RANT: Don't tell us about your new bf's for fuck's sake. We don't give a fuck.
 

My ex just called me.. We had a nice conversation going and then she starts telling me about her new boyfriend. Fuck it. WTF is wrong with her?

I DON'T GIVE A FUCK.. and I told her.

I don't give a fuck if she loves him
I don't give a fuck about her wanting to move in with him
I don't give a fuck about where he's from
I don't give a fuck about what his name is unless I decide to beat him up

I dont' give a fuck about him either.

I hear you man....chicks are messed in the head :feels-hot

I guess that's what happens when one wants to stay "friends" after. Afterall that is something that you would share with your "friends"

Just a thought.

Thats just a ploy to try to keep her as a fuck friend and not have to deal with all the other crap ;-)

i smell jealousy in the air

LOL people break up for a reason, fuck friends are a dime a dozen. Not that easy to be fuck friends with an ex.

just beat your meat and think of a 3some:1orglaugh

Then just don't be friends and leave it at that.

Problem solved.

well if you're up to some crazy shit...
here's the short version..
we broke up 6 months ago, we made up (and had great sex, i must add) just before she moved to costa rica 3 months ago, then i get a 8 fucking page letter (A LETTER, not an email.) from her telling me all about how much she loves me.. i tell her right then that i pretty much don't care about that right now, but wouldn't mind getting back together with her when she gets back and we still have feelings for eachother.. i mean she's tens of thousands of miles away and the least i want is be tied up with her in some way or the other. being the gentleman i am, i don't want to hurt her and tell her i love her too but stay realistic and tell her that noone knows what'll happen.. i got an email from her 2 weeks ago and she tells me she loves me. great, i think. keeping her hot for when she gets back. then she fucking calls me up and tells me she's madly in love with that new guy.

wtf? it's not like i ever told her i wanna be friends with her and much less hear about her new boyfriends.
:warning

I don't mind hearing about the exs new BF. You can learn a lot about yourself and her by who they choose after a long relationship.

If it bothers you that much I wouldn't talk to her at all.

are you buddhist?

No

what does it take to make yourself learn about yourself from things like that. you have to agree that it's not, by nature, a very constructive thought..

Well then yes, that does suck. Good luck!

:1orglaugh

I know that feeling. Never be friends with an ex.

What's this world coming to?

ahahaha what kind of woman does that shit? i would never do that shit...she must have no dignity whatsoever

If you are not fucking her or you are not using her to fuck other girls, theres no reason to be "friends with her", unless you like banging your head against the wall.

Thanks for the wise words. :thumbsup

same here man...

At first glance it may not seem constructive. Perhaps it is morbid curiousity for some. The "what does he have that I dont have" type thing. But you can also see things about yourself that may help you down the road. What is he providing her with that you didn't because you couldn't or perhaps didn't want to. Were you to complacent etc. I think you get the point. It can help in future relationships.

By nature I am hard wired not to feel pain from social break ups like that. I rarely feel jealousy and when I do I channel it into something more productive. Most aren't like that and wouldn't understand.

lol, good job!!! :1orglaugh

To do that you need to figure out some kind of logical pattern of the way the female brain works.
They don't always go by the 'he can give me something he can't' type of thing, they're strange creatures.

Girl! Please tell me what the fuck she was thinking.. as a girl you must have an idea.. right?

Oh I agree. They are very strange creatures. There is some logic though and perhaps because I don't feel the pain of the break up I go searching for it. Who the fuck knows.

In your case I just wouldn't talk to her anymore period. No need to frustrate yourself and she has no place telling you that shit unless shes trying to make you jealous.

Good luck moving on.

She was just trying to make you jealous. I personally don't announce that information to an ex. unless I'm asked. To bring that up out of the blue is pretty immature.

I wish I could say she wasn't worth it. Love is a weird thing, must be female.

please i now better!!!

good thing shes the *ex*, cause thats just flat out dumb! my guess is she wants to make u jealous and still wants ur cock!!! :Graucho

Friendship after the sex is ended is unecessary. I only take calls from ex lovers in case of emergency and Christmas time.

Thanks for cheering me up.. :)

any time babe!!! **kiss**

Sounds like she is trying to make you jealous.
Get a new girl closer to home.

everyone konws the rule girls = evil!

you don't care but it got under your skin enough for you to post in a frustrated manner...she won.

hmm I disagree. If it were me, and I still wanted the ex cock I wouldn't mentin the new guy at all. You are in the friend zone now. Nail her best friend, sister, or worst enemy. It will make you feel better. :)

..and most importantly will piss her off. :)

sarah..

totally.. but fuck it.

Friend zone sounds worse than brussel sprouts.

Why does she even bother calling me?

ummm im a girl, i know how they think......trust me on this one :)

I don't know what she is thinking for certain. Butl she told you all the "I love you" crap. So maybe she does genuinely care about you and wants you in her life still. Btw I am a girl too. :)

they say there's no such thing as bad press.. she's back on top of my mind again. wonder how i'll think of her when she gets back..

nice to have girls in my thread :)

want her email address? :glugglug

whoops my bad!!! RAWK on!!! hee hee :)

It's all good! I'm all woman..I'll show you sometime. :Graucho

Woo Hoo, lookin forward to it *kiss*:)

Sweet! TheMob, you can watch, might help take your mind of the ex???

Who? http://gofuckyourself.com/images/icons/stonedsmilie.gif

sounds like you have some issues . . . why are you talking to her anyway, unless you still care about her