There is something about being a dad, and bonding with your kids.
 

Those of you that were around a few years may remember when I was able to bond with my then 18 year old daughter by going to an Aerosmith concert together. It was a great way for a father and daughter to bond. Rock and roll.

Well, tonight I had a true bonding experience with my 20 year old son.

He had been working all day, I had been gone all evening. After parking my bike at my friends house I noticed that my cell had a message for me. I checked my voice mail, and my son had left me a message.

Seems he and some of his buddies were going to a local club and he wanted me to join him.

So, my son and I went to our first strip club together. Can a father and son share a more special moment?

Definitely a Cosby moment

Congrats man! I just wish I had a father worth even spending time with! :thumbsup

jDoG

Why do you say that?

Yeah, it is pretty cool when your kids think enough of you to feel comfortable asking you to go to a rock concert or a strip club with you.

I know I never would have invited my dad to either of those events when I was 18-20 . . . .even less likely now.

thats pretty cool that they are that old and still want to spend time with u..u must be one of those "cool" parents

Because my father has never cared about my life. When I was a child all he did was come home from work & drink. Then he would use the excuse that he had one beer already so he couldn't do anything! He also left my mother & I three times for other girls in europe. So I have no respect for him!

And I figure since I didn't need him as a child, I don't need him as a adult.

jDoG

:glugglug

That's how I would love a relationship with my kids, if/when I have some. I've always wanted that father/son relationship that I never had.

jDoG

Thanks for sharing your story. This is yet another reason why there should be LICENSES to be a parent. Hell, people need a license to drive, have a business, etc But to be a parent (perhaps the GREATEST job in the world) no need for a license....

Do you listen to Tom Leykis? He's been bringing that up alot recently.

Yea, I can go with people needing licenses to have children, cuz there are a lot of fuck ups out there that shouldn't ever have children!

jDoG

You're an awesome dad!

That's awesome man...

It's got to tell you something when your son invites you out to a club when he's out with his friends there already :thumbsup

Gosh , brings tears to my eyes:waaaaahh :waaaaahh Nice...Seeing as I only have girls, I will have to think of something else:thumbsup

Yeah . . . . I am pretty cool for an old guy I guess :)

There are lots of girls that go to strip clubs, it is cool :winkwink:

That is pretty cool, baddog...

Tev is taking our son to a lacrosse game tonight...first time a pro team has made it out our way.

Damn man, that's awesome. :)

Pro lacrosse? I had no idea

Coooool...

I would NEVER do something like that with my father, but in about 16 or 18 years maybe my boy will call me up on the brain-implant communicator and invite me to the holodeck sex shows...

Yeah, it would have been a true Kodak moment, except they did not allow cameras in there