Is CyberSex Cheating?
 

If you have cybersex with a webcam girl, is that cheating???

discuss ...

If there is emotional involvement, yes.

no

i dont imagine my wife would be impressed, and i wouldnt either if she did online..

it's borderline, if not cheating..

Just masturbation

ok.. if someone has a real significant other why the hell would they want to have "cybersex"... :1orglaugh

hmmm......somebody say cybersex?

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh

If what you're doing feels wrong enough to make you even ask this question, it is.

I dont think its cheating myself. :2 cents:

If its beyond friendship with a person of the opposite sex, its cheating. If she wants to do it with someone of the same sex....I just consider that opportunity for fun.

Only if you get caught.


This has been asked so many time before too.

I would say yes.

I wouldnt be impressed if i caught my wife kissing someone..let alone fingering herself on cam for them..

Hell yeah its cheating...maybe not by the conventional use of the term but run it by your wife...see what she says...haha

for woman yes, for men no.

We guys must look at other girls, its our natur.
Most (normal) girls just dreams to get married, do you?

Thats the difference between us.
So if your girl have cyber sex, good luck!

We have a very large world wide webcam chat community, part of the site is a regular survey that we run. Back in Sept '03 we asked exactly that question "Is CyberSex Cheeting?" ...

We received a total of 17,000 responses and 500 detailed comments from all over the world ... and here's the result;

YES: 20.9%
NO: 68.8%
NOT SURE: 10.29%

There were some very heated comments on both side of the fence, but by an overwhelming majority NO won.

It?s only cheating if it is done in secret. Tell your partner your having a bit of a fun flirt with some chick/ guy on line and just enjoy it LIE FREE!!!
xx Bessie
www.bessiebardot.com

if emotion is involved, yes

or else its just like watching porn

What if the cam girl is your significant other?

She is not :Graucho

This is so stupid.... if you have to ask people, then all you're doing is trying to justify it... trying to rationalize away the guilt you're feeling.

Don't ask others if THEY think it's cheating. If you feel guilt over this, if you have to question it at all, then why the hell would you do it?

I'm not married or involved with anyone, but if I was, and I was put into any kind of position where I felt that my woman may feel that I'm cheating, I just wouldn't do it.

I wouldn't has a bunch of pornographers to try to feel justified in doing it.

My wife and I have found the joys of voeyruism and exhibitionism on a couple cam sites and are constantly playing with other people and couples online.

I con't really gt upset when she does it by herself nor does she care when I do it...we have a very strong relationship and generally a hot cam session makes for a hotter time in bed. We're not out to meet these people in person and if we do meet for coffee or something it doesn't go further.

We don't do it all the time and it doesn't replace our intimacy with each other.

I've personally never understood jealousy. I guess I'm secure enough in my own marriage that I don't have a reason to be. We're very open about things and constantly discuss situations. See, we do this crazy thing i a relationship called talk.

So, is it cheating? who knows. I think it all depends on the intent. If some shlub isn't getting any loving from his wife or vice versa, maybe they have a deeper problem. Having said that, for those with a strong relationship, it can extra spice.

Maybe for us it adds spice and works well because we're open with each other and if she doesn't like someone I'm playing with online and vice versa, we let each other know it and respect each others' feelings.

What if you unknowingly have cybersex with your cybersex cheating spouse? Now is that cheating?

or worse
what if you're whacking away on your vidoe camera to some faceless vagina being fingered on the opposing webcam..and after you've completed your task, you discover it's a sibling?

this is why I demand to see a face first....

That would be a bit sticky

HAHA only if you get caught!!

I've peeked in on the private webcam at my house from a friends house and saw my man stroking it. Usually to pics of our friends. DAMN pervert!

its cheating not in classical form but still its cheating

http://www.squeezeboobs.com/gfy/boobs0085.jpg

Someone cheat with me!!

Simple definition of cheating for me: Anything you decide you actively have to hide from your partner and vice versa. If you can't give them an honest answer or get one back, something's not right.