should I rat out my friend????
 

he is starting to use coke. he started off drinking, then pot, then x, and now coke.

should i tell his family, or do you think they already know?:helpme

age?

Is he single or has a wife and kids?

sounds like a normal progression. get him some help.

telling his family will only make things worse,, u gotta talk to him

you gotta let him destroy his life, fuck up family, and hit rock bottom. If he wants help he will seek it, if he doesnt kill himself or someone else.:2 cents:

depending on how often.. seeing as he went from drinking to these drugs i'm guessing its like once a weekend?

.. i have a few friends completely fucked off x,pot and coke which is why i wouldnt touch the shit.. i'm always up for a beer tho!

I would talk to him about it before going to his parents, you dont wanna lose a friendship over it. Tell him he's fucking himself up.

only if he's 16 or younger, lol.

26

Talk to him. If he thinks he doesn't need your help, that's the time you could tell his family. Goodluck!

it's his life - if he was 14 i'd be worried, at 26 none of your concern

no kids. but has a gf

no parents, you talk to him if you're uncomfortable with him using those drugs

When he starts loosing wieght his family may find out anyway. but you should talk to him about it

already done that, but he says ge can quit whenever he wants and that he doesnt have a problem

I talk to him...Some won't listen I got a friend doing 3-5 in prison cause he didn't listen

I've had friends that I knew were cheating on their wives. That was always so hard to hold inside.

I hate that crap.

are you serious?

my best friend is going out with a guy that is doing shit like that.
He is 33 and he says that he will change, and quit blah blah

is there hope or he is bullshitting?

Talk to him, heart to heart. Tell him what you think, and what you feel.

If he is a good friend then get involved... if not... its not your place.... can't save the world man

the biggest problem with these kind of shit is the lying, lying all the time, lying to everyone

yeah, its a weekend only thing, but its just really fucked because I remember him always saying that he would never touch the shit and nows its like the biggest event of the weekend

grind up some insulation into his coke
he'll stop real fucking quick

26 and no kids and gets on it on a weekend?
It's not your business to run to his parents - he's not a child.
Sure if he starts doing it of a weekday have more than a chat to him and if it looks serious maybe some kind of intervention but a weekend coke habit isn't the sort of thing to be running to his mommy and daddy for.

A lot of people who say they can stop when they want can't.

no nope

I have the same fucking question on my head or at least had a month ago, i have a freind who's into coke just like urs, but thisone does it 24/7 everyday somehow his parents dont fucking know. Well i stopped chilling with him and told him to go fuck him self, don't do the same thing I did, good friends are hard to come by!

U guys have no fucking clue about cockheads, talking to them has 0 effect on it whatsoever 0! infact its like -50%!

Addicts to cocke will tell you whatever you want to hear, they'll lie like motherfuckers and look serious at times (ie you can't tell its a lie) They'll keep doing it and doing it, their system gets used to it and they need it to go on with their regular life!

Oh, fuck off....

Drinking, Ecstacy, and Coke are all fun. If he's doing them too much tell him what you think... let him make his own decisions.

Depends.. is it just a friend or is it a best friend type thing?

I wouldnt get involved if this isnt some life long friend..

i think you should have helped him stop earlier

How much is he doing? Once an hour? once a day? once a week? once a month?

If he's addicted, you have to realize that it is alot better to be addicted to coke than nicotine. Do you smoke?

Cocaine has no physical addiction associated with it, there is a strong mental addiction but that will pass after he hasn't touched it for a week or two...

Moderation is the key, and if he just started I highly doubt he's doing too much... I give him an A+ for expanding his mind :thumbsup

Depends on the person.. the drug has little to do with it.

I may not have a clue about cockheads, but i know a thing or two about cokeheads...

Some fuckup, others live comfortable for years. Fact of the matter is if someone is doing coke, they're already a step ahead of all the losers living in back alley's smoking meth.

He won't like it if you tell his family but then that's what friends are for! You're only thinking about his future, aren't you?

That's like me telling his drug dealer that he may be 1 customer less, thanks to you....

how old is he

You should only rat him out if he owns a gun, and is prone to seeking revenge.

Cheers,
:glugglug

Amen brotha...

...leave him alone dude. It isn't your job to jump in and save him. I have done coke socially for well over 15 years and I must say, in moderation it is no worse than alcohol. Stop trying to be the hero and let your friend choose his own path.

its his problem let him work it out

Let him live his life........

You might try reading the thread :2 cents:

notice how all the coke heads say leave him alone and all the peeps with some decency say help him out in this thread lol

gotta love gfy

That is so true. I losed a friend over coke, he started using over the weekend and then it got worse and worse. He started lying about it, and when he started stealing my money I told him to get lost. I tried talking to him about it, but he just would not listen, just made things worse.

But there are a lot of people who only use on weekends and who can controle it, so I would just start to worry if he is starting to get 'junky tricks'


xox

bo

Talk to him and let him know you're concerned, but don't expect him to change just because you said something. He'll change (or not) when he's ready. Your words may help, or they may not. As a concerned friend you have a certain obligation to say something, but don't be a nag. He may just need someone to say they care, or he may not give a fuck. He's a grownup; he'll make his own choice.

Most cokeheads burn out on the stuff and clean up on their own. It might just be a brief phase. Best wishes.

Take him to a drug rehab program, if he leaves its his own problem :2 cents:

is he an addict ?
how much coke does he use ?

there many levels of drugs use, but not all are considered addiction. some people only do a few lines at weekends,
others do 5-10 grams a day.

if he is only a casual social weekend user, then you shouldn't rat him out, he is not an addcit and you have nothing to worry about.

Only if he takes coke EVERY day, ALL day long, then he has a problem, and will need serious rehab.

:glugglug

ha ha :1orglaugh -

when coke is fun, its fucking fun. It gets old and boring at different times for different people, and it may have to take its natural course with yo friend.

... i realized one morning that coke was some nowhere shit - it was ez to quit at that point. Call and ask for advice on what you should do ... al-anon i think its called.

for some people coke can be a very casual drug, for some a bad addiction - you might be worried about nothing, other than him scoring a bag cut with fiberglass

damn those first few times were fun!

Exactly, coke is one of those things your body lets you know that it just can't take. I was doing an 8 ball a day for a while but after a while, my body just started to shut down and things that should have been simple no longer were. He will see this. Waking up with bloody noses and having his eyes burning out of his skull @ 7 am when all the coke is gone will either make him or break him. Either way though...it's his choice.