is this a loser?
 

My brother is 39, single and broke, he lives on his own, but does that make him a loser?

depends if he is generaly liked or not

he doesnt live with mommy and daddy so no
he's close though

whats his nick ? :Graucho

loser

I agree, as long as he doesn't live with Mom and Dad he will be okay :winkwink:

He is about to move, he is broke and his friends laugh at him

I think it depends on the feeling he had on his situation,
happy --> winner
lonely --> loser

:)

nice friends.

yeah, friends is the wrong word for ppl like that.

His friends are cool, I think they just think he will land on his feet, but I am having my doubts, I want to help him, but we shall see.

Sounds like's on the path anyways.

No that doesn't make him a loser

Stasia

he is at rock bottom, he thinks there is no hope, no one really knows him and I dont think his friends really want to.

It is hard to tell if he is liked, sometimes he seems like he is on top of the world, but that was a while ago, I am worried

Can he still get hard?

He got a problem. Ever asked him what's bothering him?

don't think he's a loser...

I try but he says that I am the only one who does, it gets frustrating for me, he is a funny bastard but I guess that only takes you so far.

Depends...is he poor or is he just broke? There's a difference:winkwink:

Ivy

well he went through a lot, so he is poor and broke, he had surgery and lost a lot of work, now he thinks women dont want him because he has no money, he never had a problem getting any before, but I can see where it is a confidence buster.

:( that sucks! Why don't you give him money?

I do give him some, but I dont have enough to support him or I would, I really dont think it is all the money, he has gone through a lot in a year, most people dont go through that in their lifetime.

Thanks everyone for your opinion, I dont know what to do with him, just needed some outside thoughts.

Depends if hes trying to get himself back up on his feet then hes just in a bad phase but if hes just sitting there and complains then yeah.

Down on his luck... not a loser.

that sounds about right... I agree...

He is trying, he just keeps getting kicked, just when things start going good they seem to get messed up on him. One thing I can say for him though I have never known him to say no to anyone.

I don't think so

Maybe he just had some bad luck. I hope things will turn around for him real soon.

if he is happy with is current situation, then no, he is not a loser.

all I ever want in life is to be happy.

Just because he's broke and alone, we can call him a loser. He's just a little down, that's all.

no its not like he still lives with his parents

Why are you so concerned about a label? In 100 years it aint going to matter anyway.

id be his friend

Tons of people are single and broke. At least he doesn't still live at home at that age!

I agree but he might have to move back with our parents or I offered to let him move in with me. He doesn't want either but might be foreced to sell his stuff he worked hard for. It is a touchy subject, he really has never borrowed anything from anyone, he has to much pride.

Know what seperates losers from winners?

Ambition.

:2 cents:

Couldnt have said it better. All you people that say if hes happy then he's a winner are totally wrong. If he's happy where he's at then hes a LOSER. If he wants to do better and improve his situation, then he's a winner and it will happen.

maybe he swings both ways

I don't believe it actually makes him a loser

Who cares, help the guy out. :)

Nope... he's cool... I mean the dude lives on his own ... could be worse, he could still live with his parents!:thumbsup

So the only prerequisite of not being a loser is "living on your own"? I feel there should be stricter requirements.

no comment.

I agree with you about this, he has plenty of ambition, I just dont think he has a lot of people besides me that believes in him.

not a loser

My brother didnt make it, he will be missed[IMG]

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Bless you bro

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