :feels-hot

I already smell another fight coming :(

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Doesnt sound like a very good match.. unless you guys like the drama.

Agreed. :ak47:

exactly. :thumbsup

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I'll hit her for you dude.

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

If you can't get along on a day to day basis, time to call it quits.

Fighting over actual issues is one thing, but a basic incompatibility or lack of respect that causes you to argue all the time? You're starting off at a defecit before you've even hit any rough patches. :(

well, he did say 4 out of 6. So I guess that's pretty bad.

ahaha thats just too funny :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

It depends. How often? What about? How long does the fight usually last? Is making up sweet?

Doubtful.. unless you like the constant fighting (some people do..) I'd find a better match.

i fight with the Mr everyday. i just call it "Training" each other. :winkwink:

:1orglaugh That's what it seems like. Mainly fights about something that someone did that we didn't like. Example: she got so worked up when I "P.S.'ed" the "I love you" in an e-mail.

Sounds like your both a bunch of drama queens who need the focus of attention from others upon your relationship because it lacks any real inward focus or interest and the only way to make it worthwhile for both of you is to create interest in yourselves as a couple from an outward source. Dump her and move on, find a girl you have something in common with that you can create a stable, less dramatic relationship.


Just my :2 cents:

No, just stoned, lol.

Dammit, I actually started this thread NOT to bring attention to my relationship. Was just a general question!! lol... this always happens :( :1orglaugh

Of course there is...in moderation

Every couple fights once in a while. But it should also be noted that they should make it up before bed time!

I'm just fucking wit ya man. having a little fun. It always helps to talk to others about relationship problems. Dont mind me, im just a dickhead when I've had no sleep. :glugglug to ya.

No problem dude. I took no offense anyways. :)

Depends if the one that does the stuff that you are fighting about wants to change. A lot of couple fight over small things because there is a bigger issue that they don't talk about. Work on it and if it doesn't change you can better split up.

That's been our policy for years: never go to bed angry. Talk it out until you're done and dont' let it fester. If that means you stay up all night, then so be it. Then have wild monkey sex and go to sleep :)